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#428 Culture of Helping

Utah Adrianna

Adrianna is a young mother who lives with type 1 diabetes.

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Unknown Speaker 0:00
Are you checking her blood sugar?

Adriana 0:02
My insulin pump just well expired this morning. So I was just putting him back on. I can stop for a second.

Scott Benner 0:11
Don't stop, you're fine. It's a podcast about type one diabetes. If we can't let somebody put on an insulin pump during this, I don't know where in the world you'd be able to do it. The absolute place to do it, so talk me through what's going on while it happened. So you're pumped just expired it it just aged out.

Adriana 0:29
Well expired. Earlier this morning. I was half asleep, and then I didn't even realize it. But I took off my pump. Like off my body. I woke up and I was on my nightstand. So somehow in the middle of the night, because sometimes it'll just expire and I turn off the PDM. Okay, but I actually like ripped it off my body last night and it was like I'm sick of this. Yeah.

Scott Benner 0:54
So that way you did this in your sleep?

Adriana 0:57
Yeah, I am. I'm a pretty heavy sleeper.

Scott Benner 1:03
Alright, let's start over. How are we gonna refer to you? So since we're recording already?

Adriana 1:09
Oh, okay. Um, well, I'm Adriana and I live in good old Utah, and I've been diabetic for only six years. So I was I was 18 when I got diagnosed.

Scott Benner 1:34
Hello, friends, and welcome to Episode 428 of the Juicebox Podcast today proving that in fact, the Juicebox Podcast is the number one type one diabetes podcasts in Utah, another guest from the great state of Utah. She's got a great story to please remember, while you're listening that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan. or becoming bold with insulin. You know, I've never been to Utah. I might have to go. I think I would be treated like a I don't know exactly. I feel like there would be like a red carpet. And someone would bring flowers to the airport. Utah. I love you. And I have no idea why so many people from your state. Listen to this show. I'm gonna figure it out one day. Does Adriana have the answer? Maybe. Anyway, I really want to call this episode Utah, Adriana. But I don't know if I'm going to do that in

today's episode of The Juicebox Podcast is sponsored by touched by type one. They're an amazing organization, doing incredible work for people living with type one diabetes, and you should check them out. They're on Instagram and Facebook. And of course, at touched by type one. org. The episode is also sponsored by the Dexcom g six continuous glucose monitor. If you're using insulin, you need to see what your blood sugar is doing. dexcom.com forward slash juice box, you'll be able to find out more. And of course to get that free, no obligation demo of the Omni pod tubeless insulin pump. All you have to do is go to my Omni pod comm Ford slash juice box. Alright, let's get away from the diabetes for a second. Have you committed any major crimes in your sleep? Anything like there's no bank robber being looked for in your town and no one can figure it out. But you have a Lamborghini and you're not sure how you got it either. Nothing like that.

Unknown Speaker 3:53
No, no, no.

Scott Benner 3:54
I know. So that's interesting. So So tell me something you weren't wearing a pump for a while. Did your blood sugar go up? significantly?

Adriana 4:03
Yeah, yeah, I definitely woke up. I I'll wake up with my blood sugar gets pretty high too. And obviously the Good morning. You know, you have to go use the restroom or I if I wake up thirsty. I'm like, Oh, no. Where's my blood sugar out? And, and then I have Dexcom as well. And so that beeps at me. But my husband usually is more diligent at saying Hey, your sugar's high. Hey, cuz he follows me on Dexcom and he's like, you probably should put on the new pump. But, um, but yeah, so maybe not my best night as a diabetic, but

Scott Benner 4:46
we're gonna get into why you're haphazard with your hair later. But you just said your husband, and you've had diabetes for six years and you were diagnosed when you're 18. And so any and I mean Any knowledgeable listener of the podcast has just said to themselves. Oh my god, there's another Mormon on the podcast. Right? Am I right?

Unknown Speaker 5:09
Yeah.

Scott Benner 5:11
How is that I ask everyone, everyone that comes on who ends up being a Mormon? Because I don't double check on your, your religious beliefs before you go on the show. why in the hell is this podcast so popular in the Mormon community, you need to tell me somebody is eventually gonna tell me there's the news, like, Am I on a message board somewhere? Or?

Adriana 5:33
Um, you know, I actually heard of your podcasts when I. So here's maybe another stereotype. I'm Mormon, I'm an I already have a kid, just one. But

Scott Benner 5:46
please, you're not even Mormon, you have one kid, you need like six.

Adriana 5:50
But I was at an ultrasound for, for when I was pregnant. And the radiology tech told me, you know, found out I was type one. And because I was in the fetal medicine, and she said, Oh, you got to listen to this. So it was really just word of mouth that I heard, because I've never heard of your podcast before. And at that point, I had been diabetic for maybe four years.

Scott Benner 6:19
Okay. Was she part of the church?

Unknown Speaker 6:23
I don't know.

Unknown Speaker 6:24
I didn't ask her you have to find out from what

Scott Benner 6:26
I mean. I'm not saying like, hang up and call. But at some point in your life, if you could just take your drive and find like, that's the place I got my ultrasound, let me just duck in real quick. And check. You know, you could probably just check her underwear to say, and then you'd be able to figure it out, right? And tell me because I'm dying to know, like, Listen, honestly, as I joke about this, there's been like, 350 episodes of the podcast, I believe, like, maybe eight guests have, you know, have been from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints somehow, but and I'm sure I probably had on 7000 Catholics, and I don't realize it or anything like that. It's just such a, it's interesting, because you talk to them more. I know, not every Mormon lives in Utah, but I'm just gonna make a lot of generalizations that you can just correct me on at any point if you want. But it's not a densely populated place. And so like it, it stands to reason that somehow the podcast is being passed about within there. And I'm just I'm trying to find out how and so I asked everyone, you didn't help me? It's fine. We'll figure it out? Well,

Adriana 7:30
well, let me tell you this, I think especially, maybe it's not even religious, but it's just more the Utah culture is that we, that really, we do try to help each other out, you know, just neighbors, being neighbors and helping each other out. And really just we want that supporting. I know, there's, I'm already a part of multiple Facebook groups that are just a part of Utah for type one, and, and so it's an any, I think, maybe this isn't just Utah two, but any diabetic I need. I'm like, oh, we're on medically best friends. And we start talking about, you know, just the typical day to day things, because we can relate. And I think that's maybe why is that we get to hear perspectives and say, because when I was first listening to you, I'm like, Oh, my gosh, I get that and understand. It's like, I can relate. And even though I can talk to my husband about this, and he lives it day to day with me, but it's just different. hearing it from somebody else.

Scott Benner 8:38
No, I understand that. And so you feel like maybe you just happen to live in a community that that prizes, the idea of personal interactions and sharing what works with one person with another person. Just that kind of an idea.

Unknown Speaker 8:51
Yeah, that's excellent. All right,

Scott Benner 8:53
be my best. Listen, you I have to be honest with you. That is so far, thusly. The best interpretation of why it is. And most people are just like, what, I don't know. But you actually had like a thought. Alright, that makes us interesting. Okay, good. diagnosed at 18. You and I know this is great. I grew up in the religion or married into it.

Adriana 9:17
I grew up but I almost kind of hate saying that too. Because then people think, oh, you're like a blind follower. But I grew up but of course, I had my teenage years and, you know, rebellion and and stuff. And I, I've found the church for myself to be true. Cool. All

Scott Benner 9:35
right. I was just wondering how like, at what age do you start, you know, talking to your uterus and being like, Listen, it's gonna be you and me. It's gonna be tough at times. We're going to ask a lot of you, you're probably not going to be worth crap by the time I'm done with you. Just so you know. And but we're gonna get our mileage out of you and you are really, really going to do your work here. I didn't know if you had personal conversations with it or not. I would I'd be like, Listen, we got business. I don't know. But do you have that? Like how many brothers and sisters do you have?

Adriana 10:06
I just have one younger brother.

Scott Benner 10:09
He's ruining my. I am trying to set up a narrative here. Damn it and you are just ruining it. I'm just kidding. I'm totally.

Unknown Speaker 10:20
I totally get it.

Scott Benner 10:21
We've gone way too far into prognosticating that uterus is gonna get beat up. So let's just keep moving. What What is your hold your baby? What's her name?

Adriana 10:32
So I have a little boy, his name's Ellen. And he's about 16 months. And so he is walking and not quite using all of his words, but he is jabbering away all the time. And it's just, it's awesome. I really love this age, because I can actually, like, play with him now. You know, he can walk around and everything's exciting. And it's just, he's seeing the world for the first time. And that's, it's really fun.

Scott Benner 11:01
I agree. I completely agree. And it is a terrific, it is an absolutely terrific age. You know, in the beginning, they're just sort of like, their furniture, you move around, and it poops like so then, you know, eventually you start like, Oh, look, it's doing something and then they move and then they have their personalities start to develop. It's a wonderful time you get to stay with him all day.

Adriana 11:22
No, I actually. So I work as a medical assistant, I work in a family practice clinic, and but I only work three days a week. Um, and so yeah, so it's not too bad. I feel like and I've been working for about a year or so. And after maternity leave, and it's, it seems like the perfect kind of balance, you know, three days at work, and then I get four days at home. And so it works out that way.

Scott Benner 11:53
Excellent. Now, that's great. I'm happy for you. I really am. And it's right here us we're filling the pod and getting everything going again, where did your blood sugar? Do you have a feeling for how long you were without insulin?

Adriana 12:06
i'm john, I think I was probably maybe three hours or so.

Scott Benner 12:13
What do you think about sugar? Got to?

Adriana 12:16
Oh, I know. Because I checked my Dexcom and I was up in like the 330s or something. And so that's definitely a little too high for me. Yeah. Um, but Well,

Scott Benner 12:28
let me let me find out a little bit about how you like manage, like, what it is that you feel like your goals are and how important they are to like, you know, I mean, like, everybody has a different focus for their desires about their diabetes. So what do you what do you aim for? Like, what's your goal, day to day? Um,

Adriana 12:46
well, because you can set your own ranges on the Dexcom I have mine between 70 and 150. Usually, so I was like, double where I want to be. Mainly because, you know, as Owens getting older, we are, like thinking about starting to have more and and so I want to bring my sugars back down. So I can have that, that good control before I get pregnant again. But after I had Oh, and I was like, because during pregnancy hormones, just make it crazy. Make your blood sugar crazy. And so it after I had him, I was like, Oh, it's just me, I'm not taking care of somebody else inside of me. And so I kind of let go for a while. And so the last like, couple months, I'm like, Kay, let's bring it back in and get that take control. Again.

Scott Benner 13:41
Jenny Smith and I just recorded yesterday, a pro tip about a pro tip episode about pregnancy. And that was one of the things we spoke about is that after you have the baby and all the things that can come with that you can have postpartum you could just be tired, you could just be busy, that kid might not sleep, you know, all this stuff. And what's the easiest thing to cut away when you're looking for time, and it often ends up being yourself which is, you know, of course, terrible on any level. But when it's around your diabetes, it's, I guess it's a little worse, honestly. So you were just like, Alright, I'm gonna pull this back the what are the first steps in pulling it back together?

Unknown Speaker 14:22
Um,

Adriana 14:23
well, mainly, me and my husband try to eat pretty healthy. So we try to we try to really meal prep better and just focus on what we're eating. And I actually have a friend who's a registered dietitian, and so I was getting consults from her as well and and really trying to set those alarms so I checked my blood sugar, you know, or give insulin before meals because oftentimes, I'm ready to eat and I'm like, Oh, I didn't give it Bolus any before and but Or there's even been times because at work, it can be so, so busy that I actually actually forgot to give insulin before I even ate. And so I had my meal and I was back at my desk and I'm like, Oh, I got my alarm that my, my sugar was going up like, Oh, well, I need to get some insulin in me now. But, um,

Scott Benner 15:22
where does this usually lead you to? For? Like long term results? You have a, you know, where you're a one sees usually sit, would you be willing to share?

Adriana 15:31
Um, yeah, I'm, I'm due again for my agency. But like three months ago, I was 6.8.

Unknown Speaker 15:40
Excellent. So that's wonderful.

Unknown Speaker 15:42
Yeah,

Adriana 15:42
I feel pretty good about it there. But still, I'd like to see it a little lower

Scott Benner 15:46
here. But you know, it's still it's very respectable, at the at the, you know, at the very least, and you're talking about healthier foods. And there's a difference between healthy whatever that ends up meaning and impactful on your blood sugar, which is, is sometimes people get confused about, I think they're like, I don't understand what's going on, I eat this very healthy thing. It doesn't mean it doesn't have, you know, an impact on your blood sugar. So are you did you go lower carb? Or are you cut out junk? Or like, what was the, like, when you look in the kitchen, you were like, one thing needs to leave here? What was it?

Adriana 16:27
Oh, it was more. I have a very sweet tooth. And I maybe say, too many jokes about that. You know, I'm like, Oh, I'm diabetic. So of course, I'm sweet. And I need to eat that cookie or something. But, um,

Unknown Speaker 16:44
but yeah, it

Adriana 16:44
was mainly kind of cutting out junk. You know, of course, I don't need as many sweets as I want during the day. And but yeah, a lot of the health, like, the nurse practitioner that I work for she recommends the Mediterranean Mediterranean diet. And, of course, that's a lot of carbs. Because they try to cut out meat or that not protein, but more animal based meats.

Unknown Speaker 17:17
And so a lot of

Scott Benner 17:19
a lot of those plants have carbs in them. And yeah, and everything that falls into that? Well, I just say that. I think if you know how to use your insulin, you could do that easily. That's not a problem. I mean, you're able to see six, eight. So it's not like you're not lost, you're doing great. And I don't know that, you know, you know, if somebody wanted to be low carb, I don't, I don't see a problem with that either. And even if I did see a problem with that, I don't think I would say I think it's everyone's business to eat the way they want to eat. But you're you've already touched on the things that really make a difference. are the things that are sort of, you know, nebulous, it's the remembering to Pre-Bolus or not getting busy at work, and that and it happens to everybody, like I don't know, anyone, I don't know, anyone who doesn't just one day, grab their food, sit down and go, Oh, you know what, I have diabetes I should have for my kids guy forgot about that, you know, it just really does. And one day, you're gonna have 23 kids, and it's gonna be harder to remember. So we have to find a system for you. That's going to help. And, but but you really are interesting, because you're two people. To me. You're, you know, an adult married person with a child. And you're still also just in your mid 20s. And I remember myself in my mid 20s. And I mean, I had a kid too, but I was pretty much an idiot. You know, I didn't really know what I was doing yet. I actually was lamenting the other day. I'm 48. I don't even know 100% know if I've grown up yet. To be perfectly. Like I think I might be a man in like seven more years is what I'm hoping

Adriana 18:55
my father in law says if you don't grow up by the time you're 50, you don't have to

Unknown Speaker 18:59
so Oh, really? You got

Adriana 19:00
a couple more years? Yeah.

Scott Benner 19:02
Let's wait two more years, I can just let this whole thing go. You're saying? What do you think? What do you think he means by that? Like, people have accepted you now and they're not looking for real growth from you? Or it's working, so don't worry about it.

Adriana 19:14
Maybe I'll leave the interpretation up to him.

Scott Benner 19:17
Yeah, I'm leaving it up to me. I'm saying these people are stuck with me. They've stuck with me this they're not gonna bail now. Like, do you think I'm gonna look up divorce rates after 50 for first marriages, maybe? Maybe you're right, maybe people are just like, ah, too much trouble to move the desk. I'm staying. Yeah, so I was gonna say can you tell me a little bit about your diagnosis at a team where you just out of high school or were you still in?

Adriana 19:46
Yeah, um, I was in my first year of college. And I you know, college food is super great. Just Top Ramen, peanut butter and jelly. Lots of cars. And I was moved down to Southern Utah. And so it was really hot. And I was drinking water all the time. And I just thought it was because I was in a new place. Um, but I, the interesting thing is I didn't lose a significant amount of weight. At least, that I noticed, you know, I wasn't in the hospital, crazy. I came home. And I decided that I was going to serve a mission for, you know, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. And so you have to do like a, we call it a mission physical, but it's just a physical with your doctor. And they found sugar in my urine. And they, they thought that I was type two at the time. And I have working in a medical clinic, I don't know, what was going on what they were seeing. Because now that I know and where I help other patients and things I'm like, Well, why didn't anyone second guessed this because they thought I was type two, and put me on Metformin for a little over a year. And my sugars just weren't getting any better. And I got, they told me I was diagnosed with mono at one point. But I think I was going into more of DK. And finally, I got a second opinion. And she did the antibody test for me. And then type one ever since.

Scott Benner 21:37
Yeah, it's so surprising, isn't it? Because Metformin should impact a person with type two more quickly than a year like it shouldn't take someone a year to go ha, this still isn't working? It really just it shouldn't. And that's sucks. And it even goes to show a person like yourself who works in the situation that you do can still be moved by what the doctor is telling you like, I mean, why would you? Even if you kind of doubted in your heart, you can't, it's hard to break away right from the doctor telling you Hey, you have type two diabetes? Like why would you just believe that? I guess? And what happened? What happened at the end of that year that made somebody go like this isn't working? What was the next step to figuring out you were type one?

Adriana 22:21
Well, no. So that second opinion, I got my primary care who diagnosed me as type two ended up moving away. And so I had to go, I was, you know, basically forced to go to a new physician, which I didn't mind. And he was just looking at all of my symptoms. And my history is like, this doesn't add up. Because I wasn't working, I was still going to school and getting into my program at that point. And so I wasn't a good enough advocate for myself, either, simply because I wasn't aware. But thankfully, this new physician second guessed it and said we need to do more blood work. And was surprised that we didn't do the antibody tests right off the bat, either. But, um, but yeah, so

Scott Benner 23:14
how did it feel at 18 to be told you had type two diabetes? Was it in your family like, did that? Was it not surprising where you're like, Oh, that makes sense. Everybody has type two in my family, or how did that? No, no,

Adriana 23:26
no one on either side of my family has diabetes. Later, when I was diagnosed type one, then we found out that my grandpa had pancreatic cancer, which of course has, you know, red flags in the back of my mind, but but no one has type one or type two diabetes on either side of my family. And so it was just strange. And in, I didn't eat super well in college, because I don't feel like maybe anyone does, especially freshman year, but so I was like, Okay, I thought maybe, okay, it's just diet. I can do this. I can change. But as I was learning more about diabetes to in my health classes, I'm like, something's, something's not right. And so, thankfully, between that and the doctor, we were able to, but it just, it was hard. Especially poking. I didn't know about Dexcom and I was poking my fingers all the time. It was just it was hard.

Scott Benner 24:41
Well, I think since Adriana is talking about Dexcom, we should just jump right into the advertisement for them. If you're using insulin, your blood sugar may vacillate, it might go up and down and feel at times like there's just no rhyme or reason for it. But when you use a Dexcom GE six continuous glucose monitor, you can begin to see trends, you can begin to understand how different foods and insulin impacts your blood sugar. And then you can make adjustments to stop those impacts from being well, so impactful on your life. I wish I had something more clever to say than that. But you start to learn when to use the insulin, how much you need, what foods impact your blood sugar's, and from there, things just sort of open up. Dexcom offers alarms, alerts, beeping, you call it what you will. But you get to decide where it happens. My daughter's are at 70 and 120, we get a alarm when my daughter goes below 70. And when she goes above 120, you can set your own range and make your own decisions. Dexcom gives you that kind of freedom. And you can share if you'd like your blood sugar's with up to 10 followers, and this is on Android, or iPhone, you really, really, really have to check it out dexcom.com forward slash juice box, the information that we get back from ardens Dexcom g six is at the core of every decision that gets made about type one diabetes. My daughter's day one C has been between five, two and six for over six years. And while those are, you know, the results that we have, and yours may vary, I really think that the information you get back is valuable when you're using a Dexcom. And as a statement of fact, I really don't think we could have those results, especially with no diet restrictions. Without the Dexcom g six. The Omni pod tubeless insulin pump is just that an insulin pump without tubing. The Omni pod has nothing for you to get caught on a dresser drawer handle a doorknob. And you know, you don't have to take it off to go swimming or take a shower. So you're always getting that basal insulin that you need. The only pod is discreet and easy to place in ways that won't be so obvious to others. But at the same time, if you don't care if someone sees your insulin pump, you can wear it loud and proud. It really is up to you. My daughter has been wearing an omni pod since she was four years old, and she is 16. Now she's been wearing one every day for all of those years. And the Omni pod has been a true friend through this journey with Type One Diabetes. The best part about Omni pod is that they offer a free, no obligation demo, which means you don't really have to, you know, even believe me if you don't want to, all you have to do is go to my Omni pod.com forward slash juicebox and Omni pod will send you out a demo, you can try it on it and wear it and see what you think for yourself. In the end, they want you to make a decision that is best for you, you get that demo and you don't like it. It's okay. But if you love it, it's super simple to keep going with the process and get yourself a nominee pod just like Ardennes. So check out dexcom@dexcom.com forward slash juicebox. Get that on the pod, no obligation demo at my Omni pod.com forward slash juicebox. And of course, don't forget to check out touched by type one at touched by type one.org and find them on Instagram and Facebook. right there's a lot more to come with Adriana. Let's get back to it.

