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Arden's Day Blog

Arden's Day is a type I diabetes care giver blog written by author Scott Benner. Scott has been a stay-at-home dad since 2000, he is the author of the award winning parenting memoir, 'Life Is Short, Laundry Is Eternal'. Arden's Day is an honest and transparent look at life with diabetes - since 2007.

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Dealing with a Severe Adhesive Allergy

Scott Benner

That’s Not Just Contact Dermatitis

This is a guest post from a D-mom named Rachel Morgan who was a recent guest on my podcast. At one point we spoke about her son Henry's severe adhesive allergy and I asked her if she would be interested in contributing a blog post on the subject. I think you'll agree that Henry's situation was dire and that his mother's insistence on finding an answer that would allow him to continue to use his diabetes technology, is nothing short of impressive.

Henry's back. Click to enlarge 

Living with diabetes means you get gut punched several times a week, whether it’s a bad low, an out of control birthday party complete with grocery store cup cakes,  chips, soda, and pizza, or simply watching your sleeping child hold out his finger for a 2 am BG check. Our three year old son, Henry, was diagnosed in March of 2014 and by late May he was on an Animas pump and Dexcom. With these tools in place, we felt some of the control diabetes had devoured starting to return. We could see what a long car ride did to Henry’s blood sugar, so we increased his basal by 30% and had perfect numbers on a 15 hour car ride. Double arrows down caught a scary low of 48 on a hot August day at the zoo. Then all the sudden, we were double and triple gut punched in October of 2014 when this happened. 

Within 48 hours the reaction became systemic. Click to enlarge

Henry developed a tape and adhesive allergy and within 48 hours the reaction became systemic. 

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Type 1 is an autoimmune disease, and Henry also developed a severe tape and adhesive allergy. His primary care physician and Endo were worried about anaphylactic shock; he was given oral steroids (hello, high blood sugars!) and a horse load of Benadryl, and we were told to stop using devices with adhesive and go back to multiple daily injections (MDI). We took the Dexcom off but we wanted Henry to stay on the pump for the benefit of his long term health. I became that mom. I scoured the internet and made an insanely detailed power point, which I sent to every medical professional who would listen. I researched colostomy care because I felt we were really dealing with skin breakdowns and wound care. 

I found a CDE through Children with Diabetes who lectures on tape and adhesive allergies, and she called me back that night, and a few days later some of her personal T1D supplies showed up in our mailbox, and with a few more phone calls, research, and a little trial and error, here’s what we do to prepare a pump site. 

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  • Wash area with warm water and antibacterial soap— Do not use alcohol
  • Completely dry the area
  • Apply one puff of Flonase (sweet-talking or demanding this prescription from Endo or PCP is necessary)
  • Apply thin layer of Cavilon barrier cream (Amazon)
  • Apply a  6cm X 7cm  layer or Tegaderm HP 9534HP (NOT Tegaderm!!) Check with your pump supplier— some insurances cover this and it’s shipped with pump supplies. You can also purchase Tegaderm HP from Amazon.
  • Place inset through Tegaderm HP
  • We place another layer of Tegaderm on top to secure the pump site and provide an extra layer or barrier for the adhesive of the detach inset
  • When wet, blow dry site with hair-dyer on a cool setting
  • Apply prescription Hydrocortisone after removing the Tegaderm HP and old site
  • Remove any extra adhesive from the old site at bath time with calendula oil
A rashless, T1D strong Henry today!

A rashless, T1D strong Henry today!

The wounds eventually healed after six months. I’ve heard some people describe these wounds as burns, and the skin damage is extensive. Henry’s skin is finally healed, and we’re about to try Dexcom again, using the above preparation method, but with a hydrocolloid barrier, like Johnson & Johnson Tough Pads, sandwiched between the layers of Tegaderm HP. I’ve read about people successfully using Duoderm and blue tape, a kind of baby tape used in NICU’s, as a barrier and adhesive method, but we have yet to try these products.

Being a T1D parent is really difficult, so I’ve learned to find joy in the small victories, like staying on a pump. We’re taking it one number at a time and moving forward. 