I mean, it would be bad enough at 18 to be told you have type one diabetes, but to have something that I think people generally think of as being an older person's issue. Right? I know it's not the case. But still it would feel like that in the moment. You know, like, wow, this isn't like this doesn't happen to 18 year old people. And I just can't imagine that being just difficult to understand and really confusing. How did your parents do? Like, was it just one of those things where you're like, Alright, well, she has this and they gave her pills, and they made sure you took them? Or was there? Like, like, was there a lot of conversation around it? How did it? How did that work in that first year.

Adriana 29:22
More My dad was in the hospital quite a bit so that he was kind of my motivator to become have my career be in medical. And so and I was 18 I was going to college I had moved out I I was an adult at that point. And so my parents were there to support me and love me and help me in any way they could. But it was it was kind of my, you know, trial and my thing to go through. And so they wouldn't say did you take your pill today or you know, have you checked your Sugar, but they were there if I ever needed something or if I had questions and I could come to them, but

Scott Benner 30:08
were you away at school? Or were you living at home and commuting?

Adriana 30:13
Um, no. So I live in northern Utah. So it's, it's a six hour drive down to the school that I went to.

Scott Benner 30:20
Gotcha. So they weren't even. Yeah, I mean, listen, that makes sense. The your dad had like, chronic issues, that stuff he was dealing with.

Adriana 30:29
Yeah, yeah. So he has had his own chronic issues. And, and yeah, so they, of course, just like any Mom, I, you know, I'd call her and talk to her. And she would ask how I'm doing and, but eventually that summer, so I got diagnosed, like in December, but I went back to school for the rest of the spring and came back in the summer. And and so they were maybe a little bit more helpful, like to remind me say, Oh, well, did you check your sugar? But, um, but really, it was all up on me? Yeah,

Scott Benner 31:04
no, I mean, listen, it's a unfortunate moment. Right? Like, right? Is it like, you're in college, you're just not home anymore, like, even a year and a half sooner, you would have been around them more often? Who knows what they would have seen? You know, it's, I mean, you'll know now, and you probably have figured it out over the last 16 months, but you're really paying attention to your kids. When you're a parent, you're like, oh, something changed, or, you know, a lot of that going on. But, yeah, I mean, it worked out right, in a year. So when you find out that you're type one, how does that change things for you? Was it a relief?

Unknown Speaker 31:38
Or

Adriana 31:40
I feel like it's hard to say it's a relief, because, you know, everything you read on type one, there's, there's no cure. You know, you're you have to have for the rest of your life. But type two, I was like, Okay, I can fix this, I can get better. And then I was told I'm type one, and it was

Scott Benner 31:59
felt like something you couldn't fix anymore.

Adriana 32:01
Yeah, I couldn't fix it. And, but it didn't get me down. I was like, Okay, I can deal with this. And by that point, I actually had already married my husband, Chris. And so I was married. And then just a couple months later, they diagnosed me as type one, which then brought on a whole lot of other emotions, like, I felt almost kind of guilty for Chris. Because then there's this huge financial thing with insulin and insulin pumps and doctor appointments. And and I'm like, Oh, you didn't get to really know about this. You just, you know, it just happened. But of course, he has been my, my best supporter through all of it. And he has been amazing. But for me to bring that it, you know, I it makes me feel a little guilty. Yeah.

Scott Benner 33:05
Yeah. It's, uh, you feel like you feel like you brought an extra burden on to an early relationship? Is

Unknown Speaker 33:10
that it? Yeah, that's exactly.

Scott Benner 33:14
Well, I mean, I couldn't be hard to disagree with how you feel I could see feeling the same way. And I've heard and talked to a lot of people who feel that way. I mean, the only thing I could say is that, you know, if he doesn't feel that way, and you guys are discussing it, and you know, in it together, it's, it's not going to be, you know, a burden. It'll just be it'll just be another thing, like, you know, call a call diabetes. Somebody Jenny told me the other day, she thinks of diabetes as a toddler, that just that never grows up. Maybe it'll just be that like something you always kind of have to fuss with a little bit and needs help and can't quite take care of itself, etc.

Unknown Speaker 33:52
Yeah.

Scott Benner 33:53
Have you ever asked him? Is he does he feel burdened by it?

Does he feel burdened by it?

Adriana 34:07
I've asked him before and he's like, well, it's, it's just what it is. And if it wasn't diabetes, then we would most likely have something else to have to work through. Because marriage isn't easy. And but it's something to work through and to. And so I just really locked out

Scott Benner 34:28
a guy. That's excellent.

Adriana 34:30
Yeah. Yeah. And he, he himself is going into school for nutrition too. So he helps me out that way. And it's, it was just kind of great. That I found him.

Scott Benner 34:44
Good for you. Did you meet him in in high school or college?

Adriana 34:48
No, um, I actually, I actually met him online. I met him through a dating app and Funny enough, his brother in law met his wife through the same dating app too. And

Scott Benner 35:07
please tell me there's a Mormon dating app the rest of us aren't aware of.

Adriana 35:11
Is there actually is. We didn't meet on that one. I would have used that one. But I know

Scott Benner 35:18
j date does j dates. So I'm asking you like you would know that was that's for Jewish signals. I wonder if that still exists. I'm looking it up as I cheat. Ajay date still exists. JD calm. Okay. So yeah, you know, that's makes sense to you. You met him? All right, what grabs you first, when you're meeting somebody like that? Is it a photo or something? They said, and then what do you do next? Do you text or call? How does that all work? I'm very old. So none of this will make sense to me. But explain it to me anyway.

Adriana 35:50
Yeah, so there's, you know, obviously, there's a profile picture and but then, like, kind of like Instagram, you can kind of look through a couple. And then usually there's a short little profile, and they can say whatever they want there. And but the interesting thing that caught me to Chris, is that because most of these guys are like, like muscle pictures, and you know, trying to show off, and Chris had a quote, an inspirational quote, as his first picture. And I thought, Oh, my gosh, he was this weird he, and, and then we just started talking. And of course, he had a picture of himself later, but he made a point to have like an inspirational quote first. And as we continue to talk, then, you know, I could just kind of feel that we were that he was genuine. And so it was really more so through conversation is how I looked at it, but

Scott Benner 36:51
Well, that's lovely. And so he didn't do something corny, and are trying to show you his guns, right. Like he was just like, look at my look at my biceps. Pick me Pick me. Now, when you get a hold, like when you when you, I don't know, either you swipe or you click or you do something? And does it start as a texting, I know it has nothing to do with diabetes, but this is just texting, and then you decide if you want to call.

Adriana 37:14
Um, so. So I'll be honest, the app was Tinder that we were on. So that's the one that people always joke like, swipe right on our left. And so you both have to swipe right. I believe it's been forever. But you both have to accept that, Oh, I like this person. Hopefully, they'll say I like you too, and make sense. And then it sets up like this chat within the group in the text or, sorry, the app. And then from there, if the conversation goes, then you can either meet up or give them your number or,

Scott Benner 37:47
you know, it'd be more of a competitive Bloodsport, if not, if both people didn't have to agree. It was just one like I agree. And the other ones like I don't like too bad. You have to talk to me now. And then we started. You got on the app, it's your fault. Strange conversations with people you don't like. But that's, that's really cool. How does that make it feel? We'll see you. I'm interested, honestly, because you're in a very specific age range that doesn't feel impersonal to you. Right? That feels normal.

Unknown Speaker 38:19
To sorry, explain

Scott Benner 38:20
your question to meet someone digitally doesn't seem impersonal to you. Is, am I right? To say that? I'm not saying it is I'm saying it doesn't strike you that way. Um,

Adriana 38:35
I had enough conversations on there. But you can, of course, online is can be a scary world, but with, you know, with limits, and now I didn't feel like it was impersonal. I felt like I've had pretty good conversations through there. But of course, you know, you have to be safe online.

Scott Benner 39:00
No, no, yeah. 100%. I just, it's a very, like, understand that. When I was 1918 1920 years old, like I had to go somewhere in public see a group of people choose a person that I thought was attractive, and then wander over to them to find out that they did not care for me in the least bit. Like that hadn't happened right in front of them. They had to like you had to watch someone's face go. Ooh, really? No. Why would you think that? I would, oh, sorry, excuse to walk away. Right. Like that had to happen. And it had to happen to you a lot. Before. You know, some people be like, Hey, cool. Let's you know, I'll keep talking to you. So anyway, I can remember anyone over a certain age is listening right now is like yeah, there's nothing quite like being turned down face to face.

Adriana 39:51
Oh, yeah. And let me tell you, I've definitely had plenty of those too. But I I started using the app when I came Back home. All my friends were still at college or, you know, out, they were out on their own LDS missions. And so there wasn't that, at least from what I could find wasn't really that dating group available to me when I was home, so, so yeah, but yeah, I'd much rather than in person but that's kind of just how it went. And you know, I'm grateful for it.

Scott Benner 40:28
That's it seemed I mean, obviously worked out really well. It's, it's cool. I'm not judging it at all. I just I, you know, yeah, no perspective on it. Listen, before we get back to diabetes stuff, there's another listener who's telling me I should live in Ken knob, Utah, K and a B. I can I can NAB Is it a wonderful place? They're selling me pretty hard. So is it?

Adriana 40:52
Yeah, yeah, can NAB is beautiful. That's more of the Southern Utah to and it's, you know, Red Rock. It's definitely desert. But, but then you can get to mountains and it's beautiful. And honestly, I I do love Utah. Because you can kind of get all sorts of different landscape from green, lush mountains and lakes to, you know, Salt Lake City and to Red Rock down in southern Utah.

Scott Benner 41:23
Yeah, I have to be I'm looking for a place to retire where there's no humidity, and it doesn't snow much. That's pretty much my goal. So but is it gonna snow on me and Utah?

Adriana 41:34
In northern Utah? Yes. When I was living, so I lived down in St. George for college. And there was a little bit of snow but it I don't think we got more than a couple inches. That's not

Unknown Speaker 41:47
perfect. Yeah,

Adriana 41:49
up in northern New time. Definitely used to a foot or two. Yeah,

Scott Benner 41:53
I don't want that. Oh, not good. I'm not I'm not looking for that. I it's those here. And I don't need that one. I'm old. Oh, hold on. Alright, so I seriously I know, I joke the beginning but seriously asking, like, what are your plans? Are you? Are you going to have a baby again, soon? are you sticking with one for now? Or what's the play,

Adriana 42:18
we definitely want him to have siblings. So really, I kind of have a lot of pressure on myself right now. Because I'm like, hey, I want to be a little bit more in shape. And I want to get my agency down as low as I can get. But then again, that's kind of how I was before we had it all in and it's it just, you know, you kind of just have to go for it. And just trust that everything's gonna be okay. And because being pregnant with type one was, it was kind of scary.

Unknown Speaker 42:55
How so?

Adriana 42:57
Just, um, I've had multiple friends, or people that I follow, and they've had babies and they've been born early. Like as like 32 weeks early, and, and they've had conditions like heart conditions, or they've, they've weighed like 10 pounds or more and and then the moms themselves have had issues with too much blood loss or.

Scott Benner 43:28
And this all stems from just not having that kind of low tight control that is recommended during pregnancy.

Unknown Speaker 43:35
I don't even

Adriana 43:36
want to say it's because of control. I think maybe there were some other kind of factors too, because I don't know all of their health history, but I do know that they're type one. And, and really, Pregnancy just changes your body like crazy, everything changes. But then to add type one in that blood sugar control, and how much it actually does affect your baby during all of your trimesters, then, that's where I'm like, okay, I want to give the best chance possible for our next baby. And, I mean, we were, we were very blessed and had Oh, and he was two weeks early, but he was already eight pounds, 11 ounces. And and that's partly why we had him early is because he was just getting more and more weight.

Unknown Speaker 44:28
And I had a lot of

Scott Benner 44:29
fluid and he had to get out, right, like, unless you're gonna create like a zipper pouch or something like that. There's, I mean, how much bigger Can he get before you're like, Hey, you know what, leave him in there. Because not looking for this problem. But well, you know, it's funny because I really did just have this conversation yesterday with Jenny. And we talked about three months like she said, I said to her health house, like how long before I plan on getting pregnant? Should I begin on this process if my blood sugar is not already Ready, where you know where a person wants it to be. And she's like, I gotta say, three months, like you have to get down, get stable, and be in a position where you're doing it on purpose, and you're having results consistently, that leave you in the range that you're looking for with pregnancy. And, you know, she's like, you just mean that, sort of the thing that both of us came up with is that it you know, you obviously people get pregnant, not on purpose all the time. But if you're planning it, she was like, the first step is, you know, get your blood sugar's where you want them in a way that are controllable meaning that you know, when you do something, your blood sugar's react the way you intend, not like, I got lucky, and my blood sugar wasn't high today, but I did it on purpose. She's like, then you have to go find a good high risk doctor. And like there was, there's a lot to think about, you know, and a lot of

Unknown Speaker 45:51
green.

Scott Benner 45:54
Will you use the same people you used last time? Like, how was your experience with your physicians and everything?

Adriana 46:00
Oh, I loved I loved my doctors. They were, they were great. And they were, they worked well with each other too, which was probably the most I could ask for. Because my endocrinologist couldn't be in the hospital. He didn't have privileges there. But my endocrinologist is just amazing, too. Because he, he texted me, he gave me his number. And he's like, hey, let me know when you're going to have the baby. And I'll text you, you know what we need to do maybe with your settings, and he would look at my Dexcom reports. Just online every couple weeks and let me know if I need to change anything. And so, but then they also worked my ob and my endocrinologist and my high risk. ob just worked so well together. It's nice.

Scott Benner 46:51
It's great when there's a good meshing between them. But you said your endo didn't have privileges in the hospital. She was sort of like Cyrano, he was just kind of hiding in the bushes yelling up to the window about what to do next. Make your basil higher. Did you were you're pumping your Dexcom it during your delivery?

Adriana 47:13
Yeah, I did. And, you know, my labor was it was horrible. They induced me. And I was in labor for like, 30 hours. And then they finally said, Hey, how about we do a C section? And I'm like, thank you.

Unknown Speaker 47:28
Why didn't someone have this idea? Yesterday? Thank you. Right,

Unknown Speaker 47:32
exactly.

Adriana 47:35
But I think partly too, because I was a first time mom and I told them I wanted to try. And, you know, I was we were so close. But it just I had a big baby. And I'm kind of a smaller stature. And so he just was not gonna come out. But But yeah, I was able even through the C section, they let me keep my Dexcom and Omnipod on and my ob made a specific note to say, Hey, keep her ducks Come on the whole time. She's in the hospital, because the nurses told me they'd have to come in every hour and poke my finger in check. And I'm like, nope, here's my phone. Just tap the screen and you can look at my blood sugar. Please don't wake me up. Just look right there.

Scott Benner 48:22
These are my last days to sleep. I really don't want you to wake me up. Use this thing right here. You can have my phone, read my text. I don't care. Just let me sleep.

Adriana 48:35
Especially after that long labor, I was I was exhausted. And so thankfully, all my nurses, everyone was just great. So it was a good experience other than the length. But it was good. That's excellent.

Scott Benner 48:50
Good for you. I mean, it's important for everybody. It really is because there's a lot of you have to be careful, I think. Because you have to have a lot of different thoughts that you can't have, you know, like your high risk. ob knows a lot about high risk doesn't necessarily mean they know a lot about diabetes. And your endo knows a lot about diabetes, hopefully, but doesn't necessarily mean they know a lot about high risk pregnancy. And so you need everybody's, you know, everybody's input is is very important in that situation. For sure. Did you get tough any point in the nine months that didn't feel long? Or was it difficult to keep your blood sugar's where you wanted to? How did you find the actual process of doing it?

Adriana 49:32
The first trimester felt like forever because we wanted to wait until I got into that second trimester to really to tell people because you just never really know how it's gonna go in.

Unknown Speaker 49:45
And

Adriana 49:46
it honestly felt like I kept having low blood sugars in that first trimester and I don't know if it's because I was trying to overcompensate and I'm like, I wanted my sugars to be nice and low to make sure the baby was okay. But then as I kept progressing in the second trimester, and the third third was the hardest because just all those hormones, I was having to use almost triple the amount of insulin I was used to. Yeah, to keep my blood sugar's under range, but not uncommon. How

Scott Benner 50:19
did you find that the first time you did it? Were you prepared for that huge jump in insulin need? Or was it tough to make that decision the first couple of times, like I'm gonna put this amount in?

Unknown Speaker 50:30
Well, thankfully, my, well,

Adriana 50:32
I say my endocrinologist, but he's also a nurse practitioner, but he himself has type one. And he was like, Hey, I have this insulin, the fiasco insulin, right. And that just works really well and faster. And that helped me to keep it under control as best as I could. But still, I was using a lot. So he was really, I think, between me being aware of it and trying to keep it under control. And my endocrinologist being so good as well, then we both were able to work on it. But

Scott Benner 51:13
he had a good group. It sounds like, yeah, nice. That's excellent. I mean, he must have been thrilled that it went well. Right like it. Was there worry. Even though things were going pretty well? Did you find yourself concerned? Or was there a moment where you just got comfortable? And you're like, you know what, this is going okay, I don't have to, I don't have to worry, at least.

Adriana 51:34
No, I was. And maybe it's first time mom anxiety too. But I was so worried. You know about normal mom things too. Like, oh, how am I gonna stay up all night? Or, you know, how am I going to take care of the baby, but but also, how am I going to take care of the baby and keep my sugar's under control and with the kind of the perk of being a high risk pregnancy as you get a lot of ultrasounds. And so that was fun to be able to see him a lot. But then every ultrasound leading into the third trimester was like, Oh, he is a really big baby. Oh, he's getting bigger, bigger. I'm like,

Scott Benner 52:16
my vagina is not that big. What are we doing? Let's stop now.

Adriana 52:21
Yeah, how big is he going to be? And of course, Google is the worst thing for first time moms. I, I had a friend Tell me Don't Google anything. And then of course, you know, you do a little bit and because just trying to see how much your baby's supposed to gain weight. And that third trimester because it's like a half a pound almost every week and the last couple weeks. And I'm like, oh, and he's already eight pounds. How? How many more weeks? Can we go?

Scott Benner 52:53
What's the scariest thing you googled while you were pregnant? That the thing that you just really read and thought I shouldn't have done this?

Adriana 53:03
Um, probably, anytime you look up like symptoms like this, this was after pregnancy once I had one. And I, you know, he just I think he was teething for the first time. And I didn't know what was going on. And he was having diarrhea and use fever. And he was super whiny. And so you look up all those symptoms, and which I should know better because I work in a clinic, but I'm like, Oh, he's he has cancer. You know, it's ridiculous.

Scott Benner 53:34
Right? Yeah, I hear that. Well, I just go with what happens to a vagina during childbirth. And let me just tell you don't Google that either.

Unknown Speaker 53:42
I could have told you that.

Scott Benner 53:43
Yeah. You know, it's like, as I was typing, I was like, Is this just for funny? Or am I really not gonna want to Oh, goodness. And then I read the first thing and I thought, yeah, no, I don't want to know any of that. Okay, that's enough. Now I hear you, there's this and there's, there's time to be informed and there's time to not worry yourself in diabetes and and every other aspect, especially raising kids, and I hear what you're saying, like the worry that you're just gonna mess it up, in a myriad of ways is real. The pressure like, Am I going to be a good parent? Like, I know, I'm not going to be but how is it and then you start thinking, I'm gonna mess something up. And I tell you to get to existential for a second, but I feel like I'm a pretty good parent. But still, I know that right now, today, or yesterday, or next week, or last month, I've done something that my kids or my wife don't enjoy, and I don't know what they are, because I'm doing my very best, you know, and so that even that's a weird pressure like always thinking about, you know, I'm trying to help these people or support them. Love them. And I wonder what I'm doing that they're just like privately in their minds thinking, idiot, get away from me. You're completely doing this wrong.

Adriana 54:59
My husband And I, the first week, once we had Owen home, he was like, he's alive, he's breathing. He was fed, we're doing fine.

Unknown Speaker 55:10
You know,

Adriana 55:10
there's not much more you can ask for. And as long as he's breathing and alive and loved, then there's not much else you can do each day. And honestly, that's kind of what got us by because those first, really the first month or two with a newborn, it was hard. It was hard work. But, of course, I would say it's worth it. And of course, as we've been talking, it sounds like I'm gonna do it again. But

Scott Benner 55:37
we have no choice, really. But I hear what you're saying. And yeah. When you say it got hard, what happens to you, when you're trying to make space and time for other things when you stop taking the same care of yourself, because I lamented with Jenny yesterday, that the thing that I worry about most for pregnant women is that as soon as something gets tough after the baby comes, the first thing they give away is their own health. not recognizing in the moment, I think that keeping that that health where it's at will benefit so many other things, you probably should cut something else away, then you know, the concern for your own health. But when it happens to everybody, even people without diabetes, I've done it, you know, you don't sleep as much as you should, in the pursuit of taking care of somebody else. And a number of other other situations where people give away a little bit of who they are to be there for someone else. But when it comes to diabetes, it feels very dire to me when I think about it. But But what was the first thing that happened? Was it making meals that were good for you? Was it Pre-Bolus Singh? Was it even just paying attention when your blood sugar was high? Because if I can be honest with you for a second, not that I haven't been so far. But the idea that your pump ran out of insulin while you were sleeping, and that you did not spring up and change it. I guarantee you sounds like a different story to parents of type one diabetics than it does to adults who have type one diabetes, I bet you those two different groups of people heard that story two different ways. You know, it's interesting for me to hear your perspective as a person living with it. So I don't know what I just asked there. But I'm just very interested in how that happens. And if you know what's happening while you're doing it, if you're like, Oh, I'm giving up a little myself here for somebody else, or is it not that conscious?

Adriana 57:40
Yeah, and just even kind of re hearing that two out of your words like, yeah, if that if Owen was diabetic, and he needed that insulin pump change, I would have done it right then and there. Yeah. So it, it is interesting to think that way, like I would care for my child right on the spot. But if it's for me, then it it does wait maybe an hour or two.

Scott Benner 58:02
And, and you're a bright person, and you're well educated and you care about your health and everything. What happens in those two hours? Like, are you just like, you playing games on your phone? Or are you busy or like you don't mean like, what's stopping you from going, because I'm not a great time manager. But the one thing that I do well, is that I, I prioritize on the go. So I have a way that I think of the things that are going to get done today or or even thought about. And as soon as something becomes more important than the other thing. I I slide those things and change positions in my, in my mind, and I don't think twice about like, Okay, this is more important. Now this moves here. What happens to me what happens to you in that time?

Unknown Speaker 58:48
Um,

Adriana 58:48
I would say that my family always would say that I am willing to give up a lot of things for other people. I am a caretaker, I will take care of somebody else first, because I know that I'm fine. And those two hours I know, okay, my sugar's a little higher, but

Unknown Speaker 59:09
I'm okay.

Adriana 59:11
And, you know, I'm up and moving. I'm trying to, you know, get things ready for the morning and trying to get my baby cleaned and dressed and fed. And, but I knew, even though I knew I needed to get a new insulin pump on, like, I knew that I was fine. At least for the time being, I knew i'm not i'm not going to leave the house without getting my insulin pump on because that is a priority before I leave because I want you know, I want that insulin or want, like, extra snacks or something to bring my sugar up because I want to be prepared that way. But I I'm a mom, and so I'm taking care of my house and my family first and and, you know, I knew that I would get to it. And I knew I'd have time to sit down and get to it. But I just

Scott Benner 1:00:07
I'm not coming down. I hope you realize like, I'm not judging you. I'm really just interested because I hope you can feel that. Yeah. Yeah. Good, good, good. Yeah, I listen. I hear what you're saying, I the sprinklers on the other day, and I only want to leave it on for 30 minutes. And I was like, I don't feel like going back outside. And I could feel the money like leaving my pocket. And you know, it's not health, but it was still I was just like, what is this gonna cost me five more dollars not to get up right now and turn off that thing? Maybe? I don't know. Yeah, I was tired. And, and I do think if it was my own health, I would react differently than I do about Ardennes. And I don't even know what that says. Like, I would die. You know, I would consider myself a person who has a caregivers mentality as well. But I would tell you that over the years, it's become evident to me that there were some things I gave away, that I didn't have to give as much of it away, there would have been a way for me to manage other people's needs and mind better. It didn't have to be. It was it didn't have to be an all or nothing scenario. That that's Yeah, I think if I were to give you one piece of advice, I would tell you, I don't think it's an all or nothing. The way you're thinking about it. That's all there. That's what I got out of the extra 20 years I've lived in you have. Yeah, you would think I would have learned more than that in 20 years. But that's pretty much all I have to say.

Unknown Speaker 1:01:34
Oh, well. Thank

Unknown Speaker 1:01:35
you. Yeah, seriously?

Adriana 1:01:37
Yeah, it is something. Of course, you know, we're always trying to progress and improve and But yeah, I think slowly, but surely, I'm learning and learning to to delegate and say, Hey, you know, Chris, can you can you feed around because I need to, you know, eat something or I need to change my insulin pump. So yeah, there's, you know, it's kind of even almost the same mentality of when we had open as a newborn, like, Hey, we're alive, we're breathing, we're doing okay. is kind of almost sometimes how I feel like with diabetes, like, Hey, I got my sugars, you know, pretty well controlled today. I ate today. So we're good. But, but, you know, each state has its own struggles.

Scott Benner 1:02:25
I cannot say that. I don't understand what you're saying. I want you to know that other people listening are really impressed. And I'm probably just hanging on now through the the end of the hour. Because they're like, Scott didn't even ask her about her magic underwear at all. Which is something excuse me, which is something that I have. I you know, it's funny, my wife doesn't listen to the to my podcast, or me, in case you're wondering. And we were talking the other day, and I said, I have somebody coming on, you know, tomorrow that I'm going to interview. She's younger. She's a kid. And she asked how old you were. And I told her, and she just oh, that's that's not you know, we were young like that. And I said, Oh, yeah. I said, She's a Mormon. She's got to get going. She needs like, 20 more kids. And she goes, really? And I said, Yeah, I said, I said, a lot of people who are in the Mormon religion end up on the podcast, my wife goes, really? And I was like, he she goes, why? And I'm, like I said, I couldn't begin to tell you, I asked every one of them and they don't seem to know. And so we started, we were talking about it for a minute. And she's just like, that's really interesting. And I said, Yeah, I said, I learned a lot of things. I don't, you know, I wouldn't normally know I said, You know, I said I ask every one of them about their magic underwear. And now my wife's face turns blank, because she does not know what I'm talking about, and is probably 100% sure, I'm thinking when I'm looking at her, that if there is such a thing, I mischaracterizing it or giving it a name that doesn't completely consulting to other people. And she's like, you do not say that other people. And I was like, wait, what are you talking about? I said, first of all, people who are involved in the Mormon religion have better underwear than we do. That's just a fact. And secondly, I think it's magical. I can't say for sure, but I've heard stories. And so why would I not ask people and my wife is real serious. She goes, why would you ask them? That's the wrong thing to ask them. And I said, I think you and I have a very different idea of what these podcasts should be about. She's like, obviously, that's like,

Unknown Speaker 1:04:24
Oh,

Scott Benner 1:04:24
is it comfy? It looks comfy. Is it comfy? Are you wearing it? Now? Tell me please.

Adriana 1:04:29
Yes, of course. I wear it every day. But, you know, obviously I have different pairs. You know, just like, I hope everyone does

Unknown Speaker 1:04:38
the same pair every day. Well, thank goodness.

Adriana 1:04:42
Let's clarify that.

Scott Benner 1:04:43
When do you get it when you're married? You don't have it before? Right?

Adriana 1:04:47
Um, well, it depends on each person, okay. In our religion, so if you see, like our temples, there's a process called the endowment And so we get to go to the temple and we get to, that's when we get to get our garments and we make promises to our Heavenly Father and

Scott Benner 1:05:12
in exchange, that's lovely, real tangible thing to take with your life. In other religions they give you like flowers or, you know, they'll rub some like schmutz on your forehead or something like that. You can't do anything with that everyone needs underwear. And it's called, they're called God, you refer to them as garments, though, is that right? Yes, they

Adriana 1:05:33
are gardeners and, and we do wear them every day. Of course, you know, if we're going to go swimming or something, then we don't wear them, but, or, you know, any activity, like if I'm going to go, like, sometimes we go out mudding like in our trucks or something, then, you know, I don't want to get them dirty. But if, if there's a time and place to wear them, then I wear them. But we do wear them. Because, you know, rather than flowers or something because it is supposed to help us remember those promises that we made. And so it's, it's kind of like, you know, you have a special like your wedding ring to remember. You know, your marriage and all of that. And so it's it's basically like that, and, and I'm probably, you know, butchering exactly the right,

Scott Benner 1:06:25
you're not you're not a spokesperson for the church, I'm just getting your opinion. Here's what I'm thinking while you're talking. They made it underwear so that when you were thinking of having sex with a boy, it'd be the last thing you saw before you were naked, you'd be like, Oh, I did make some promises, they would just want to remind you of those promises. Right before you know your boobs are out, I think is exactly what this was about for boy's penis, but you understand what I'm saying? I do have one question. And this is going to need you to infer into my stupidity. Why do I think they're magical? What did I hear once that makes me say that? Or do you have no idea?

Adriana 1:07:04
Well, you know, I've heard stories, but of course, it's it's stories, and I don't I don't know the truth to them. Because I don't know when, like, someone's specific to me with a story. But I've had I've heard stories that people you know, how I was riding my motorcycle, and I fell, I got in a crash and I fell off. But everywhere else got skinned up, but where I was wearing my garments, and I'm like, where you can say because we're pulled, you know, we wear them to be protected. Because we you know, we made promises and we and to have faith and but it's I almost I look at it more as to remember what I've promised not as a protection, necessarily. But so I wouldn't, I wouldn't say they're magical, but I would say you know, they they helped me keep the kind of mindset I want to have

Scott Benner 1:08:04
that makes sense. And listen, I've googled magic underwear while we're talking and interesting. Temple garments come right up. But here's what I've learned. And I'm gonna be serious. There's Wikipedia stuff, but then there's also you know, there's some people saying look, please don't call it magic underwear. It's insulting and it's like, Oh, damn, alright, well, it's too late. Now we've already recorded my voice saying that and and going on, but it did come back to it. I'm not the only person who's ever said this out loud, obviously, because I got enough returns. I also got a couple of lovely pictures of G strings and something called the shape mint. Empty tattooed all day, everyday high waisted waistband, which I don't think is Mormon. But the girl does look kind of magical in them. And but it's uh, you know, it's just really, I don't know, like I find it fascinating and not in a way that I really probably shouldn't be joking around because I don't feel jokey about it. It really is just something I don't understand. And I'm always looking and by the way I've asked six people now and six different people said six different things so I'm just saying I need to find out this is it this is my only way to find out my wife of course if she could hear me right now it'd be like leave that woman alone. Why are you

Unknown Speaker 1:09:23
bothering

Adriana 1:09:24
Well, I will I will tell you this because you know i think you know it is up to each interpretation but if you if you want to really know like the church's stance on I mean, I should have a better a better verbiage for you about it,

Scott Benner 1:09:42
but you got a little kid you got diabetes. Don't put that on yourself. Seriously, am I making you feel bad about this? Let's stop. Oh, no. Okay, no,

Adriana 1:09:50
I'm just like, I should know better because but i do i. Anyways, what I'm trying to say is the church you know their website. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints does have a cool little video that really does show the garments and explains what they are. So I mean, if you, if somebody is really curious, or they have a video about it, they're not secret.

Scott Benner 1:10:15
Let's see why they think they were secret.

Adriana 1:10:18
Well, that's the other thing I've heard from people is like, Oh, it's, there's things that are secret and like, no,

Scott Benner 1:10:24
you're not telling anybody about them? Well, not. No, not everybody can see it. But still, it's you know. Yeah.

Adriana 1:10:32
I mean, I'm not gonna tell somebody what color of underwear I'm wearing. You know, just if I wasn't wearing garments, you know, it's just

Scott Benner 1:10:39
be private. Yeah. There's nothing to say there. I hear you. Yeah. All right. Listen, we've learned a lot and nothing. And that makes this a perfect podcast episode. It really does. I want to make sure. Is there anything that we didn't talk about that you were hoping to talk about? Because I'm, you know, a babbling lunatic. So sometimes it's not. I'm not very good at getting through things, but anything at all? No, I

Adriana 1:11:06
feel like that's a pretty good, pretty good explanation of diabetes and me and kind of, yeah, it's just day to day.

Scott Benner 1:11:17
Cool that night. I appreciate that. I feel like here's what we learned. If I were to sum up this episode, you found out you were a type on when you're 18. They thought it was type two for about a year you took Metformin figured it out wasn't that much relief, because it felt more like oh, wow, like, this is not something I can really impact and make go away. You met a boy on Tinder. He said something nice that made you think he wasn't just a muscle head? Then you gave him your babymaker and you're working on it. Now you got one go and probably 10 or 12. More coming? your underwear is not magical. But hey, if you fall and don't get scratched underneath it, what's it hurt to say if it is, and diabetes is difficult while you're pregnant is difficult while you're raising a baby. But you're trying to get things in better order for yourself. So you can be a mom for your children for a long time. How'd I do?

Adriana 1:12:12
You know, that pretty sums up our conversation. No, I

Scott Benner 1:12:14
did it. are you right now? Like I can't believe he was listening cuz it seems like he's

Adriana 1:12:22
when you say all like that, like, Oh, that's really what we all talked about.

Scott Benner 1:12:27
And by the way, we'll leave this part in for people who always ask me how come the episodes titles aren't about what it was about? So you tell me what should I What should I title this episode? I know why you laughed because you just thought magic underwears that why

Unknown Speaker 1:12:44
exactly.

Adriana 1:12:47
That would be good. But no, no, it's not. It's well, because when I first contacted you, I I was trying to start kind of a blog of my own which then I realized being a mom with a little kid and working through COVID it's that didn't work out. Yeah, no, no What time is short. But um, but I'm a Latter Day diabetic and that's that's who I am.

Scott Benner 1:13:17
Latter Day diabetic is probably going to be the name of the episode. That was very good. That's it. But now of course, you have to understand now that in my more Honestly, I'm like ladder with D's or T's. I'll figure it out later.

Adriana 1:13:32
latter tees, but yeah, yeah. So yeah, it was great. Though, thank

Scott Benner 1:13:39
you very much. Hey, if I come to Utah, or my politics so like, they will they like just push me back out of the state? Or is there a forcefield that I'll run into for having no being liberal or anything like that or no? Right now, although now they're really conservative people listening, you're like, Oh, I'm sorry. You have plenty What?

Adriana 1:14:01
I was just gonna say the more and more people I see move in are actually from California. And there's this like, ongoing joke of people moving in and they're like Utah, and they have like the shape of Wyoming. They're like, move to Utah, and they're trying to push them over to Wyoming.

Scott Benner 1:14:18
Alright, hippies, I'm on the way, don't worry about it. I'll come. We'll balance this all up. It's so funny. Because when we're just now when I was talking, I thought there are five of I don't I never think about the political leanings of people listening to the show. I have no concern about it, and I don't care. And I do think that if you listen to me, I don't probably feel very liberal. And it's funny, I'm not, but I really am. And so I'm very liberal about some things and I wouldn't call myself conservative about anything, but I have more conservative ideas about things that you wouldn't expect maybe. I'm sure a lot of people can, you know, talk about themselves, and probably Feel like the idea of like, I'm really kind of down the middle on most, you know stuff overall. But yeah, I get worried about that sometimes like, I'm like, if I go there, well, they just Can they see it on me or will they? Can they smell it?

Unknown Speaker 1:15:13
Oh no,

Scott Benner 1:15:15
that guy probably voted for a democrat once we got to get requests. You know, like and then I find myself like in some desert in Utah being eaten by snakes. By the way, are there snakes there that are poisonous?

Adriana 1:15:27
Um, we got rattlesnake.

Scott Benner 1:15:28
I can't. I'm sorry. I thought this was gonna be a real idea. But I see now I can't. And I'm out bears. rattlesnakes, humidity, snow. These are things I need to avoid. I'm delicate.

Adriana 1:15:42
Yeah, we don't have humidity here. So you won't get that. But we do got bears and mountain lions. And

Scott Benner 1:15:48
so I gotta have a gun. Like just to walk outside at night.

Adriana 1:15:53
Hope sometimes when you're in the mountains, but

Unknown Speaker 1:15:57
yeah,

Scott Benner 1:15:59
I'd have to figure out how to shoot a gun first, then. There's a lot to do.

Adriana 1:16:03
You come to Utah. I'll teach you how to shoot again.

Scott Benner 1:16:06
Well, yeah, that's a nice that That's lovely. I'm gonna make sure your blood sugar's nice and stable. First, I don't want you out there. 350 showing me how to shoot a gun. I'll be like, Adrian, how long is that pod? been on? It's been on the whole time. How's it before we start? How do you feel, by the way, after an hour to get your blood sugar back down? You feel better?

Adriana 1:16:24
Um, you know, my blood sugar is still a little higher than I want it. But, you know, it does feel good to. I can always feel People always ask me like, how do you feel when your sugar is high? And I'm like, there's not really a good answer for that. But the best way that I feel is like, that sour stomach kind of feeling. And, you know, maybe just not. Yeah, that. And just not completely in my head, like, kind of that foggy feeling. But Well, listen, here's

Scott Benner 1:16:55
a practical idea for you that I use when I didn't bring it up at the time, because we didn't know each other well enough an hour ago. But now I feel like I've seen your underwear. So we're good. And I would have put well seen, you know, by understanding the greater picture, you understand what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah, you made me embarrassed, I can't even say what I was gonna say is I would have slapped that pod on. And I would have like doubled the basil for Arden for like an hour. Right away. And Bolus a correction for the number. And maybe like even a little more like I would have crushed it like because a new insulin pump site sometimes is not as you know, effective as it as it will be in an hour or two or a day. So I kind of pushed more insulin in that scenario, especially with the number in the 300 I would have pushed hard and drinking water. You should be hydrating to get that out of you. And you're an adult and don't need me to tell you any of that. But that's the things that like I would have done for the people listening Oh, yeah, please. Alright, listen, this has to stop or you and I are gonna strike up some toward online affair. And we already know we can, you can be had through an app. So I don't want to ruin your beard or mine or anything like that. It's very nice, very much to me December to being that you're basically a child and I'm almost a senior citizen. So I really appreciate you coming on and doing this. I genuinely do. A huge thanks to Adriana for coming on the show. And adding to that ever growing list of Mormons that have been on the Juicebox Podcast. If you'd like to be on the podcast and you think you have a great story to tell, reach out, find me Scott at Juicebox Podcast calm. And if you're a Mormon, and you know why this show is so popular in Utah and within your community, please, I want to know Thanks so much to Dexcom on the pod and touched by type one for sponsoring this episode of the Juicebox Podcast Get yourself a free no obligation demo of the Omni pod tubeless insulin pump app my Omni pod comm forward slash juice box and check out that dexcom@dexcom.com forward slash juice box. If you can't remember that there are links in your show notes and links at Juicebox podcast.com. And don't forget touched by type one at touched by type one.org or on your social medias, Facebook and Instagram. Thank you so much for listening. be back soon with the next episode of the Juicebox Podcast. I genuinely appreciate you listening. I love it. When you tell somebody else about the show. Please subscribe and an app. And what else? Oh, if you're really into management stuff, check out the private facebook page Juicebox Podcast, type one diabetes. And if you just want to keep up with the show on Facebook, it's bold with insulin and Of course, I'm on Instagram at Juicebox Podcast. I feel like I'm on a roll. So if you're looking for those diabetes pro tip episodes, they're right there in your podcast player, they begin at Episode 210, where you can find them at diabetes pro tip com, looking for defining diabetes there in your app as well. Just search defining diabetes, they'll all pop up. And if they don't, you can find them at Juicebox Podcast comm too. All right, that's it. It's the beginning of the year. I'm super excited for season seven to be going on. I hope you're enjoying it. It's gonna. It's gonna be great. Why would I say otherwise? you imagined I was like, Whoa, season seven. train wreck. It's on the way people stay stay. But it's not. I got good stuff coming. You want to know what? All right. Um, no, I'm not doing that. Although I am looking right now, at the next three episodes. And they got goodness written all over him. You want like a sneak peek? Hmm, maybe? Maybe? Well, I won't I write one little tease. You know how we always have adults on her like I was diagnosed with type two diabetes. And it turned out I was type one. You know, and they're like 25 and 28. And everything. Soon, someone's coming on who was diagnosed with type two diabetes and had type two diabetes. Have some stuff coming up about a service dog with Esther. And Jaden is going to be on the show very soon. James young man who I just recorded with, and his episode is terrific. I can't wait for you to I'm going to give you that one next week. How about next week? We do Jaden and the service dog episode, or do we want to do the type two? I don't know. I'll figure it out. So

I'm still here. I didn't go anywhere. The hours mean nothing anymore. days are blending together. I don't even care what time it is. Stuck in my house. Has nothing to do whole worlds upside down. All right. That was a bummer. Should we do something fun at the end? Why don't we make fart noises together. I'll count the three. And then we'll all make a fart noise. So wherever you are right now, you're in the grocery store, or your kitchen or driving in your car. I don't care. Now just lick the palm of your hand. Like if you're in the grocery store, maybe don't like the palm of your hand. Just but I mean, you know what live dangerously so you lick the palm of your hand. And then just press it up against your mouth and it only works with really need two hands. Hold on. Sorry. I tried it with one hand that did not work. I'm going again. If you did that, seek mental health counseling. You really shouldn't be listening that closely to a guy on a podcast. Although if he did it You're my people.

#427 Red Dye

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Laura's young son was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes.