You can listen to my conversation with Rachel right here in this post, on iTunes, Stitcher, at JuiceboxPodcast.com or with your favorite podcast app.

The insulin bottles pictured in the header of this blog post are from the first eight months of Henry's life with type 1. Rachel knitted a heart for each... If you have questions about the process Rachel described in this post, you can contact her here.


Sometimes Your Blog Makes Me Feel Like a Failure

Scott Benner

A long time ago on a blog far far away lived the father of a little girl who has type 1 diabetes... 

Many years ago during a conversation with a fellow diabetes parent named Michelle I learned something about my blog that I was painfully unaware of... "Sometimes", Michelle told me, "Sometimes your blog makes me feel like a failure". This was of course, not my goal.

I was crushed because it wasn't Michelle who failed, it was me

Michelle and Mason

Michelle and Mason

Michelle went on to share with me that while she enjoyed Arden's Day and found it to be refreshing and honest, it felt like my writing focused more on what went right with diabetes and in fact that the lack of relatable 'diabetes fail' conversations left her feeling as if everyone was 'succeeding' but her and that she was failing her son Mason.

I took her words to heart

I spent the next few days rereading my own blog and I could see what Michelle was talking about. I wasn't purposely just talking about the 'good stuff' but my attempt to be positive for the community was definitely coming off slanted in that direction. So I changed how I share online with Michelle's brave words as my guide. The adjustment was difficult in many ways but also incredibly rewarding. Anyway, that was a long time ago and today I pride myself on how honest and completely transparent this blog is - Not only is Arden's Day now a complete reflection of my life with type 1 diabetes but I've seen the power of sharing the good and the bad and how it has helped to buoy other families in their times of trouble. 

I owe all of that, to Michelle Golladay and she is this weeks guest on the Juicebox podcast.

As you listen to Michelle and I talk about parenting and diabetes she'll spend a few moments telling me about a Parent Advisor Program that she has helped to set up at the Akron Children's Hospital - bringing the DOC IRL! I've included links here and in the show notes of the podcast, local Ohio residents and those interested in learning more should check them out.

You can listen to our conversation right here with the embedded player, on iTunesStitcher or your favorite podcast application. 


Dexcom and Apple Watch are here and they bring iPad support

Scott Benner

The Apple Watch arrives today and Dexcom has updated their apps to do more than just work on the watch...

This blog post is rather preliminary but important never-the-less because in addition to updating the Dexcom Share and Dexcom Follow apps to work with the new Apple Watch... Dexcom has also added iPad support - however you may not be able to find the apps on the app store without knowing this simple trick.

When you navigate, on your iPad, to the app store and search for Dexcom you won't receive any results - see below.

But if you change the drop down menu on the top left from iPad Only to iPhone Only you will - see below. This is because while the Dexcom Share2 and Follow apps do now work on iPad, they aren't designed (I hope Dexcom does eventually) for iPad. Meaning you will have to use the X2 button on the lower left of your iPad to upscale/enlarge the app to fit your iPad screen. Not the biggest problem, Instagram and many other apps are the same. Basically you are installing the iPhone app onto your iPad, a possibility that was blocked until the update happened.

So even if you aren't one of the people who are sitting by the front door waiting for their shiny new Apple Watch (Mine arrives in a few weeks and I will do a full review of the Dexcom app) this app update still brings some much needed iPad usability joy to your diabetes day. 


Inspired by Conversation

Scott Benner

I enjoyed having Kristina and Greg on my podcast so much that I asked them if they'd be interested in contributing a blog post to Arden's Day. It suffices to say that the topic Greg chose to write about warmed my heart! After you read his piece you can listen to their episode with the link below on iTunes, Stitcher or via the player that I've placed at the end of the blog post. Enjoy! - Scott

Time to Get More Aggressive!

Last week, my wife, Kristina, and I had the great pleasure of being featured on the 9th episode of the Juicebox podcast. It was a lot of fun and we both loved listening to it!


For parents of a child with type one diabetes, it’s fairly common for one parent to assume the majority of the diabetes management responsibilities. In our case, we pretty much split the duties (although, in full transparency, my wife does way more than I do!). We thought this would make for an interesting and entertaining discussion. When Kristina pitched the idea of an interview to Scott Benner at the Juicebox Podcast, it went like this….

“We'd love to be a part of one of your upcoming podcasts! Not sure if you've had any D-mom/D-dads reach out as a team to chat with you but we thought it might be fun. We have VERY different styles of managing Isabella's diabetes but it works.”

But, I’ll be honest; the podcast was completely Kristina’s idea and I really didn’t have much of a choice in the matter. My wife is extremely outgoing (understatement?) and jumps at the chance to speak in public forums. I, on the other hand, have always been a bit more reserved and would prefer to avoid being the center of attention, if possible.

So, for me, the thought of being interviewed is somewhat anxiety-inducing from the start and more so when my wife informs me that the interview very well may include some “newlywed style” questions to see how well we know each other. While I think know my wife very well (for years she has been preparing me for the off chance that we might someday appear on a famous live TV game show….I can’t count the number of times I’ve heard ”honey, remember this for when we’re on the game show!”), needless to say I started to get slightly nervous.

Kristina went first while I sat in the other room pretending as if I was completely calm, cool and collected and not at all anxious about the interview. All I could hear was Kristina’s muffled voice followed by her seemingly uncontrollable laughter, most likely telling one of her favorite “Greg stories.” Oh boy. Here we go…

It was finally my turn to join in on the fun. Scott immediately made me feel at ease; my nerves started to melt away and I actually started to enjoy myself. We spent quite a bit of time talking about the team-based approach that Kristina and I use for managing diabetes, which works very well for us.

While Kristina and I do act as a team, we have quite different approaches in the way we prefer to manage Isabella’s diabetes. Kristina tends to have a heavier hand with insulin (often generously “rounding up” carb counts), which helps to avoid highs. I, however, prefer to take a more conservative approach with insulin to avoid very low lows, especially overnight. The thought of what could happen to Isabella as a result of too much insulin absolutely terrifies me.

Scott seemed to be intrigued by the fact that we work as a team but with very different approaches. As a veteran type one diabetes parent, Scott shared some stories about his approach to managing diabetes. He talked about how technology, especially Arden’s Dexcom CGM, has enabled him to get comfortable with taking a very aggressive approach to insulin. This approach has led to very tight control (I still can’t believe Arden’s last A1C!).

This part of our talk really hit home.

While I’ve known that getting a bit more aggressive with insulin is likely to lead to better outcomes, I am completely terrified that I might kill my daughter with too much insulin. Our conversation helped me realize that I need to get over this fear. We have amazing technology at our disposal (including Isabella’s brand new Dexcom Share2, which is an amazing game-changer in my book!) that I can more fully leverage to help me get comfortable with becoming more aggressive with insulin, which will ultimately result in lower A1Cs, better overall control and a healthier little girl.

After finishing the interview, I believe one of the first things I said to Kristina was, “I’m gonna get more aggressive!”

It’s time to get over my fear. Thanks, Scott, for pushing me over the edge.


Greg Dooley
InspiredByIsabella.com

Arden's 504 Plan for Download

Scott Benner

504 Plan

Over the past few months I've received numerous requests for Arden's current 504 plan, I'm sorry that it has taken me so long to get it to you! This plan has been used at the fourth and fifth grade levels and I hope that it serves as a guide for you when you are crafting/creating/editing your child's 504. 

Please remember that a good 504 plan is no replacement for a great relationship with your school and that sometimes those relationships take a lot of time to cultivate. I hope you can take a moment to read a past blog post about that subject.

Episode 65 of the Juicebox Podcast is all about 504 plans... you can listen here but the cool kids use: Apple Podcasts/iOS - Spotify - Amazon Alexagoogle play/android - iheart radio -  or their favorite podcast app.

The Word file is available here. Arden's name and all personal information has been removed. Please feel free to use this document in anyway that will benefit your child. Please also remember that nothing that you read on Arden's Day is to be considered advice, my disclaimer says more. Decisions should always be made with he help of a physician.