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Scott Benner 0:14
Hello, friends, and welcome to Episode 427 of the Juicebox Podcast. On today's episode, Laura is with us. She's the mom of a small child, who was recently in the last couple of years diagnosed with Type One Diabetes. And the way they got to the diagnosis was really interesting. Please remember, while you're listening that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan for becoming bold with insulin. Just a quick reminder to check out the T one D exchange at T one day exchange.org forward slash juice box. If you're a US resident, you can add your data to the registry and help everyone living with Type One Diabetes.

This episode of The Juicebox Podcast is sponsored by the Contour Next One blood glucose meter, you too can use Arden's blood glucose meter by going to Contour Next one.com forward slash juicebox. Everyone has a blood glucose meter. But you all don't have a meter like this. It's so easy to hold, use and has incredible accuracy. You owe it to yourself to check out Contour Next one.com forward slash juicebox. This show is sponsored today by the glucagon that my daughter carries g Vogue hypo Penn, Find out more at G Vogue glucagon.com forward slash juice box.

Laura 2:08
Hi, my name is Laura. I'm married and have two kids. I have a 15 year old stepdaughter who slipped with us pretty much all of her life. And then we have a five year old son named Joseph and he is our type one he was diagnosed when he was three, back in October of 2018. We're coming up on our second diversity. And we are we've been at home for the last several months, you know, with all of the things going on. So it's really given us a chance to hone in on settings and kind of just focus on the diabetes without worrying about the school and everything. So we're getting there really, really doing well.

Scott Benner 2:55
So better than getting there. All right, well, let's find out about so there's a couple of threads to your story that I want to pull on. Yeah. And first of all, is we met somewhere where was that? I

Laura 3:05
did. So I actually I live about two hours east of Dallas. And there was a jdrf I believe type one nation summit in the Dallas area. And I had a couple of friends that are in our local type one group that we realized we were all going and so we kind of met up there. And whenever I realized that you were going to be on the speaker list. I didn't care what else was going on. If there's another session that was just as good. I was like, No, there's no way I have to go to that one. But funny story with that is is I actually before COVID had. It's funny how they say elective surgery because it really wasn't. But I had to have a surgery around the same time as the conference and told my husband I said, I don't care if we need to push it back a week. You know, this is elective, they said it's not a major emergency. I said I really want to go to this conference. I said so let me go to the conference, and then I'll have that surgery afterwards. So yeah, I actually planned the surgery to coincide after the conference.

Scott Benner 4:16
You know, I was a late add to that one. And because of that, I got what I would consider like a side room. And, and I said to the person I was like, Look, well, I'll do that. I'm like that rooms not gonna hold all the people though, that are gonna show up and she's like, no, no other buddies already picked up their eyes again. Okay, we'll see. And that room was packed, people were flying out the doors and stand that along the walls and bringing

Unknown Speaker 4:41
out

Scott Benner 4:42
chairs for the aisles. And that was fun.

Laura 4:45
Went to the keynote, and you know, earlier with the lunch and it was funny cuz I was talking to my friend. And I said, wouldn't it been so much better if he had been the keynote and we could have filled this whole ballroom up instead of having to go into that little room.

Scott Benner 4:59
I thought The same thing, nobody listens to me though, so it doesn't matter. And those things are probably never going to happen again. So I think you came to the second to last one of those I'll probably ever do

Unknown Speaker 5:09
solo, I

Scott Benner 5:10
don't know. But I really did have a good time. It was weird for me, because I usually show up at those things and speaking number of times during the day, and because I was just sort of doing a favor at the end, you know, and showing up kind of at the last minute, I just, it wasn't, I didn't know what to do for like hours in the middle of the day, like, what do you do now? Right? Do you just like ice walking around talking to people, and I just didn't, I was I was a bit a little lost, but the group was great. And I got to see, they hand out questionnaires to the people in the room at the end to fill out like what you think of the speaker and that kind of stuff. And I got to see that. And it was really cool. Like, I know how much people enjoyed it. So it was it wasn't just my interpretation of how much they enjoyed it. Because in my own mind, you all loved it. Just say,

Unknown Speaker 6:00
Oh, yeah, it was great.

Scott Benner 6:02
So funny. So as a person who had heard the podcast prior, but then we're sitting in the live, how do I do in an hour of encapsulating the podcast and making it seem like something you'd want to check out? And did it seem reasonable? Or did it sound like,

Laura 6:19
Oh, for sure. It's one of those kind of things, you had both ends of the spectrum. You know, you had the ones that had been listening and wanted to be there, I guess more for confirmation for themselves to kind of keep up what they're doing. Maybe see if there was any new things. And then you have the ones that have never heard you before. And I think it was, it was awesome. You know, once I left and went to the next one, it was a panel session. And it definitely wasn't full by any means. I think we ended up leaving about halfway through it. I was like, Yeah, I've heard all this. But um, it was one of those things, like I said, the ones that have never heard you before. We're just asking such great questions that, you know, you've covered on the podcast, for sure. But it was it was great, because I think they get that sense of I'm not sure how to say but like a familiarity, like, you know, you're there in person, they can ask you this. And, you know, one question better off of another. It was, it's hard to compact all that information in such a short amount of time. But yeah, definitely. I think one of the biggest things I remember people noticing was the slide where you had all of the podcast episodes that you suggested to start with. And I think I think I saw like, half the room cell phones go up and take a picture of it. It was, it was cool, because I know a lot of people probably started listening after they left or, you know, on the way home or whatever

Scott Benner 7:45
I have to tell you when in that specific room, there was an endocrinologist in the first row. Oh, wow, I had met him the night before. It was really delightful, and was telling me how much he enjoyed the podcast and everything. But there was times where you know, I mean, listen, you're there. I'm not a medical person at all right? So I'm relaying my experiences, which are, for the most part, not consistent completely with what people are told in doctors offices, right? And so I'm talking about what we do and in conversations I've had with other people, and like, my eyes would just drift over to him once in a while, like, is he judging me? Or how's this going? But he was smiling again. I was like, all right, he's in we're good. Like, you know, let's, let's keep going. Not that it's not, you know, I mean, you start the thing by saying, Look, I'm not a doctor, this isn't medical advice. You know, right. You're gonna hear about my experience with my daughter. I don't even have diabetes, for God's sakes. You know, like, yeah, I mean, maybe you shouldn't even be here is like how I feel what I'm saying it but to see people rattling along and like you said, getting kind of jacked up and asking questions and and then the notes you get in the weeks afterwards are always very amazing. Like just like I never thought of this and you should see what it's doing for me anyway, it was it was really nice to meet and and to be there. I really hope that one day we're all allowed to gather in rooms again. And

Unknown Speaker 9:03
I really did here.

Scott Benner 9:04
I would do I would definitely do more of it. I enjoyed it. The traveling part is is not good. That that part I don't like very much.

Laura 9:13
Did you have like some experience at the airport? I'm trying to remember if it was that one or another one? That Oh, no,

Scott Benner 9:19
no, yeah, I left there. So what people don't know. None of this is is a glamorous thing like you hump yourself in you know, the day before you're going to talk and so you're pretty exhausted when you're talking to begin with and, you know, you get a car It used to be somebody put you in a taxi, like a gentleman, but now they're like, get yourself a car and find your way here and you're like, Oh, Jesus, all right, okay. I'm not exactly an Uber person. So like, you know, I get to the hotel and there's some problems checking in I get that all worked out and they give you a nice dinner and but you've got a headache from the, you know, from the travel. Like I'm sitting there like, Oh my god, you know, and, and then it was all I felt like I got like, paid back 1000 times by meeting everybody but then I got back to the airport, which is by the way you're done. And then they're like, Alright, well get yourself to the airport, I actually a person who came to see me talk and I got them to drive me. Nice. My wife's like, one day you're gonna get murdered. And I was, like I said, I think I'm better off with people who like the podcast and just a random Uber guy, right? There you go. So we get to the I get to the airport. And I am really gassed. Like, it's, it's a quick turnaround, like, I'm back in an airport 36 hours after it was in one. And I'm sitting there just trying to think, like, I'm gonna go into the restroom and change into something more comfortable to fly in. And I'm sitting and listening to music and trying to find my center a little bit. And this person comes up to me and just kind of waves in my face. And I take out my headphones. They're like, Hi, are you Scott? And I was like, is this weird happens, like, Am I getting a shot? Right in an airport? Like, what did I say on that podcast, you know, and it ended up being a person who was just a fan of the show. And I said, Oh, were you just at my talk? And she goes, No, I was like, wait, what, um, you're not from Dallas. We're happenstance Lee in an airport together. And you recognize me from a podcast about type one diabetes? Wow, I was like, I made it. But no, it was really nice. It really was like, it's not something you know, you don't you don't float a podcast in the world. And think One day, a random person in an airport is gonna know who you are. Right. Very weird. So Dallas, definitely a it was a great experience. And I liked it. I liked the people and, and everything. But like I said, I don't know when we'll ever do something like that again. Anyway, will you share with me what your elective surgery was?

Laura 11:43
So, um, I actually have a family history of colon cancer. And so my grandfather actually passed away from it. Back when I was, I believe a junior in college, so 15 years ago. So anyways, my dad ended up and my aunt ended up having to have colonoscopies, you know, pretty regularly just to you know, alleviate any, you know, problems. But it was never really passed down that I needed to do that, or my sister needed to do that, you know, at that point, and, you know, I'm 36. And so, colon problems really aren't, you know, common at my age, it's not that they don't happen, just not common, but ended up having. So long story short, and I had been having some digestive issues and things but kind of passed it off. And it seems to have gotten better, about a year prior. And coincidentally, it was kind of around the same time that Joseph was diagnosed. So things really didn't, for me, and they weren't in the forefront, because, you know, I was thinking about him and everything. And it really didn't feel like mine wasn't that big of an issue. Of course, as a parent, you, you know, you take better care of your kids than you yourself sometimes. But I'd gotten to the point where I went to see a gastroenterologist after seeing my primary care physician, she said, let's get this checked out. Let's roll out something make sure it's not something minor. And you could just, you know, take some meds and get better or whatever. So see the gastro and he says, Let's do colonoscopy and endoscopy. You've had some, you know, you have asthma. And then I had the some of the gastro problems that were showing up and he said, let's go ahead and just do this and rule out things and hopefully, maybe it's just something simple. So when in for that around Thanksgiving of this past year, they find a polyp that was too large to remove. And while I was in the colonoscopy, endoscopy ended up being fine, I had a hernia, but they were able to remedy that. And so he says, let's go ahead and schedule you for surgery. It's elective. So being in public education, I don't have a lot of time off. And because it was elective, the hospital wouldn't do it around the holidays, which would have been perfect because I would have already been off for it. And so I ended up having that in February after the podcast and not sorry after the conference. Yeah. So anyways, get the results back couple of days stay in the hospital, I had to it was a colon resection they ended up taking out I think four centimeters of my lower colon and it was kind of one of those. I wish that I would have probably taken care of this sooner but thankfully it was good timing doctor said they caught everything, but that it could have eventually turned into colon cancer had it been left 10 you know, 15 years so it's one of those kind of things that like I said, it was just good timing thankfully didn't let it you know, procrastinate any longer and got it done soon enough.

Scott Benner 14:53
But that's a serious story. I think I thought you're gonna say like I was getting like butt implants or something like that. No, no. And then when you said it was something serious, I thought, Why can you imagine that this story ends with her put this off to come to see me talk. And then she has happened. I'm like, Yeah, I

Unknown Speaker 15:09
wouldn't have told you if that was the case.

Scott Benner 15:12
If I gave you cancer, you would have kept that out of this. I appreciate that very much.

Laura 15:16
Well, thankfully, like I said, 10 to 15 years, it had a good lifespan it would have happened in but

Scott Benner 15:23
what's it like now for this? Like, when do you have to how often you have to check in on it.

Laura 15:28
So a good thing about it is, is, once they got it, it was the only one there. So there's not really a lot of follow up other than just every now and then I think he said, Every two years, I'll have to go back for a follow up colonoscopy. And then obviously, as they don't see things, they'll span that out maybe two, five years? Or

Scott Benner 15:48
do you have hair covering your microphone or something weird like that? You just got siblings, you just got much softer.

Laura 15:55
any better?

Scott Benner 15:55
I don't know. You have to say something?

Unknown Speaker 15:57
Can you hear me? No, it's

Scott Benner 15:59
far away. Is the mic near your mouth?

Laura 16:01
It's right near it.

Scott Benner 16:02
Here. How did that happen? All right. Now you were talking and you just got you got farther away on me. That's all. Alright. Okay. So there's follow up to do. But there's, there's no like you don't, I mean, they're not telling you you need to live like this is going to be a problem, you have to change. Not at all eating or

Laura 16:21
So prior to whenever I'd gone to see the gastroenterologist and I had kind of changed up my diet a little bit and take away some of the things that were less acidic, and make sure that I wasn't drinking, you know, like gallons of orange juice, and things like trying to think like broccoli, cauliflower, things that were gas producing. He said, you know, take those out and nuts, things like that. But he said, You know, you're a normal 36 year old and don't feel like this has to hinder you at all. So, whenever Joseph was born, I had a C section. So I was already familiar to an abdominal surgery to begin with. So at this point, I have a horizontal section from the C section and now I have a vertical incision from the colon resection. So I've got a little t that makes you also

Scott Benner 17:18
met may one day have a podcast episode called Laura farted too much. So Oh, my God, my

Unknown Speaker 17:24
husband would love that.

Scott Benner 17:28
Well, we'll see. Maybe you'll say something else that'll get you off of that one. But strong contender right now. So anyway, so you had like you said, you have a stepchild, who's the you're older, and then you're younger? Is the type one diagnosed at three. In your note to me, you're talking about pretty significant. I felt behavioral issues, especially for a three year old. Can you tell me what was going on? And did it just sort of start out of nowhere. I mean, was he like a pain in the butt when he was nine months old or like what happens?

Laura 18:02
So when he was born, like I said, being an education, I had to go back to work with, you know, limited time off. He was born at the beginning of January. And I went back last week of February. And it was about six weeks after he had been born. And we were lucky enough to have an amazing friend who was a stay at home mom, and she kept him for this app from the time he was six weeks old till he was about 18 months. And so we were able to thankfully kind of avoid all of you know, the daycare snot and all that fun stuff that first, you know, year and a half that he was able to be with her. And he started school when he was 18 months. And it was kind of one of those he was impulsive. Very much. He was aggravated A lot of times when things didn't go away his way more so than I would think a regular 18 month old would be he would push or hit or whatever. And we didn't really have that at home. And so it was kind of one of those like, Where's this coming from? And he's obviously never liked the word No, he he stubborn. He likes to get his way. And there's you know, a tape there's a 10 year age gap between him and his sister. And so, you know, it's not like they hang out and you know, they'll play with each other to a point but you know, a 15 year old and a five year old you're you're not gonna see them together. 24 seven,

Scott Benner 19:32
pretty limited intersection of ideas and thoughts.

Unknown Speaker 19:36
For for sure.

Scott Benner 19:37
Oh, by the way is your 15 year old is really has that much in common with your five year old than your 15 year old has a problem like Yeah.

Laura 19:46
But yeah, so he he would get in trouble at school and it would just kind of be hit or miss. A lot of times but I would kind of dread getting the note home. What had happened to him The day like, oh, God did he hit, he didn't buy, I will say that, thankfully, he did get bit, but he didn't bite himself. But he would push or he would shove or whatever. And we tried lots of different behavioral interventions where we would, you know, let him be off on his own, give him time to then certain things or whatever. So, um, he's at that school for a full year, almost two years, almost two years. And he had gotten it gotten to the point where the school is like, let's take a break. They weren't necessary.

Unknown Speaker 20:42
It's not, you get out

Laura 20:44
that weren't necessarily saying you're out, you're gone, as but they said, let's take a break, you know, come back in the fall, he was going to go during the summer, a couple of days for like a mother's day out kind of thing, just to keep them in for a little bit of, you know, kid interaction. So anyways, he's out, but I'm still working at that point. And I have to figure out whether or not I can get him into another school. And thankfully, it was only a couple of weeks, I'd visited a couple of other schools. But the problem is, is you go into it with this stigma that your kid's been a behavior problem. But you know, it's one of those kind of things that every school is different, they deal with things in different ways. But the new school he went to was great, brought him in, welcomed him. He had the only thing I didn't like about that was there's teachers changed a little bit more frequently, there's a little bit more turnover at that school. Yeah, they have

Scott Benner 21:39
more stress

Laura 21:41
a little bit. But they had a built in cafeteria, they provided food if we needed it, he ended up not liking the foods that they did. But once we had left the previous school, one of his teachers had suggested going to look into occupational therapy, to see if there might be some sensory issues. So we ended up going to our occupational therapist here in town. He did get diagnosed with sensory processing disorder, we went through several months worth of therapy, things started to get better. And then bam, he's diagnosed. And we're like, maybe this isn't sensory, maybe this is something that's related with the diabetes. Yeah. But my both my stepdaughter and my husband, and a couple of members of his family have ADHD. And so there's definitely some signs pointing to things that are, you know, related to ADHD that there's a good chance he has it or add, not sure, too young to diagnose at this point. And we definitely don't want to medicate him at five years old, you know, yeah. So. But yeah, so he's diagnosed, he was at the school. The new school that we moved to, for a total of say, he wouldn't may is diagnosed in October, and he went a little bit during the summer. So what, five, six months? So it was one of those things when he got diagnosed, when we were in the hospital, I was, you know, scared, talking with my husband, like, what if they don't take him back because of this, you know, that's obviously it's a it's a daycare. It's not a school. It's not public, there's no nurse, but when I called them and he got diagnosed over a weekend, so of course, we had a couple of days to freddo for it. But when Monday came around, I was able to call them from the hospital. They said, Oh, no, that's great. We actually have another type one here. She's a little bit older, and comes to the after school program. So we're familiar with the finger sticks and and insulin if we needed to give it so it was kind of one of those. Oh, okay, breathe a little bit kind of thing.

Scott Benner 23:59
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I have a couple of questions. I don't want to get far ahead without asking my questions. So first of all, I feel for you because I once had a dog kicked out of a kennel and that was horrifying. I was walking out like I'm so sorry. You know, and and I can't even imagine like what that must feel like for someone to say, Hey, you know, you need to get your head out of here because

Laura 27:17
well, that to their point, I will say they did offer in the fall. They said hey, you want to come back? Let's try this again. So at least they did offer I mean, it was Yeah,

Scott Benner 27:27
that's all cool. I just mean in that initial moment when you're when you're standing there like Hi, it's me, Laura. I'm here to pick up my kid. They're like, yeah, don't bring that kid back here. You're like, Whoa, okay. And like you said, You were like, you'd wait for it. Right? Like, and that's gotta be stressful too. It was Yeah, no kidding. And so Okay, so here we are. You've tried these things for, you know, different issues. You're wondering if it's ADHD, maybe it's sensory, maybe it's not, you get the diagnosis for the Type One Diabetes. I guess let's delve into that. And then we'll bring it back around again. So how do you how does the type one present?

Laura 28:06
At that point, he's three, he hadn't potty trained yet. And we hit started really, really working on that whenever he was home over the weekends and working at school because the school had a bathroom in the classroom. And so they would take them and you know, just peers around him would show and so we really, really were working on potty training. So it seemed like he was getting it. But he would be drinking excessively like down a drink and then want another one five seconds later, but then go to the potty. Right, you know, as soon as he finished the one. So my husband like, Oh, he's getting it. He's getting a Skittle for it. And he wants to go potty. Well, we get calls from the school. So this all starts kind of on a Sunday night, he wet the bed on Sunday night. And he ended up having to go to school the next day. And I'd put him in a pole up. But he was reading through the pull ups. And I want to say that week, because we ended up going to the hospital on a Friday on that Friday. So it was really only a week of symptoms. We ended up brought up maybe four or five sets of clothes over a two day period of time that he was at school because he went through them so badly and needed to be changed even with the extra set of clothes that you know you already have there. So it was one of those things that my husband was venting to a couple of people at work and saying, you know, this potty training is going good, but oh my gosh, he's wetting himself so much. And he had said something to one of his co workers. And she said, that sounds like type one diabetes, you need to get that checked out. So it's ironic and it's kind of a scary story that she said, I'm not sure who was related to her or she knew but they had somebody they knew that had a kid that got diagnosed, but the kid was a little younger. And it gotten so thirsty that the kid was drinking out of the dog's water bowl. Wow. And so she had told that to my husband, and he's like, you know what, let's just go get this checked out. So that all started on Sunday, I was able to get him an appointment on that Friday with our pediatrician, but she is half day only clinic on Fridays. And so when we went in, and I unfortunately wasn't able to contain him to be able to get a blood draw or finger stick, he was fighting us combative, and he's got skills. He does. Bad ninja skills. When it comes to us. He's

Scott Benner 30:37
got good footwork, he knows that a stick and movie catch you with the right cross out of nowhere.

Laura 30:44
It also didn't help the fact that I was pretty squeamish about blood. It's funny now with all of the finger sticks. And we were doing injections for a while there and pod changes and everything. I've gotten a lot better. But when she went to go do the blood, I was like, Oh, I can't do this. And so she said, All right, let's figure out something else. Whenever your husband gets off work, we can figure something else out. So I called him after lunch, he got off a little early. And we went to an urgent clinic in town and he was able to kind of help out and they tested his sugar. And it was one of those surreal moments because they were like, I think this meter is broken, because it's saying it's over 700. So it was pretty high. And so they tested him to two times to be sure. And both times it was over 700 so much that their meter didn't say a number. It just said over 700. So, yeah, we're at that urgent clinic, and they call the pediatrician and say, you know, what do you want to do this, she says, get him to Dallas to the Children's Hospital. So they bring over a crew from Dallas Children's Hospital, and he gets ambulance to the airport, which he thought was really cool. He had never flown before. And we get in one of the Children's Hospital jets. And we go into Dallas and ambulance back from the airport to children's and my husband drives because it's not a big enough plane for all of us to go. And so my stepdaughter was away visiting her other grandparents at that point in the Dallas area. So once we got there, she was able to come up and see us as well. But we actually the funny thing is, is in the amount of time it took us like I said, we live about two hours east of Dallas, my husband was able to drive, go home, get all of the stuff we needed, and meet us there in about the same time. So it took us about two hours. It's not that long of a flight. But it took us about that long to get there. Funny, we could have just driven whatever, pull

Scott Benner 32:52
them in a wagon, maybe even made it in a reasonable amount of time. It sounds like I was wondering, when you said that I thought well, maybe they were really far from where they needed to go or how there was this situation. They were just like, Hey, we haven't used this plane all day.

Laura 33:07
Let's just get it out. But thankfully, my husband's insurance. He works for higher education, Junior College. And so you have state insurance, and it covers all of the ambulance and all of the plane rides. So

Unknown Speaker 33:18
my next question.

Laura 33:22
Yeah, I saw what white guy build. I was like, wow, $40,000 plane flight.

Unknown Speaker 33:27
That's awesome. Wow, no kidding. Geez. Yeah. Oh, my gosh,

Scott Benner 33:32
thank goodness. Like, can you imagine if your insurance was like, Wait, what? No, you couldn't drove there the same time? You'd have been like, Oh, yeah, I know, honestly. We're gonna put you on a payment plan. Like No thanks.

Laura 33:45
I don't pay this out until he's 18 or older,

Scott Benner 33:48
essentially $15 a year, just until this is all taken care of. Okay, so Wow, you get to the hospital. And I mean, his blood sugars, especially for a little person. I wonder how much different that is? Probably not. But it made me wonder like is a higher blood sugar like that in a smaller body more dire than in a larger one? Or I wonder what those are that? Yeah.

Laura 34:11
So the great thing about this urgent clinic is is they cater to pretty much every need that you could ever want. They have people to come around and say Do you want a massage? You want a bottle of water? They've got all this you know, food available?

Scott Benner 34:23
They did come in on a jet. You seem important.

Laura 34:26
Well, no, this isn't the urgent clinic. And so of course, while he's there prior to us going in, of course, he's like, I want a candy bar. I want a soda. And so I'm sure that probably didn't help the situation. So it might have been a little lower. Prior to him eating all that food. Gotcha. Yeah.

Unknown Speaker 34:43
They drove his blood sugar up with the Good Eats.

Laura 34:46
Exactly. So they ended up I'm trying to think so the team that came from Dallas had, you know, this chart that they had based on his weight and the insulin that he needed and so they were able to give that to him prior To him go and hooked him up to an IV. IV was going while he was on the plane ride. It was it was interesting. But yeah, we get to Dallas come through the emergency entrance get into our room. They start him on diluted because of his size. At that point, I look back now. And I tell my husband all the time, like I wish I would have known I see the pictures and I'm like, Wow, he did lose weight. I don't even know how that's something you don't notice. You know, the circles under his eyes, things like that. I look back, you know, just kind of sad about it. But he ended up like I said he was on diluted. Once he was in the hospital for the first day, I want to say then they realized that he was going to need a little bit more. So they put him on the regular shrink. We started on novolog. And we were doing syringes because he was on quarter units at that point. And then once he got on the regular wearable to do the half units, and then they switched us over to pin on the human log. And we still did the syringe for the Lantus that he was doing. He did a morning dose of lantis. But it was hospital protocol whenever we were in that if they changed his dosage or the type that you had to stay for an extended period of time to get everything regulated. It's not the right word. But I think that's kind of what they're how they

Scott Benner 36:29
thought of it. So every time they made a change to this, they thought now you have to stay longer.

Laura 36:35
Not Not every change but change from the diluted to the full strength except that's reasonably Nova log to the human log on that.

Scott Benner 36:44
I don't understand what okay. So how long did you end up staying?

Laura 36:49
About four days? I think we were there. Three and a half. We went home on Tuesday. So we got there Friday, about midnight Saturday morning, and then left about lunchtime on Monday.

Scott Benner 37:02
You know, as I'm saying that Arden was in the hospital for like four or five days, too. Yeah. So and she was little she was too. And you know, her blood sugar was pretty pretty darn high when she got there. So I don't know how much of that is, is just good common sense, or how much of it is being careful because of how little they are and they can't talk and there's other things. By the way, before I forget this if the person whose kid drank out of the dog bowl, listen to this podcast, shoot me an email cuz Yeah, for sure. Totally get on the podcast, just in case you're wondering. I just really didn't want to forget this. Because that seems really, that really makes the point doesn't it? You know? Yep. Wow. So you guys get home. I'm interested in because you described your husband and your stepdaughter have ADHD a little bit. You don't like blood? So you guys were just I agree well trio to get involved in type one diabetes, right?

Laura 38:01
Oh, my husband was actually great about it. And my stepdaughter is fine about it. And he actually was a he worked in college as it's not a phlebotomist, but he worked at a plasma center. So he has no problem with blood at all. He could do it in asleep and probably find a vein. Even now, you know, 1520 years later, you're probably still do it and asleep. But yeah, he had no problems. And he was the one to initially do all of the doses because I just I wasn't there yet. But it didn't take long. I was stepping in and and saying, you know, this is my kid. I've got to do it for him. And you know, there's really no other option.

Scott Benner 38:43
Yeah, it turns out you didn't have as much of a phobia as you just didn't really like it. Yeah, you're able to like write that ship pretty well. Well, I would expect, obviously, no less. It's that stupid thing that you know, you hear people say all the time. Like I could never do that, like I sure you could. Yeah, yeah, absolutely good. Don't forget the hiker cut off his own arm. I'd like to make a list of people who think they can cut their arm off with a pen knife. That's a pretty short list, then all of a sudden you find your arm trapped in between two boulders and you say to yourself, ah, I guess I can't do this. I can't, because I don't want to die here. Well, that's that's pretty cool. You know, everybody kind of came together and got it together right away. What was the technology? Like? Did you guys transfer away from MDI pretty quickly? or What was your path like for that?

Laura 39:31
Um, I guess that's a relative term so quick for some people because, you know, some hospitals and NGOs require that you be diagnosed for at least six months or something. And we actually so he was diagnosed on October the 19th. And I actually just scrolled through some memories and saw that his first Dexcom he got a G six, and his first one that we answered it was on November 6, so relatively short for that to be doable. Finger sticks. Yeah. So that was that was great. And it's like I've heard you say before and many other people, we could have done MDI forever if it meant that we got to keep the G six. But once we actually got on the Omni pod, it's it's been great. But we started that his birthdays first week of January and we actually went to a waterpark for his birthday because who gets to go swimming in January. So he went to one indoor waterpark for his birthday. And he did the demo pod while we were there and just kind of kept it on see how it worked while we were in the water test. It was Yeah, good test. It worked out well. And my husband and I went in and did the sailing test with the endo. And at this point, we are still saying Dallas endo team. At that point, we're four months in, and we do the sailing test. He and I go up, he wears it for a couple of days. I wear for a couple of days and do all the settings and pretend you know to put stuff in. And then he starts it later that week. So October to January, we did an MDI and then he started Omnipod. In January,

Scott Benner 41:11
I called up pretty quickly and yeah, so his I'm assuming his blood sugars become more regulated, obviously. And what were his a once he's like through the first like, number of tests, how did it Yeah, so

Laura 41:25
when he was first diagnosed, he's at 10.5. And then we actually had our first endo checkup A month later, so not that much longer. So it really didn't decrease that much because we're still doing an MDI, we had only had the Dexcom for like a week maybe. So really not good data there. But it went down to a 10.3 the next month, but you know, progress, it's going down to a 9.4. Right? I'm trying to think right before he got the Omni pod, maybe like January, middle of January. Yeah. And then in between that appointment in his next appointment, I found the podcast and he was on the Omni pod. And we went from a 9.4 to a 7.8. So

Unknown Speaker 42:11
huge Johnson nicely,

Laura 42:13
huge, huge jump. And the great thing about it was is he wasn't having a lot of lows. At that point, we were able to catch him we were able to bump a nudge based on you know, things. The great thing about a toddler, as you know is their variance in food is pretty limited. So thankfully, he was eating a lot of the same foods. So I was able to get a good amount of data based off of that more good practice. I

Scott Benner 42:37
tell people all the time, like when, when you're really struggling, it kind of seems boring, but pick a weekend and make the same meal like two or three times in a row like you know, at the same breakfast, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, the same lunch, the same dinner. And it's a little boring, but at least you can do something, watch it happen make an adjustment, see what happens again, on a short time period. It's a way to make it fun with kids, I guess if you if you try. But it's so much easier than you know, doing macaroni and cheese today and the next day trying pizza and the third day doing a salad and like all your data is meaningless then yeah, like it's to make the next good decision.

Laura 43:16
So that's actually what I mean. I've done it pretty much ever since the beginning. But I do that now breakfast is our struggle, like most people's is. And so of course, he wants to have things that are really kid friendly, you know, muffins, cereal course. And you know, and so I'll just pick a week and say, Alright, this is what we're doing. We're gonna eat it every day for this week and try and get it better each time that we do it.

Scott Benner 43:41
That's Babel and it works right.

Unknown Speaker 43:43
And it works. Yeah.

Scott Benner 43:45
You just need you just need the repetition. Really? Yeah. So did little Mike Tyson's skills deplete as his blood sugar's came down, like

Unknown Speaker 43:56
what was fainted. So

Laura 43:57
in addition to getting the blood sugars more regulated, we were able to cut out a lot of artificial dyes, which has been tremendously helpful. Now, don't get me wrong, if he's got a school party and I go up and they want to have you know, Froot Loops or, you know, cookies or whatever, and they're totally all artificial. I'm not gonna deny him that by any means. But on the regular we do pretty natural stuff. Still hating eat things like a natural yogurt or a natural applesauce, things like that. But cutting out the dyes and getting the blood sugars regulated have definitely been helpful. Now, don't get me wrong. He's still a little Spitfire and sometimes rivals me and some of the things he says some, like, Where did you hear that? But a lot of times, it's like, oh, wait, there's a 15 year old sister. I know where he heard that.

Scott Benner 44:54
You know, he's gotta be pissed. I'm assuming you're raising him as a Cowboys fan and that would make any child unhappy.

Laura 45:00
So unfortunately, my husband would have to disagree with you on that. It's it's funny you're either are or you aren't. He's a Steelers fan. So we we root for the Pittsburgh Steelers.

Scott Benner 45:12
No kidding all the way from Dallas? Well, then I don't know what the kids problem is. I know right hold together. I'm interested about the dyes. We try hard here. I try hard here to push what I just consider to be basic foods on my family. Like I want you to look at your meal and be able to say, oh, there's chicken and butter and salt. Like, like, I didn't know what's in it, you know, I may, you know, make your own bread. There's, you know, it's flour and butter and water and yeast and sugar and not much more else. You know, what's in it? It's got a little bit of sugar in it. Honestly. I'm a fan of that. And but I never considered dies before. Well, yeah. What is that about?

Laura 46:00
So that was so like, if you open a box of Froot Loops up and you look at the side, you've got red 40, you've got yellow one, all these dyes. Red 40 was the big one that I noticed. It was kind of interesting, I would do these little experiments. There was kool aid that we did one day at school, I let him have a Kool Aid zero. And then the next day, we had another one. And so it was two days straight of having this Kool Aid zero with red 40 in it and his behavior was just crazy. I I just knew that it was related to that. Because the next couple of days he didn't have it. He was fine. I didn't get any notes. Hmm.

Scott Benner 46:47
Well, I just saw I just googled read 40 side effects, is the three most widely used culprits yellow five, yellow six and red 40 contain compounds including benzene and four. Wow, what is that word? amino bifen all the research has linked. This was cancer research is also associated food dyes with problems in children including allergies, hyperactivity, learning impairment, irritability and aggressiveness. How about that?

Laura 47:15
Wow. All right, was one of those just writing's on the wall. So that was that it just stuck in us that we've got to do better for him. Because obviously, as a five year old, he's gonna pick whatever any other kids picking out. But with the ADHD and the sensory stuff, it just hypes it up even more.

Scott Benner 47:39
Yeah, yeah, it's just compounds it right, just one issue on top of another. And, wow, okay, well, I'm glad you told me about that. That's not something I ever considered before. I don't know that I eat a lot of red food. That doesn't get itself red. But I know a lot of people do. And

Laura 47:55
you'd be surprised and things. Yeah. Thankfully, you know, with, you know, being type one, he likes to drink, drinks, water with additives, and all of your ones. They're just, you know, powders you pour in those habit. So we couldn't do like crystal like, we can do anything. But they do make some dye free ones, which has been great. He likes those and some natural ones that have come out that are flavored with like, one of my favorite drinks that he drinks is a juice box. So it looks like anything else, like another kid would drink. But it's flavored with monkfruit. But I know a lot of people have allergies to things like that, but thankfully he doesn't. But it has it has one carb and and it tastes just like a regular juicebox. So that's been a great fun.

Scott Benner 48:38
I'm gonna check my wife's food cuz she can get aggressive sometimes.

Laura 48:41
Sometimes we have to check ourselves. So we actually started eating a little bit more healthy after he was diagnosed. Not so much so for the dyes, but for a lower carb because we had heard at that point, you know, this two years ago, but we had heard that, you know, lower carb is a little easier on type one. And you know, the health benefits for us were definitely an added bonus. But we started eating kind of a mixture between keto and weightwatchers. And we just kind of kept with it. He still really not eating a lot of the things that we eat, and I know, going into it I was one of those parents, my kids gonna eat everything that we eat, and I'm not going to make a separate meal for him. Well, when he's three years old, and you cook something, he's like, I'm not eating that. You've already given him insulin, like okay, well, he's gonna get something

Scott Benner 49:31
Plus he really he blacking your eye a little bit. So you're really he's probably the sweetest little kid.

Laura 49:39
He is it's so funny this morning because he's with my parents today cuz

Unknown Speaker 49:46
No, just kidding guys.

Laura 49:49
It's me and him for the summer and he of course likes to be underfoot near 24 seven because he's a mama's boy. But he whenever I left him, he was like, I love you. You blew me a kiss. It's like, Ah, you can't leave that.

Scott Benner 50:04
That's wonderful. Isn't it? Sounds like you've got it moving in the right direction for sir. Sure. It is interesting to to see how I mean, how aggressive to not, you know, in a short amount of time is really interesting. And you do wonder how many people wouldn't think too. I mean, obviously, you could look at the diabetes, but I don't know that all of that aggression in the beginning, you know, unless he was honeymooning going into diabetes for a long time. It doesn't seem doesn't seem reasonable, just to point it to that.

Laura 50:35
But I definitely think the dyes and the ADHD were a big big part of it. And it

Scott Benner 50:39
just the diabetes on top of it definitely didn't help the situation. Right, right. Yeah, you're just adding a different again, compounding a different problem on top of it for sure. I have to tell you like you don't listen, I don't know people. Some people probably think about it fine. But when Coronavirus started, I took like one good look in the mirror. And I thought to myself, Scott, you are the kind of person who will gain weight during something like this. Right? And so I was like, let's not do that, you know, and all I did was go to an intermittent fasting schedule. And just I just eat for eight hours a day and for 16 hours a day. I don't eat so I basically eat from like 11 to, you know, seven, or sometimes it's noon to eight but that's pretty much it right there. And I'm I'm 13 pounds lighter than I was when Coronavirus started. Nice and in. But thank you and in between those times that that 1107 I do not limit what I'm eating. Like yesterday, I had like a pulled pork sandwich and ice cream for lunch. And I don't gain weight. And I was like, Huh, and I had some heartburn that has completely disappeared. And don't get me wrong. Like I'm not like, I'm not eating a Twinkie on the half hour or anything like that, you know, like I'm not I have actually in full in full. Clear To be clear, I guess. I also and I've mentioned it once before I cut out refined oils.

Unknown Speaker 52:09
Oh, okay.

Scott Benner 52:11
I've never cut anything out of my my life before like that. But so anything that is any oil that is refined or pressed with heat, I won't use anymore. So like, even like no canola, no vegetable oil, like that kind of stuff. I'm just using what am I using olive oil like, you know, the lightest kind, and you know, and only cold pressed? Yeah, I'm not putting obviously that much effort into it. I don't even know what I'm doing when I'm talking about it. But I've just cut out like certain oils. And and. And that's it. So you know, when you cut that out, you're cutting out potato chips, I guess, stuff like that. But you know, I would say that's pretty much it. Like I'm not eating anything out of a bag, I'm not having certain oils, and I'm only eating for eight hours a day and 13 past, like three or four months now. So

Laura 53:03
my husband also does intermittent fasting a lot. And it same thing, like you were saying just so many benefits to it. And I remember a couple episodes ago, you were still wearing the Pro, and you were doing the fasting and you noticed how much things were better whenever you were in that fasting state. Well, foods weren't involved, especially if

Scott Benner 53:24
you're a person who at some point is going to become tied to, you know, there's long stretches of every 24 hour period where you're just you don't appear to be using very much of your own insulin, right, you know, and my blood sugar was it super stable for those 16 hours. And it still like once in a while something would happen. Like I had a bad dream, my blood sugar jumped way up. That was interesting, you know, to see. And there were some foods that obviously were harsher than others. But when I when I called on my insulin after not eating for 16 hours, it did the job, you know, 120 back down again, you know, you'd really have to eat to get the 130 or 135. Like I pressed it one time really hard. Arden made a cake. And it was just like, I mean, there's no way to know how many cups of sugar were in this confection you know, but it was a lot of sugar. And I was like, I just need two of them. I'm like, let me see what happens here. In the name of science. Well, it really was because no kidding. The second one I was pushing down. I was like, I don't really want this, you know? And like 135, something like that. That's it. All right. So, you know, but I don't know what would happen if I was having smaller snacks throughout the day. And I guess I'm gonna get to wear one more sensor at some point and I'll I maybe will take a day and break my fasting to see what happens if it just drives you up all day long. But I think that's going to be the case, I think you're gonna you're gonna end up laying in that 110 space for hours and hours at a time instead of being in that 85 space. Yeah, I mean, listen, I'm not into obviously, if you listen to this podcast, I'm not into telling people how to eat. And I really think that at its core, this podcast is about how to use insulin. And then from there, it's how to use it however you want to eat. Like, I just want people to understand how it works so that if they choose low carb, or they choose, you know, red dye number 40, they still know how to use their insulin. That's exactly important to me, you know. So it's cool that you guys found all this out. It's really I'm trying so hard to get somebody on to talk about intermittent fasting. But yeah, I've found anybody yet like, I really want like somebody who's a I don't know, a specialist that somebody could really talk about it because I don't know what I'm talking about. I only have it. I only have anecdotal, you know, information about what's happening to me.

Laura 55:44
I think Same here. Yeah.

Scott Benner 55:45
Yeah. So that's cool. All right. Listen, we're creeping up on an hour here. Did we want to feel like Did we miss it? Oh, I guess I do want to understand a little bit about you experienced that really big drop in a one. See, yeah, what were the changes that you made that led to that decrease?

Laura 56:04
Well, at that point, it was just instilling the things that we were listening to on the podcast, bumped down our high alerts, and we're able to kind of catch things be a little bit more proactive instead of reactive, but so I didn't get to say so he's actually been at three schools prior, and he's not even in kindergarten yet. But during the summer of last summer, 2019, I took him out, because I was at home. And I wanted to really focus on getting the blood sugar's under control. And we, I took a chance, because if I didn't keep him in, there's a chance that he would lose a spot and they don't usually fill up. But if they happen to for that fall session, so he lost his spot, and he ended up having to go to another school. But it was another kind of blessing in disguise. The second school, the way they manage was the office personnel were the ones that did the finger sticks, they did the insulin giving all that and the teachers were left out of it. And I would talk to them via their phones. And a lot of times it was I had to wait longer than I needed to or wanted to for something to happen. And so whenever he moved to the third school, the one most recently which they did theirs with the teacher, because they had a much smaller classroom, I think he only had like eight kids in his class. And so she was able to do things all herself trained her had the CD from our endo taught to her. And she was amazing. I look back now and wish that I could have had her as his teacher for all four years. It was cool. Yeah. And but yeah, so she dealt with it all. But we were able to hone things in over the summer. And so his lowest day when see prior to this 2019 20 school year was about 6.2. So it was it was pretty good. We were rocking and rolling. But then Coronavirus happens. And I had my surgery. And I honestly actually haven't been back to work because of all of this stuff since February. And it's now first of July. But when we got off during that time period, I had attempted looping back in August of 2019. And I don't know if you remember this or not because Arden would have been older and the smaller doses wouldn't really have mattered to her. But the algorithms, smaller doses hadn't been figured out with like it was missing ticks here and there.

Unknown Speaker 58:48
I remember and Yeah, I do.

Laura 58:49
Yeah. So it was one of those things where if I couldn't get this setting, and loot figured out before school, I wasn't going to feel safe sending him so we ended up we did it for about a month and things just weren't going like they needed to. So I said let's pick this up later whenever they get this figured out. And so the friend that I had talked about that went to the conference, we met up, they it started looping with her two type one kids, and I had actually mentioned it to her. And they were able to get theirs figured out pretty easily because her kids being a little bit older. And so February rolls along, I'm at home, he's been home and I'm like, you know what, this is the time I've got to step in and we've got to do this looping thing, because I need to be able to feel safe with him going to kindergarten, not that I wouldn't feel safe with him going. I just don't want to feel reliant on a school nurse or an aide to have to walk in somewhere. I want it to be where it's a little less thought of and a little bit more freedom for him. So we started looping in late February, and we Listen to all the episodes with looping that you done. And the one with Kenny Fox actually was the best one, I was actually able to talk to him. And it's crazy. I don't know if you know there's or not. But you actually answered one of my questions on an ascot and Jenny about hormones about growth hormones.

Unknown Speaker 1:00:19
I didn't realize that.

Laura 1:00:20
Yeah, so our biggest struggle was going to sleep and he would shoot up, like skyrocket up moments after his head hit the pillow. And it was all growth hormone. So setting his ISF significantly lower like it's double the ISF of his daytime, it made things so much smoother. I can't tell you how many nights of sleep I've actually gotten. It's, it's

Scott Benner 1:00:49
I, I hear that from a lot of people who sleep better with an algorithm helping them overnight is really, yeah, not it's not even to be surprised by this point. It's just, it happens. And it's fantastic. You know,

Laura 1:01:01
I just wished that it hadn't taken everything to happen for us to jump on board as wholeheartedly as we did when we did. I wish we could have done this sooner. But you know, it's one of those, like I said, his teacher was great and did amazing with him during the school year. And I think the transition over to kindergarten, you know, being in public schools. When I was in the classroom, I actually, we split off into two teams of the common areas that taught I taught a history class. So anyways, we had two teams, we had a special ed team. And then we had a 504 ESL team. And so I was always the 504 ESL team. And I actually had a couple of type ones that came through my classroom over the period, I was teaching, and I look back now and I think, you know, what was his blood sugar doing at this moment? Or did this affect It's so crazy, you think back and look, you know, and they're all you know, thriving adults at this point, and they're, you know, often out of school, but it's kind of a cool look back to see how things were without knowing because I had no involvement at that time,

Scott Benner 1:02:13
I can't tell you how much I think or how important I think it is to have some time to just reflect on what's going on. For sure. And it just, you know, I talked about it, I think a lot. But when things are going by so quickly, and life's happening so fast, you're just trying to stay like just trying to stay on the map, you know what I mean? Like, I just don't want to get too lost here, like, let me get the things done, I need to get done. And to make my money, I got to clean something, I got to feed people I have to shop like you know, you have to do all these things. When that slows down a little bit, you can step back, you can really start seeing things like food dye, and you know, where your how to make your boluses work better. And I guess the real trick is, is how to find that time, you know, when we're all not locked inside, right in voluntarily. And because that most of your life is not going to be like that with I should knock on wood, we are going to get out of here eventually, right? But, but you know, like, just it shines a light on the importance of reflection. And to be able to watch something, you know, kind of thoughtfully and say, Oh, I see what's happening here, you know, and then to watch it happen over and over again until it builds in your mind. Because sometimes you see things happen right in front of your face. And you don't notice them

Unknown Speaker 1:03:31
can't see the forest for the trees

Scott Benner 1:03:32
definitely can't, you know, happens, it happens a lot. So I tried to talk about people understanding, you know, macro and micro, like, think about things from further away, sometimes don't be so close up, you missed a lot, you know, there's a it's a silly thing. But you know, they say, right, you know, you hold your hand too close to your face, and you can't see anything else put your hand and so you back away, and all of a sudden everything else is there. And that's just the It's lucky for some people, obviously, some people don't have the same kind of, you know, options in their life. But this gave it to a great many more people. Obviously, there's still people working that, you know, didn't get to, you know, they they were found to be essential. And yeah, I didn't get to do this. But for so many people, I think they're having experiences like yours and like mine really like I don't know if I would have you know, I don't know if I would have tried the intermittent fasting I have a friend of mine told me about it a year ago. And I was like, yeah, and then, you know, I didn't know it. And then I then I got pinched and I thought oh, I have to do something. And that was the thing that was on top of my sort of mental list of if I'm going to worry about my health through food again, I think this is the thing I'm going to look at next is, I guess how I thought of it. So very cool. I mean, you guys have been on a little bit of a roller coaster for a couple of years, but it seems like you're you're in a good spot now. Do you agree? It's

Laura 1:04:53
one of those kind of things. When you look back, like you said perspective, I look at our agencies and times and range and you know, it's It's been coming down ever since diagnosis. And we're in a spot now where it's more stable. I think that's the biggest key. It's the stability. So that's the peace of mind.

Scott Benner 1:05:12
Yeah, yeah. No bouncing around and keeping the time and range. Right. And you know, all that other stuff. It's interesting to me, though, that what seemed like you said, I wish this would have happened more quickly for us. But really, what was it? It's a couple of years, right. Sure. Yeah. And, and I know, it's tough because sometimes you'll hear people on this podcast who find the podcast like in the hospital on day one, and they'll sound like, wow, they never really went through any of this stuff. But just remember, if it makes you feel better than two years into Arden's diagnosis, I was still pretty frequent, quiet crier in the shower, still, you know, and her and her ANC was still like in the eights and, you know, and I didn't know what I was doing. And that wasn't even unthinkable, then that was fairly common for people. Yeah, you know, so I like it. I like that where these timelines are getting shorter and shorter, and it somehow makes me happy that two years felt long to you. Not that not that it felt long. But that it, you know, is not really a very long time. Historically, I,

Laura 1:06:12
when I look back at it, whenever he's an adult and managing himself, I'm going to be like, Wow, those two years went by, like,

Scott Benner 1:06:19
in an instant? Oh, yeah. When he's fighting MMA, there you go, probably choking people out for money in the middle of the middle of the ring. Probably probably grow up to be an artist. You know,

Laura 1:06:32
at this point, he likes to do things with his hands. He's really into Legos. And, of course, what boy isn't right. And he plays outside. And actually, the thing that I'm still working on the most is activity with loop and trying to figure out the best overrides, or if I want to set it at a higher number, he started t ball this year. And we actually have a game tonight. And so going into it just kind of put in that plan into place of how can I get him set up to be in a place where it's good to start with so that the game doesn't affect? You know, so. So working on those, I think that's going to be something I'll be working on for a little bit, especially with new schedules with kindergarten and who knows what ends up looking like if if they're going to end up in the class all together? If they're gonna have to stay during lunch? Who knows? Yeah,

Scott Benner 1:07:22
I'm just you just made me think that the Minnesota Twins just drafted a kid in the first round. Who has type one diabetes. Awesome. I can't say his name is Garrett. I can't think of his last name right now.

Laura 1:07:36
Yeah. We always try to tell Joseph, cuz a lot of times he'll be listening. You know, while we're in the car, I have the podcast on and he'll say, Oh, they have diabetes, like me. Or we've seen a couple of people in the store. We've seen an omni pod on a couple people. I have a co worker that has type one. And it's, it's like a unicorn you see are like out in public, like, wow, somebody like me.

Scott Benner 1:08:04
So I'm gonna, I'm going to correct myself here. But I think it was the Brewers. Now, hold on. Now I'm gonna find out because I'm gonna hold you up. Well, you know, I want to say is Garrett Mitchell. If anybody knows, Garrett, I want to have him on the podcast.

Unknown Speaker 1:08:21
On the podcast.

Scott Benner 1:08:22
Yeah, get him get him to reach out to me, please. But yeah, I think he was like the 20th pick. 18th pick something like that. Let me look. I mean, he went high. Like, he's gonna, he's gonna play, he's gonna get paid, like the whole, you know. So it's exciting to me that your son's starting tee ball tonight. When I can, I can think back to my son's first practice for t ball. And the other day, he was trying out for a semi pro team. And oh my

Laura 1:08:51
gosh, that's so cool. I would love for him to keep it up. I played softball growing up my husband play baseball. So we're definitely a baseball family. We love it. And he has so much fun out there being with the other kids and just the awesomeness that there's no restrictions that he can be out there just like anybody else. Yeah,

Scott Benner 1:09:08
I believe that for sure. And I think you'll figure it out too. It's not going to be baseball is interesting in practice shouldn't affect in the same way a game does. And I think you would see higher blood sugar's in baseball versus lower. If I had to

Laura 1:09:21
guess with the adrenaline,

Scott Benner 1:09:23
noradrenaline that it is activity because baseball's you know,

Unknown Speaker 1:09:27
it's well, in short spurts.

Laura 1:09:30
If practice is any indication, I'm sure he probably won't move much at all. He's he kicks dirt, and

Unknown Speaker 1:09:36
hey, pay attention. There's,

Scott Benner 1:09:38
there's somebody batting, I watched the boy pick up a bug once in the outfield, and I thought, I don't think he's long for this. We'll see. That's really interesting. Well, I really appreciate you coming on and doing this and it was lovely to meet you in Dallas. Hopefully one day I'll get to go back there again. But I mean, let's let's be honest, we're not sure All right, well, the best everybody there. Thank you very much for doing this.

Laura 1:10:05
Thank you for having me. Of course.

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#425 Wine, Beans, Babies and Q

Dr. Q to the Rescue!

Jill was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes as an adult. She is delightful and this story is crazy.

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Scott Benner 0:00
Friends Hello, should I welcome you to Episode 425? Should I say this is the beginning of season seven? Or should I wish you a Happy 2021? Yeah, who cares? This episode of The Juicebox Podcast is sponsored by Omni pod Dexcom and touched by type one. Find out more about the sponsors at Juicebox Podcast comm we're right there in the show notes of your podcast player. And of course, you can always type my omnipod.com forward slash juice box dexcom.com forward slash juice box or touched by type one.org in any browser that you have at your fingertips.

I've taken a couple of weeks off to celebrate the holiday with my family. And I'm back at it. You might not have noticed, because you know, I made sure that the podcast kept coming. But I am refreshed. I'm enthusiastic. I am happy to be out of 2020. And I have for you today an absolutely astounding story from a type one named Jill. You're going to love it. It's got intrigue and twists and turns. There's babies and odd diagnoses. There's even wine.

Jill 1:41
I never wear headphones. I feel like I'm yelling right now. Like, am I talking loud? Am I talking quiet?

Scott Benner 1:47
You're perfect. Just do what you're doing? Do you feel like you can hear your own voice? Or no,

Jill 1:53
I'm wearing like noise cancelling headphones. That's all we had. So it just feels like I don't know what my volume is. But if you say it's fine, then I'll just keep on going.

Scott Benner 2:02
We're terrific. Sounds great. Don't think about anything, we're gonna start right away. I'm super excited to talk to you tell people your name.

Please remember that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making changes to your health care plan. or becoming bold with insulin. We're gonna do a little thing here in 2021, kind of a book club I'm going to tell you about at the end of the episode, but basically, if you go, I don't want to give it all away here. But we're gonna go over the pro tip episodes and then have live chats about them if you'd like to be involved. There. That was a simple way of saying it. Let's listen to this. And I'll tell you about that.

Jill 2:53
My name is Jill Woodruff.

Scott Benner 2:56
Good, perfect. And Jill has such a great story. Like it's fascinating. This is gonna be early, mid 2019. You and I mean, is that right? Yep. Okay, tell people what happened to you.

Jill 3:12
Um, so I was sick for a little while, but I didn't really know I was sick. And then in January,

Unknown Speaker 3:21
I

Jill 3:22
went to urgent care for a yeast infection. And I was like, why do I have a yeast infection? I haven't had that since I was, you know, very young. And I don't know why I would have that. You know, so I I went to urgent care. And they did a pee test. In the pee test. Of course, the urgent care doctor came back and was like, you have a lot of sugar in your pee. And I was like, Okay, I don't know what that means. You should

Scott Benner 3:45
have said of course I do. I'm baking bread and my vagina.

Jill 3:48
Right. I was like, Okay, well, great. Like I'm it's super uncomfortable. Can we just get this over with?

Unknown Speaker 3:54
Yeah, yeah. The fun conversation, Joe.

Jill 3:58
Yeah, he just wanted to run some tests. I'm like, okay, so he goes, and then he comes back and just was like, you know, dropped. It was just like, yeah, you're, you're diabetic. And that was just like, totally out of left field. Because I just went in for something. I thought was just like, another simp. You know, like a woman thing. Just simple. Give me the antibiotics. So we can be done with this. And ended up being like a whole whole thing. Yeah, no

Scott Benner 4:22
kidding. So then do you go right to your primary care doctor, or what do you do then?

Jill 4:27
So I'm really irresponsible. I'm gonna say it's because I'm a millennial, but maybe that's not it. So at the time, I had just turned 30 like two weeks prior. And I feel like I just didn't have like a primary care doctor. I always had Kaiser Permanente, whatever they were before, I can't remember the name, but I always had that kind of doctor. We just kind of go in if you had something, you would see whoever was available. So I didn't have anyone that I had established care with. So I just had an urgent care doctor, I didn't ever really have a real doctor air quotes, right?

Scott Benner 5:05
Because whoever came out from behind the curtain when you were there,

Jill 5:07
yeah. And I didn't really have any health issues before. So I just went in when I had the flu, or you know, for little things, but I didn't have a regular doctor. So this stranger kind of dropped the ball on me. And I was like, Oh, this is why grown up. Like having like an a primary care physician that they know in case something happens,

Scott Benner 5:28
the tiniest bit of like, I know this person while they're telling you things. Well, you know, last week, I had a pinched nerve in my shoulder. And I didn't go to my doctor, I went to a urgent care too, because all I really wanted was like a muscle relaxer, because I was like, my shoulder was spasming. And I was like, I just need this to stop. Yeah, I would have called my doctor, he would have been like, yeah, we can see you in like, maybe 10 days. And you know, it's like, right,

Jill 5:52
it's a whole thing.

Scott Benner 5:54
I can drive up the street, there's a man with a prescription pad and the whole thing's legal. So yep. Now, so, okay, well, you have what was your understanding of diabetes, leaving urgent care?

Jill 6:07
Oh, no, no understanding. So, um, I do want to be clear, like, I'm not blaming my doctors, because now I do kind of understand. You know, like, not everybody's a specialist in diabetes. When I went in, my understanding was, you're a professional, you went to college, you should be giving me obviously, all the information about what you've just told me. I left in total shock. I was like, Okay, I have no idea what to do. He told me to make an appointment with a primary care physician to follow up, and I'm like, okay, I don't have one of those. So I guess I'll just pick someone on this list at this facility. Here wrote me a prescription for Metformin. They had just, they had diagnosed me as type two because of my age. And wrote me a prescription for the Lancet and like the finger prick or whatever. And that's kind of it. I didn't have any information about what to do with any of it. I remember I went to Target to fill my prescription in a total days, because I was like, What is happening? Like, what am I even going to do with this? And I remember, the pharmacist was asking me like, which, I'm sorry, what's the fingerprick are called,

Scott Benner 7:27
like the lance.

Jill 7:29
The Lance is out, as I call it, a finger picker

Unknown Speaker 7:32
was very sophisticated.

Scott Benner 7:33
You know what it is, when you're reaching for it? I think you're fine.

Jill 7:37
You know, there's different brands. And I remember the pharmacist asked me like, which, which brand was it that the doctor needed you to get? And I was like, I just looked at her. I was like, I don't know, what did what does the prescription? I have no idea. I know as much. I know, way less than you. Right? I was just so frustrated. And I just came home and I was like, What do I even do with any of this? I don't know. I don't even know how to prick my finger like am I supposed to? I had no information at all. So that was really frustrating. I ended up YouTubing. How to do it. Wow. It was just so dramatic. Because also like, I don't like pain. I've never I'm not like a tough cookie about anything. You know, if I am hurting, I'm hurting. And so even just a simple thing, like pricking my finger was just a whole ordeal. I remember hours in the kitchen, pacing back and forth, and now like cracks me up, because it's like nothing, but I remember just like, holding my breath before I would, you know, stick my stick my little finger and get the blood out. And there was just this whole 30 year old woman and I remember just feeling so embarrassed that it was so hard.

Scott Benner 8:51
Oh my god, I so far. All I can think of is that everything I've thought to call this episode is too wordy. But Joe can't pick a prick was one of them. You know, Joe's cookie isn't tough, you know? Or, you know, and you didn't even tell us if he gave you medicine for the yeast infection, which I'm still wondering about I don't even know why. Just like what about the vagina? Is that thing okay to like, What's going on there? Did you Did he at least give you something for that?

Jill 9:20
So apparently, yes. Apparently that was like not a big problem. But apparently he said that. Because of all the sugar. Obviously like that can trigger a yeast infection. I told you like I'm, I was so confused that I even had it in the first place. Like I think I've had one maybe once in my youth. And that's it. I was like, What is happening? Why do I have this and it was an aggressive yeast infection. It was horrible.

Scott Benner 9:45
Joe had an aggressive yeast infection.

Jill 9:48
That'll get everybody to listen. But apparently that's a common thing that happens if you have undiagnosed diabetes, you know, you have a lot of people sugar in your blood. And that's it. I don't know, it's all connected with the yeast nonsense. So it was just not a

Unknown Speaker 10:06
not an ideal situation at all. So you're

Scott Benner 10:09
a person who, you know has been healthy thus far, you're you're probably getting into that like really like space where you're like, I'm 30, nothing's ever gonna go wrong with me, I'll never even need a doctor. And then suddenly, somebody is telling you, and I don't even want to say half of what you need to know. They're, they're basically just yelling words at you. So there's no direction long. Here's Metformin. Here's the thing to test your blood sugar with. You have diabetes. See you later.

Jill 10:35
Yeah, and I mean, I also to give more context, no one in my family has diabetes. I know, nobody who has diabetes. So I my understanding of diabetes at that point was, this is something that you get when you are overweight. And that's it, and I'm not overweight, you know, I was I'm five, two, I was 140. Maybe when I went in, which is, you know, five, like average. It just didn't make sense, you know, a why I had it be what I was even supposed to do going forward. And every single doctor that I met after that, because I met many primary care physicians, quote, unquote, who were all like, Oh, wow. But you're not like overweight? You know? Oh, wow.

Unknown Speaker 11:25
How'd you get?

Jill 11:26
Like, why are you asking me that? You're my doctor, you know, was extremely frustrating.

Scott Benner 11:31
You live in the middle of a desert? Like, or where are you like, near civilization? Where do you know?

Jill 11:37
Yeah, I live 30 minutes from Seattle. In the city. I mean, I guess, maybe a little more country than city, but it's I live by a lot of stuff.

Scott Benner 11:48
The expectation that every doctor you bump into, should have no idea what diabetes is.

Jill 11:54
And I just feel like because they thought I was type two. Maybe they have like a very limited understanding of diabetes, like, Oh, it's this epidemic or not? Yeah, epidemic that we see across the country. It's a big deal. I'm sure everybody gets some kind of type two training. But it was just very general, you know, any information that I got? And everything that I had to learn how to do from finger pricking, to inserting my first freestyle Libra, everything I had to YouTube, everything. Nobody showed me how to.

Unknown Speaker 12:34
That's crazy.

Jill 12:35
Absolutely do anything at all. And so I still am a teeny tiny bit bitter about that.

Scott Benner 12:41
Don't worry, we can get it out here. Well, I, I really have to say like, enough people have said it to me over the years, that I'm not stunned when the doctor doesn't get it. But I still am a little like, I try to think about like, what if you went to urgent care and urgent care said, Hey, you have leukemia, and then you walked into a doctor's office said, Hey, Urgent Care says I have leukemia, and the doctor said, That's weird. You're not a blonde. Like, like, what? Like, is that your assessment pattern? Like? Is this what they taught you in school? Like? Yes. Oh, it's fascinating. It really is. Okay, so you had to go to n number of doctors to find one.

Jill 13:23
Yeah, because everyone was just kind of confused. And I don't really know. It kind of is a blur. It was like all a lot of information. I was told to go to a nutritionist right away. I saw two different doctors like mainly, and they kind of were, I think tag teaming with information. Like, I would see one and she was great. And she was super sweet. She reassured me we're gonna figure this out. But she also was like, I have no idea. Like, where to even start with you. I don't know why you're a type two diabetic. It doesn't make sense. You're taking the Metformin and nothing is happening. You know, I was finger sticking like every What do they tell you like three times a day or something? And every time I did it, it was like 300 300 300. And they were like, yeah, we don't know. But you know, don't worry, just keep like eating you need to eat well, and like go to your nutritionist. And I was just so frustrated. Because when I would go on the internet to Google anything, which you should never do when you're sick with anything. You know, everything on the internet says if your blood sugar is higher than 300, you go to the emergency room, like right away. That's that's a problem. And I didn't understand why every doctor would look at my numbers it would be like well, yeah, like just just go home. Like just see if it gets better. Like you just need to eat better. And I am a pretty healthy eater. Um, so I was also frustrated with that because I thought what else can I cut out of my diet? Okay, sugar. Fine. I guess I Don't eat bread anymore. Fine. I was cracking up. Britt like remembering this with my husband because I told him, you know, we're eating all these Christmas cookies just recently. And he was like you remember when you were afraid to eat anything with sugar because I literally would have like a panic attack. If I was brave enough to have like a teeny tiny piece of sugar at this time, the second it went into my body. I just I got so hot, I got super anxious. I just I was like, Oh my gosh, I cannot ever have sugar because I just felt so scared. I didn't understand why every time I would go to the doctor, they'd send me back with no information, just eat better. Yeah. You know, it was just nothing made sense. And I think that was that was like the biggest frustration.

Scott Benner 15:45
Why have a day where I can that I went through that I think I've grown up on here. So I'll I'll go through it quickly. But one day, I had to go to the dentist. And I showed up at the dentist's office and asked to use the bathroom before we started. Then halfway through the procedure. I was like, Can we stop for a second? I have to go to the bathroom. And then so I peed like three times in the in like 90 minutes at the dentist's office. So the dentist grabs me on the way out and says, Hey, I'm concerned, you might have type two diabetes. Now I'm like, it ended up being if you've been listening to the podcast that my iron was really low, and my body was all out of whack and everything but so. But for a day until I could get a doctor's appointment. I thought I might have type two diabetes because somebody said it to me. And I experienced exactly what you're talking about. I couldn't bring myself to eat food because everything felt super scary. Like I can't eat I just didn't eat anything. I just stood there for a day waiting to go to a doctor's appointment.

Jill 16:42
Yep, so that's it. I mean, it's just like this totally crippling food anxiety, of eating at all. I mean, I ate like a bear. That's what you know, my husband was like, remember, when you wouldn't eat any sugar? Like you were just eating like a bear? I would eat nuts and berries. And that's it. Because that's all the all these things on Pinterest. If you look up type two, you know, diets or whatever, say, Oh, you know, like, why would you have to eat berries, number one, like they have so much sugar, but I just ate nothing. I just ate little things here and there. My nutritionist was fine. But you know, another frustration was doctors and the nutritionist all made comments about my ethnicity. I'm Latina. And everybody was like, trying to figure out an answer. And everybody had to say, Oh, well, you know, some ethnicities are more prone to type two, it's probably in your cultural diet. And I heard that so many times, I was like, so irritated because what is my cultural diet? Number one, you'd have not asked me what I eat. Nobody asked me what I eat. Nobody asked me specifically like what my nationality, you know, that I identified with was so bright. I think what was happening was a lot of people were assuming I was Mexican. And I was eating like beans and like what you would get at the Mexican restaurants, you know, and I can only assume that just because of how many people said it in a row. And I was like, what are what are people thinking? But

Scott Benner 18:11
where? Where are you? Where's your family from?

Jill 18:14
My family's from Peru? Okay. All right. Um, and I don't know, I mean, I grew up here. So I don't know that my cultural diet, you know, was really an impact. Just

Scott Benner 18:24
imagine that the doctors in the other room going, Hey, Charo in there probably eats a lot of beans, don't you?

Jill 18:29
Right? Yeah, that's how I felt. I was just like, hmm, I'm not sure where these assumptions are coming from, but because they are professionals. I never said anything. I never brought anything up. I was just like, okay, I believe you when you say that. Certain ethnicities are probably prone to type two. That makes sense to me, whatever. But it wasn't until after that I had time to kind of mold stuff over that. I was like, Huh, well, there's no way they didn't ask me specifically, like what's in your diet?

Scott Benner 18:55
She probably just eats rice and avocados all day? I don't know. It's what I saw at the Mexican restaurant that one time? No, your story is just the first quarter of it here is fantastic. Because this is what I'm trying to tell people all the time. You can't just sit there and nod at your doctor and go Okay, okay. Okay. Okay, and just do whatever they say. Not that you shouldn't listen to them. I'm not saying that. But you have to make sure you have a good one before you start listening. Right. And that's just such a big part of diabetes. It's, it's not uncommon for people to be in the situation that you talked about, and you were just at a real disadvantage, because in all honesty, if your mom and dad didn't send you on your way already knowing who your doctor was, and you just didn't get sick. You were basically a 15 year old in that office that day. Yeah. Right, because it's the story. It reads just like what if I would have sent a 15 year old into a doctor's office to be told they had something that they didn't know about? And On top of that, your blood sugar is over 300 all the time. So you're probably whacked out of your skull, you know, it's probably you're probably like, did you notice a clearing of your mind when your blood sugar finally came down?

Jill 20:13
I think honestly, and I don't know enough about type one. I haven't listened to enough of the podcasts, especially with Jenny. Because I know she has a lot of, I don't know, just like different medical expertise, right? Every time I listen, I'm always like, wow, I need to write all this down. But I don't know enough about it to know how fast a person can become type one, I think that I was. My, my body was probably like, shutting down for a couple years before is what I'm thinking. Because I had a lot of things slowly kind of going wrong.

Unknown Speaker 20:53
Okay,

Jill 20:54
I peed a lot for a while. Like, it wasn't suddenly it was like, two or three years where I was like, Wow, my kidneys just suck. So I feel like I don't know how long my blood sugar was at 300 for for, you know, maybe years and like, I just got used to it. You know, I didn't notice that my mind was foggy. I didn't. I don't feel I mean, maybe now I would. But I didn't feel gross at 300 I felt gross when I was at 90. You know,

Scott Benner 21:22
you're high for a really long time, then.

Jill 21:24
Yeah. And that's what I think like, I don't even know like when, when it started, you know, I think it was a really long descent for me, like a couple years. And then suddenly it came on quickly, like at the end with that yeast infection. But we really think it was a long time coming.

Scott Benner 21:40
your entire life shifted in the last 18 months, two years in a number of different segments. But yeah, so you beat yourself. Yeah, you became an adult about your health. Right away. You were like, Okay, this is happening. And other things happen to which I can't wait to tell people about, but I like that you're stringing it out like this. I feel like you're a good storyteller. This is excellent. really seriously, like when you didn't say the other thing? I was like Jill's good at this. It's time isn't it? to take care of yourself to do the things you know you need? Absolutely, it is. Why don't you go right now to my Omni pod.com forward slash juice box and have Omni pod send you out a free, no obligation demo of the Omni pod to listen. So on top, it'll take you just a couple of brief moments to fill out what they need to know. And before you know it right there in your mailbox will be an omni pod. It's one it's non functioning right? So it's not dangerous. It's just so that you can wear it and feel it. See what it would be like take a shower, go for a walk. Live your life with an omni pod. To see what life with an omni pod may be like, it's incredibly easy to do. It's free. Again, there's no obligation, you might as well try my Omni pod.com forward slash juice box. There's links right there in the show notes of your podcast player. We're at Juicebox Podcast comm if you can't remember them, but I'll probably say them enough that it will stick in your head. And eventually you'll be sending me an email that sounds like this. Oh my god, Scott fine. I tried the Omni pod demo. And it was terrific. And I use it now I get a lot of those emails, yours can be next. So if you're looking to get away from multiple daily injections, or you don't want a pump with that tubing on it, try it on the pod. This is a perfect way to see what you think my omnipod.com forward slash juice box. There are two ways to have diabetes. One is where you can't see what your blood sugar's doing. And in the other way, you're wearing a Dexcom g six continuous glucose monitor. And you can see everything, speed, direction and number in real time, right on your cell phone, that's Android or iPhone, or there's a little receiver like say you're one of the three people that don't have a cell phone, you just get a little receiver, it's fine. No matter what you need to see your numbers on Dexcom will have you covered and covered in a way that you can imagine opening you up to being able to make decisions about insulin and food that takes away the stress and anxiety that using insulin can bring whether you have type one or type two diabetes, the Dexcom g six is for you, in my opinion, head over now dexcom.com forward slash juicebox start picking through. See if you would like to learn more. There's a forum down there if you would like to just tell them a little bit about yourself what kind of diabetes you have, what kind of insurance and the next thing you know, you're on your way. And if you have Medicaid, or you're a United States veteran using the VA for your insurance, I think you might be very happy. With what you find out, and you can start getting those Dexcom alerts when you want them. What do I mean by that? How would you like to know when your blood sugar dips below? 85? I don't know, how would you like to know when it dips below 70 whatever you prefer, that's where you set the alert. Want to know if your blood sugar is rising, so you can use more insulin? do that to my daughter's high alarm is set at 120 yours could be somewhere else, whatever works for you, is what's right dexcom.com forward slash juice box. My Omni pod comm forward slash juice box and don't forget to check out touched by type one touched by type one.org. Or on their Facebook and Instagram pages. Thank you so much for listening to the ads. When you support the advertisers. You're supporting the podcast keeping the podcast free and plentiful. There's a list of all the advertisers right there in the show notes of your podcast player or at Juicebox Podcast comm I am genuinely proud of the companies who sponsor this show. We got a good group.

When do you finally get a handle on all of this? Like when do you get at least a base understanding?

Jill 26:22
So this all happened in January, my month of January was 100% diabetes, of course, I was continuing. I'm a busy lady. I like to travel a lot. I like to do a lot of things with my friends on weekends. And so I wasn't going to stop even though I was dealing with all of this. I we went to Whistler and I had kind of a diabetic episode and that was kind of hard to deal with went to Leavenworth, which is a small German town here. That's kind of a tourist attraction. also had a tiny diabetic episode. I was like, Okay, I don't I'm not really getting this right. This isn't getting better. I can't eat things and enjoy drinking without it being kind of scary. Yeah, maybe I need to find a specialist. There was no way I was getting into an endocrinologist for like six months, there was a huge wait for this one. And I didn't really understand that you could shop for endocrinologist, I was given a referral to an endocrinologist. In January, one endocrinologist, that one was busy for six months apparently. And then that's it never dawned on me not ever having to deal with doctors. Before that I could just shop for people like I could just get on the internet myself and find someone and I just waited. I didn't know. And so it wasn't getting better. In February, I flew to Sonoma with my best friend for a wine weekend. And, of course, the day before we flew out, she and I both got really sick. We both had the flu. And we were like, well screw this like we are not wasting we can't get our money back. So we're just going to take a ton of day quail responsible 30 year olds. And we'll be fine. We're not wasting our weekend in Sonoma. I was so sick. We came back a day early, just because we were both sick. But I had the flu with diabetes, right? And so I kept checking my blood sugar. And I was like What is happening? It's like 400, should I go to the urgent care here in California, like I had no idea what to do. I came back home. I went to Urgent Care here every single day for a week. And the fifth day. I'm not kidding. I went every day. And every day they sent me home and they're like, just keep checking your blood sugar. And the fifth day I was like bawling. And I was like I can't keep coming here. I have a full time job. Like I can't What is wrong with me. And so this one doctor, obviously took pity on me and was like, Okay, I'm gonna figure this out for you. I don't know how we're gonna do it, but I'm gonna call you tomorrow. And so she calls me and says I have a friend who works at this other clinic who might have a contact for you. So it was like this all you know, convoluted, like call this person call this person call this person. But I ended up getting hooked up with an endocrinologist who could see me a little sooner, so I had a month way instead. So February goes by March goes by. I'm still trying to do my best to keep my blood sugar under control. And then in let's see, end of March again and to see this endocrinologist. She's amazing. She reminds me of my mom. She is like a no nonsense. Indian woman who just is direct. So direct. She took like, one look at me and was like you're not type two. Why did they tell you or type two? I was like, I don't know.

Unknown Speaker 29:46
I just want to go drink wine.

Jill 29:48
I don't know. Just fix it. Like, I have no idea. And so she's like, there's no way you're type two. They should have done a blood test on you and she did this blood test and yeah, she Like, yes, look, look at these numbers Jill, like, like, I'm a doctor, look at these numbers. This doesn't make any sense. You're type one, you've been mis diagnosed, you know, you should have never left that Urgent Care without this simple blood test that any doctor can do. And I was like, okay, that doesn't help me.

Scott Benner 30:16
It was like, Listen, I let's be clear for a second. I drank a quill with diabetes and got on a plane, so I could drink more wine than a person should. I'm not you shouldn't be leaving me in charge of these decisions. Jill, were you a huge party girl through your 20s just asking.

Jill 30:33
I'm not a party girl at all. I just am really into wine. And like, we're we can be very bougie about our wine.

Scott Benner 30:40
I just I thought it was fantastic that in the middle of what seemed like a life or death health crisis, you were like, we're still going.

Jill 30:47
I mean, the wine never stops. It's just you know. We're gonna figure it out around the wine.

Scott Benner 30:54
Doctor, while you're considering my diabetes, remember, there's going to be mirlo Okay, like that. Right here? No, but I mean, it's just I guess it really does go to how little you understood about what was happening. Oh, that's that's the kind of the fascinating part. So

Jill 31:09
yeah. So then at least there was the correct diagnosis. Right, then at least she was like, obviously, you're a type one. Your doctors are all idiots. It was basically.

Scott Benner 31:19
So not not to pick your psyche apart too much. But it's interesting that once you found a doctor that was more like a parent, it worked out for you quickly. Yeah.

Jill 31:27
1,000% 1,000%. And I do like attribute the cultural bit a lot because she just, I just don't want to screw up in front of my endo. Like she is the most cutthroat lady. She might not be where I go for like warm and fuzzy, you know, feelings, but she cares about my health in a way that a parent would, you know, yeah, she tells me absolutely. Like, you cannot do these things, XY and Z. And I think that's not for everyone. But that's for me. You know, it worked out really well. I appreciate that. She's honest. And, you know, just gives me the truth. And so, anyway, she diagnosed me type one. She gave me kind of a little plan, but she was like, you need to come back, like in two weeks, for sure. We're gonna get you set up with everything that you need. So I had a physical scheduled with my primary care physician. I go back to her. Between these two weeks. I told her Oh, yeah, I was diagnosed with type one. She was like, oh, okay, great. She obviously didn't know like, what anything about type one, she was just like, Oh, I'm so glad that you have answers. And in that appointment, I had asked like, so my husband and I are like, trying to have kids, we would like to start trying. I have all this medical stuff happening. Like, is it safe for us to start trying? Or should? Should I wait? And I remember, she's just like, Oh, yeah, you're gonna be fine. Like now that you have an endo and everything like, Yeah, go ahead, like, definitely try

Scott Benner 32:56
it. Can I tell you for a second? Also, you're on the pods on the side of insulin? Oh, yeah, sure is. How in that situation where the doctor who couldn't help you, like figure out you had type one diabetes? Did you like consider to ask her another question and take her serious?

Unknown Speaker 33:17
I don't know, okay.

Jill 33:22
I have no idea. I thought she was in charge of like, my general body and the other lady was in charge of just my diabetes. So I was like, okay, she's gonna know, in my physical, for sure. If like, I can have children. I just wasn't equating all these things as like, together. You know, I was just, diabetes was such a thing outside my body that I just wanted to get rid of. Does that make sense? I just was like, okay, someone's handling that over here. Like, I want to continue with my life and keep, keep doing my things and keep staying with my plans. You know, so

Scott Benner 33:53
you didn't think of you kind of thought about diabetes, like a bankruptcy. You're like, Yes, I spent way too much money and can't pay it back. But let's compartmentalize that. But over here. I'm going to send $700 a month to that bill. And I'm still going to pretend that I'm me. And there's nothing going on. Like you were trying to, to, to split the two apart you in the diabetes, right? You weren't letting it merge together. Okay, you're there now though, right.

Unknown Speaker 34:21
I'm,

Scott Benner 34:22
like, you know, you're a person living with diabetes and all that stuff. And you don't know Yeah, no, I don't want people like to be like, you know, Jesus, Porter. It's not learning anything. We're just telling the story. That's all

Jill 34:32
that's right. Along along learning.

Scott Benner 34:36
Okay. Wow, I am still I'm stunned that you asked that doctor if it was okay. It

Jill 34:43
was all kind of happening so fast too. And like I wasn't used to going to doctors, you know, in general. So I was like, okay, every week I'm seeing a nutritionist and then I'm seeing the regular doctor and then I'm seeing this endo and like, somebody's got to have answers. You know, I just wasn't something I wasn't skeptical of doctors, but I was just so desperate to trust somebody to give me good news. I was like, please somebody,

Scott Benner 35:06
I gotta do what I want you to I gotta be honest with you. This is the second story in 2020. I've heard that makes me not want to go to the Seattle area.

Unknown Speaker 35:13
Oh, no.

Scott Benner 35:17
So, okay. All right. So now you have type one diabetes, you have this lovely Indian doctor who's yelling at you the way you need to be all that. And then there's the other doctor who I'm not sure what she does still. And and are you? on? What part do you and I intersect?

Jill 35:36
When did I win that thing? Probably.

Scott Benner 35:39
August. July. Okay. But you, you and I spoke on the phone once.

Jill 35:45
Right, but it was for the prize. It was. Um, so I think you did that. You had a contest in July or August or something like that. And then when I won, I called you, or you called me? Why was that?

Scott Benner 35:59
Oh, part of it was you? Oh, part of the prize was talking to me, which I now hear when I say out loud. Sounds like I'm an assault, but I get what you're saying.

Unknown Speaker 36:09
But that was

Jill 36:11
your expertise. That's all right. It's a great.

Scott Benner 36:14
Honestly, what I just said out loud. I was like, Oh, that sounds douchey. But, but Okay, well, I'm flush now like you are hilarious. So I got it. So we're on the phone. And at that point, are you? Did you get knocked up yet? When is that Parco? Oh, yeah, I

Jill 36:34
got knocked up immediately, right away when my doctor said, Oh, yeah, go ahead and start trying. I was like, dope. We're doing this ran

Scott Benner 36:40
out the door legs first.

Jill 36:42
And then knocked up the next day. I'm not kidding. Like, right away. And by the time that I saw my endo, for the second time. I was already like, a teeny tiny bit late. And I was like, Oh, my also be pregnant. And the way she looked at me.

Scott Benner 36:59
Oh, my gosh, I thought I thought you're gonna say she punched you like,

Jill 37:04
she looked like she wanted to I'm not kidding. She was like, what I was like, well, like, I was told that it was fine. And like this was already in my plan. I'm a teacher. So I really like to stick to my plans. Like a disgusting amount. It just is one of my things. I have a strict itinerary. And this was part of my plans. I did not want to give it up. And so when she looked at me, I was like, Oh, crap. Maybe it wasn't a good idea. And she said, like, you better hope that you're not pregnant. Your diabetes is completely out of control. You were just diagnosed. Forget everything that you've gone through since January, you were just diagnosed two weeks ago, you know, like with a brand new illness, type two and type one are completely different. So you better hope that you're not and I was like, okay, not great. I totally was, of course, right away. So by the time you and I talked, I think I was probably like four months pregnant. Wow.

Scott Benner 38:09
And, and so my recollection of talking with you back then, excuse me, was Hold on a second.

Hello. That'll get cut out Hold on a second. We're all just get lazy and leave it in, it's hard to know

is that I remember going downstairs after we spoke, and I said to my wife, I just talked to the person who won the giveaway. And apparently she's like, was diagnosed with Type One Diabetes and got pregnant. Like, in the same like couple of weeks or something. Like I said, she basically found out she really had type one diabetes, and she was already pregnant. And I don't think things are going great. And my I remember my wife and I were like, Oh, that's I hope that goes okay. And then I kind of started keeping after you on Instagram a little bit. And like following along, and you're just you know, you're adorable. Like you're just like little and like you have a bright smile and a pretty face it gets You're adorable. And so like you always look okay, is what I'm saying. Like, I'm assuming in some of those pictures. You've just thrown up from wine and you're still look adorable. So I can't I can't tell how you're doing from your Instagram. Actually, I guess nobody can tell how anybody's doing from social media. But that's

Unknown Speaker 39:24
Yeah, right.

Scott Benner 39:26
Yeah, right. But then the baby came out. I was like, hey, right on because I assume you understand now that like there's a high likelihood that you would have ended up having a miscarriage if your blood sugar stayed the way they were.

Jill 39:37
Absolutely Yeah. If I hadn't found that endo. I mean, that really was the game changer. Of course, like I had no idea how, how serious it was. I knew it was serious to have diabetes, of course, but like not having any real context or having anybody at all in my life who has had any serious disease, you know, for a long period of time. I just didn't really get it like internally, right. So once I got this endo, and I got the correct diagnosis, and she just kept hammering into me like how serious it was that my blood sugar stay in control. It really all fell into place. I mean, I met her in a, you know, end of March beginning of April ish. And honestly, by June, I was like 100%, I don't want to say in control all the time, but I had a really good handle on like, how to manage the diabetes, because she and her team were phenomenal. I mean, I went to see them every week for probably like four or five weeks, and worked with these diabetes educators who are like Omnipod reps, and I got the Dexcom. And the Omnipod, immediately because I was pregnant. Like immediately, I mean, I think I waited for like three weeks, maybe where I still was finger sticking. And after that I had everything bells and whistles, ready to go. So I really have never experienced a life of diabetes. difficult, if that makes sense, right? Like the beginning part, obviously was difficult, but I didn't know what I was experiencing. So I don't count that. And when I hear all these other stories on the podcasts of people who like, just maybe don't have all the technology or choose not to have the technology or you know, just there's all these things that we get to make diabetes management easier. I didn't really have to deal with that. Because my endo was just like, you're having this, you're having this, put this on your body, I don't care how you feel about it. You need all these things. I've never had to really struggle in that same way, you know, to figure things out, she made it really, really easy to kind of manage my diabetes, and she was checking on me constantly. So the entire pregnancy. I mean, I probably went there every two or three weeks. Yeah. It was really tight control. And I really think that made all the difference.

Scott Benner 42:04
It sounds like she decided to take personal responsibility for your baby being okay. And you know,

Unknown Speaker 42:10
what a wonderful lady, right?

Scott Benner 42:12
You know, it occurred to me just now, while you were talking, I've recorded I mean, I might have recorded close to 500 of these at this point. And yours was the first 30 minute diagnosis story. No, no. But when you really think about it, it really was like, all of that that happened for those months and months and months. That's all part of you figuring out you have type one diabetes, and how many doctors did you have to run into? Like, that is not, that doesn't warm my heart? How many doctors you had to run into before one of them was like you have type one? Like, what? What's going on here?

Jill 42:47
Yeah, the biggest thing was just that I was older, you know, like the I that's the only thing people were looking at, like, Oh, she's 30. So Oh, well, don't forget possibly have type one. You know,

Scott Benner 42:58
don't forget also that your your people eat beans. So, you know, like, whatever. Right? Yeah. Like, seriously, I hear, you know, black patient advocates talk all the time about, you know, people look at my skin and make assumptions about how I take care of myself immediately. Yeah, and so you know, that this is another example of that really, like they see they see you, you know, as your background, and your heritage and your race and and they're just like, oh, obviously, she doesn't eat well, and this is why she has type two diabetes.

Jill 43:29
Yep. I mean, even though I like I said, I wasn't overweight at the time, you know, there's, I told my doctors, like I run every day and like, I work out, you know, I'm not, I'm not super, like slender all the time. That girl likes to eat. Right. But, I mean, I take care of myself. So it was Yeah, it's just I hope that people don't continue to have this problem, where they're told, like, Oh, it's something that you did to cause this, you know,

Scott Benner 43:54
I listen, I would, I would have no ability to look at you and think that you're an unhealthy person. So you know, it's just, you know, until we talk to you and find out about the wine and everything else. We could start thinking

Jill 44:07
that's my one serious vise.

Scott Benner 44:10
Hey, listen, can you tell people right now? How do you hold a bottle and a baby at the same time? What's the balancing act?

Jill 44:15
bottle and a baby? Oh, no problem. Just got to work out a little bit before and

Scott Benner 44:21
that way you can keep the balance. We should probably tell typhus now that you're you don't drink wine while you're caring for your baby at the same time, right. You know,

Jill 44:32
it's nap time.

Scott Benner 44:35
So, how long have you had type one diabetes?

Jill 44:39
So now it's been since April of 2019. So a

Unknown Speaker 44:48
little over a year.

Scott Benner 44:49
Can you tell me what your current a one C is? Are you willing to do that? Yeah, it's

Jill 44:52
I think it was 6.1. Wow, that's amazing. It was you know, in the fives and then of course, my endo was like, that's too low. You need Have a little bit more.

Unknown Speaker 45:01
Did you think it was too low?

Unknown Speaker 45:02
Huh?

Scott Benner 45:03
Were you having lows when it was in the fives?

Jill 45:06
Um, yeah, because I still, I'm still trying to manage like being active. So like, I do work out, I run, I walk. Now I walk a lot more with the baby. And I hike. And so I do tend to get a lot of lows during that, during any of those activities, no matter what I do to prepare. I'm still trying to get, you know, figure that out. So I think that definitely, like increases my chances of having, you know, a lower frequency. But, you know, I guess I just got to eat more.

Scott Benner 45:36
I like talking to you because you are, you're not the person that I imagined in my mind listening to the podcast, because you listen to it more for like the community stuff and hearing people's stories and not for the management stuff. And you know, in my default in my head, that the podcast is about using insulin, and so but I know there are people like you who don't listen to the, to the management stuff, as much as I tell people all the time in the private Facebook group who are very focused on management, usually, that I was like, you guys are a subs, like you're just one like sub set of the listeners. I was like, there are plenty of listeners who don't care about the stuff you care about. It's really interesting how how it gets split like that. But you should try the pro tip episodes, they might help you not get low when you're active.

Jill 46:24
Yeah, I have listened to a lot of them. It's just I was listening to the podcast, I think more frequently, like when I was pregnant, and I had time. And I was really still like trying to manage a lot of things I need to get back into it. But I did take a kind of a break from anything joyful and listening to my own things for a little while here. Because anytime the baby's asleep, I'm like, Okay, what can I get done?

Scott Benner 46:51
Well, what did you what kind of a baby ended up having to end up having a boy type or girl type?

Jill 46:56
I had a boy he is the cutest child in the world. I'm sure a little chunk. Yeah, everything. Everything turned out wonderfully. I mean, it really. I couldn't have asked for a better pregnant experience. And even being diabetic. Like That was my one. My one like difficulty, but I never got sick. You know, I was able to eat pretty much what I wanted to eat. There was there was really nothing difficult. So I feel like that was a in my mind. That was like the universe's trade off. Here you have diabetes, but you're gonna have a really easy pregnancy and delivery.

Scott Benner 47:35
Especially at five to because you're a smaller person. So how big was the baby when it was born?

Jill 47:41
He was like eight pounds and a half.

Scott Benner 47:44
That's a big baby.

Unknown Speaker 47:45
That's what I hear.

Scott Benner 47:48
Listen, it makes it a

Unknown Speaker 47:50
little to me.

Scott Benner 47:52
I know, right? It's, it's crazy how small they are. I am. I don't know, I just I saw a baby picture of my son the other day, you know how, like, I have a widget on my computer and it pops like a picture up like right now I just clicked on it. It's a picture of Arden when she's like a year old. And so they kind of pop up on my desktop once in a while. And then I get all like, sappy and I sit here for a couple months. And I'm like, Oh, look at how small he was. And now Arden's like in this photo just staring at me in this picture, which I can't share with anybody because Arden does not want to be portrayed as a baby on the internet. So, but she's adorable in this in this photo. So I know how you feel. But the busy so how you managing taking care of yourself with the busy? Have you found the split, like you turn into like a real adult out of nowhere. Like you're managing diabetes and a baby and you still work I imagine.

Jill 48:40
Yeah. I mean, I feel like with my health, I totally was a 15 year old, I still am a little bit like I have to that's something that you take for granted if you've always been healthy. So I definitely in that aspect had to, you know, grow up very quickly in that area. But I think everything else I'm, I'm a pretty organized person. Like I said, I'm a teacher. So like, I'm all about checklists, and lesson plans, itineraries and getting things done. So I think that kind of helped also with like diabetes and balancing everything. And luckily, the only I only had issues with diabetes, when he was really, really little like when I was still trying to breastfeed. That was a challenge with blood sugar. I hemorrhaged when I was giving birth. And so that was a problem because it impacted I don't know, it impacted like the iron in my blood or whatever. So that impacted my blood sugar. And then I had some insulin resistance that I had never dealt with that before. Really. a month three and month six postpartum that was annoying, but they really are like little things. It's not really even mentionable. It's like little things. They all went away. And now it's just fine. I mean, luckily, you know, knock on wood, right?

Scott Benner 50:00
Have a terrific attitude like you really do your you've a really kind of joyous personality and you know, a great attitude. So I'm sure that goes a long way to helping you. I hope you'll find out give it away for a week and see if everything doesn't seem all doom and gloomy. All right, but no, but that really is. I've just been waiting for so long to talk to you. Like I remember when I said like, come on the podcast, but let's push it way out into the future because I want you to have some distance from the story so you can tell it that made me anxious. I was like, I would like to record this one now. But I thought it'll go so much better if I push it off a little bit. And I did I make you like I made you push it off like a year. Basically. I was like, pick something way out in the future. And and we'll do it because it's December now and 2020. So it's been oh my gosh, yeah. It's been over a year since we talked on the phone even. Yeah, how old is your son now?

Jill 50:53
He just turned one just like a couple days ago.

Unknown Speaker 50:56
Congratulations. Thanks. It was exciting.

Scott Benner 50:59
Did you have a big party for him?

Jill 51:02
We had we did some drop bys. So I still did like a little brunch thing with all these like treats to go that people could come take and then people came you know, with their masks and just dropped off their gifts. I wanted my gift Scott came and dropped off their gift. And then had some treats to go.

Scott Benner 51:21
I didn't make this baby not to get free stuff.

Unknown Speaker 51:23
Well, hello, this first birthday.

Scott Benner 51:26
Oh, that's very cool. Oh, that's excellent. Good for you. I'm excited for you. And are you teaching virtually? or How do you do?

Unknown Speaker 51:32
I am?

Scott Benner 51:34
So do you, like just put the kid right on your lap and teach her? How do you I have

Jill 51:38
my mom downstairs who just watches him for, you know, a couple hours while I teach. I mean that that's a another thing I think that helps the diabetes go smoothly is that I'm home and I have a lot of control over what I can eat. And I'm sitting in front of the computer. I've been a kindergarten teacher for nine years. And then this year, I switched to first grade so that I could only work in the morning. Okay. And so I have a partner that teaches in the afternoon. And when I was teaching, like live in person with kindergarteners, I mean, I was always low, like, my blood sugar was so annoying to handle because there's 25 people that need you, they need you to tie their shoes, and they need you to help them use the bathroom. And yeah, you know, they can't do this. And this person hit me and this person, all these things, and my blood sugar would be you know, Beeping Beeping Beeping and I'm like, right, okay, I'm gonna get it one second and eat something Hold on. But I'm like running around. And I just, it was so much harder to to manage while I was working. You rarely sit as a kindergarten teacher. Really any teacher, right? You just are not sitting you're walking around helping the kids and talking and making copies and the list is endless. And so I think being home really has helped it be manageable because I'm just sitting in front of the computer interacting with my kids. And if I need to grab something to eat to correct a blood sugar, you know, low I'll just go get it you know, it's not a big deal versus being at school. I can't always do that I have to sometimes wait until lunch or I have to grab a juice really quick is not the best management.

Scott Benner 53:14
So this setup is eliminated a major variability in your blood sugar, which is activity and and not having time to look at yourself. So when you go back eventually you're going to have to find basil rates that are that are different. I would imagine going back to work it live will make your basil needs go down.

Unknown Speaker 53:34
Yeah, probably

Scott Benner 53:36
ardens went way down leaving school. So when Oh, really? Yeah. So I because like, I don't know why exactly. But my, I've been thinking about it more and more. And I think part of it was you get up in the morning, and it's right away, it's that race in the clock, you know, you're like I got to get up and get a shower and do this and get out the door on time or I'll be late. And that whole thing so you, you get feet on the floor, you know huge where your life is just coming at you. And then you're at school and you know you're interacting with people and all that stuff's going on. You know, I don't know if there's any anxiety or stress being in high school for her. But her basil went down from like 1.2 to point nine an hour. Like just coming home from not being at high school. So she she's gonna have like an opposite of you. But you're gonna go back and be an attract meet with little kids again, although your first grade now might be a little better. Maybe they won't hit each other quite as much.

Jill 54:33
This whole pandemic thing, it's just gonna be a kindergarten, kindergarten minds and in bigger bodies. I think

Scott Benner 54:43
the only the kids learned anything in kindergarten this year.

Jill 54:46
I mean, I'm sure they have learned stuff. But the stuff that I think is like why you go to kindergarten is socially you know how to learn how to line up and how to, you know what I mean? Like all those social skills, how to sit at the carpet for a long time, and all this stuff. You physically have to herd cats for basically, as a teacher, they might all be like, at grade level of hope. But I think it's gonna be just as much being on my feet.

Scott Benner 55:11
So funny you say that I recall the first couple of seasons of Cole playing baseball back when he was like, a co star when he was four. But when he really started being on, like, teams when he was six, I remember thinking back then, so much of this is just getting them to stand in a line. Yeah. And then. And then I remember as that kind of like youth baseball time ended, when he was 12. I remember thinking, wow, look, now they say something and they go run over and getting that line took like five years to teach them how to do. It's fascinating.

Unknown Speaker 55:51
And teaching

Scott Benner 55:54
really was what was what was going on. It's like this. There's this whole, just like, Where do you go? Where do you stand? It's funny, you said something earlier, too. That made me think about something I just said on the podcast recently, which is, when Cole was that age, he was a really good, he always has been, and is today a really great outfielder, but he was when he was younger, too. And he described it to me as that he didn't want to let his coach down. And I feel like that's how you feel with your doctors a little bit too. Like you're kind of like in a teacher student or a coach player. situation with her. Does that ring true for you?

Unknown Speaker 56:30
Yeah, for sure. I

Jill 56:31
mean, I, I feel like this is kind of how my mom raised me. But like, if people are spending their time on you, you know, you show them respect by like hearing about what they're talking about, or trying to do what they're obviously teaching you even if you don't like it. And that's kind of how I feel. I'm like, Well, she's trying so hard to teach me things that are useful, then the least I could do is actually try it and listen to her. And there have been some times where I'm like, she doesn't know what she's talking about. I get irritated with like little things. And then I try what she says And I'm like, Oh, look at that it worked. You know, so it just yeah, it is kind of like coaching.

Scott Benner 57:09
You found a good one. It sounds like should she be on my list on the juicebox Doc's list this year. Oh, good endo.

Jill 57:14
I mean, I think she's amazing, personally.

Scott Benner 57:18
Cool. That's excellent. She saved you. It sounds like honestly. Yep.

Jill 57:22
She's amazing. And I even had two years ago, I had a student in my class. He, you know, came in for open house and his parents were popping in and his dad stopped me and was like, hey, you're diabetic? And I was like, Yeah, like not. I was like, Well, how do you even know that? He's like, Oh, yeah, I see your Dexcom. And I was like, Oh, are you diabetic? And he's like, yeah, and he like, shows me his Dexcom, you know, and come to find out, he goes to the same. And oh, and it was just kind of a funny thing. Every time we would see each other, he'd be like, Oh, I have to go see Dr. Q. Today, I'm going to be in trouble. Because you know, X, Y, and Z. And I'm like, Oh, no, I totally feel your pain, you know, and it's just, even. Even just those little interactions, you know, knowing that, like, you have the same endocrinologist, she's like, one of the best in our area. That is just like such a big community piece, you know, too. So the fact that she can she has that presence to tie people together because of how she is.

Scott Benner 58:15
Excellent. That's really terrific. I yeah, I actually go to that link and send me the information when you get a chance. It's juicebox docs.com. Oh, yeah,

Jill 58:25
definitely. And they're the ones that told me about the podcast, actually.

Unknown Speaker 58:29
Really?

Scott Benner 58:31
Well, thank you, Dr. Q. I like Seattle a little better. Look at that. I'm such a cheap horse, you could just easily swim.

Unknown Speaker 58:43
It's not all terrible. I live outside of Seattle. So it's like, you know, all the

Scott Benner 58:48
while I'm just saying didn't those crazy people take a few blocks of Seattle this year? and demons? Oh, yeah. But I mean, just some hippie stuff. That's

Unknown Speaker 58:57
just good. All the good all the good old crew keeping things interesting.

Scott Benner 59:02
I'll tell you from a distance, it seemed pretty crazy. Just they're gone. Now. They're gone. they disperse back to their lives. That's right. Oh, my God. This, this episode is terrific. First of all, you're great. You you I don't even think you needed me. I think I could have gotten on and been like, hey, Jill, tell people what happened to you. And then I could push the mic away and gone and had a sandwich and come back and you wouldn't be talking still. So I appreciate that very much. I'm glad the baby's healthy. Your husband's okay. Everybody's good with everything. Excellent. So I want to say that you are a great example of a quick transition. And the people who have been struggling for a long time. I think they should see you as a real like, a story of like hopefulness because all you all you really did was bump into the right doctor. Find a little bit of information, listen to a podcast. Get a huge Video, and then you're here you are, you have a 6.1 a one C, and you're living your life again, I think that everyone sometimes can believe that it's just such a long process. But the long part of the process is what you described in the beginning. It's the part where you're so. So my point is the process doesn't have to be long, it has to be focused on the right things. And that becomes difficult when you don't know what the right things are. Right, right. Because had you met Dr. Q, on day one, at that urgent care, you wouldn't have this long story and your process to type one diabetes would have felt very quick and easy. So it's not about diabetes takes a long time to figure out. I think it's more about sometimes it takes a long time to find people that can help you with it.

Jill 1:00:53
Yeah, I agree. And, you know, like all of the all of those little things that you mentioned, and like having Instagram and having the Facebook community and all of those things, like, they just add so much to the experience to make it easier. Because all I mean, I can't imagine being a type one diabetic, even 10 years ago, right? Where social media was like a thing, but not how it is now. I mean, there is so much information on how to do, how to manage your diabetes, and how to live your life and how to eat normally. Just at the tip of your fingers. You know, if I ever have something that pops up, I just get on my Instagram. And I'm like, okay, who has this? Let me make a post about it. Let me see if I can tag some people, right. It's just, you have so much more control. And I think finding, finding those little things just to make your life a little bit easier, even though it might feel frustrating at first. I mean, it just makes all the difference, you know, taking taking more control of your own health rather than waiting for doctors to figure stuff out.

Scott Benner 1:01:54
Yeah, well, because as you prove today, you could wait forever if you don't meet the right person. Yep, that's right. No, seriously, you would, you could be dead now if you didn't meet that woman.

Jill 1:02:04
serious. I think that all the time, Scott. I think that all the time. I have so many from January to April. I had a lot of really scary, scary incidents happen. And every time I took back the incident to a person in charge in my mind, I was just at home, you know, they're just like, yeah, that happens when you're diabetic. Now, you know, it just was so ridiculous.

Scott Benner 1:02:27
And now you know, no, it doesn't like that stuff doesn't actually have to happen. Yeah, I mean, at some point you you mixed air travel wine and DK together basically, you know,

Jill 1:02:39
oh, yeah, snowshoe I went snowshoeing all by myself. Which is intense. I had no control over my diabetes. I was like super shaky. I had a very intense low had no idea like that. That was a thing. Like, you know, I was just like, Oh, my blood sugar's low. I'm holding right now. Like, I had no idea what to do. I had nothing holding you know, laugh

Scott Benner 1:03:03
and wanting to say, What is wrong with you?

Unknown Speaker 1:03:07
I just had no information

Jill 1:03:09
I didn't know like, how to connect the dots. You know, I just was not getting anything. You know, all I knew was being high was scary. Yeah, you know, and that's it because for a type two that's the big Yeah, you're scared a big thing was being being high not being low and so it just is just a child. Pretty much

Scott Benner 1:03:30
this really is fascinating because aside of that time when you didn't understand about diabetes decided that time you're reasonably together person sound like it you don't mean like there's nothing about you that says snowshoeing with undiagnosed Type One Diabetes like it you don't seem like that person now. And and I assume you weren't that person outside of this bubble that existed which was a bubble of having diabetes and not knowing

Jill 1:04:00
and right If I had known you know, if I had truly understood all of the dangers I would have never done all the things that I was doing but I just didn't have the information that's it you know, it's just ridiculous.

Scott Benner 1:04:13
So you would tell people keep moving till you find a good doctor, first of all, right? And what other things have you learned that are valuable?

Jill 1:04:23
Oh, just get a community that was that was a game changer, right. Like, again in April when I met Dr. Q's team, one of the girls Monica, who is a diabetes educator and also an omni pod Rep. She is so kind and compassionate. I was like bawling. They were trying to get a Dexcom on me and I like didn't provide consent. They're just like, we need to put this on you. And I was like, I don't want that. I don't know what that is. And they're like, you need to have this on your body. Right? So they put this Dexcom on me. I feel like I'm a horse being branded like did not want anything on my body. didn't know what it was. And she's so sweet. She takes her hands in mind and she's like, everything's gonna be fine. You're gonna go home, you're gonna download the Juicebox Podcast. Okay, what is that called, like, repeat after me, you're also going to get yourself an Instagram, and you're going to get yourself people that also have diabetes. Okay.

Unknown Speaker 1:05:20
Wow.

Jill 1:05:21
I mean, that was the best advice that she could have given me because I was so emotional. And it had been four months of nonsense, right. And I did exactly what she told me. And those were two really simple things that I could control, you know, everything that the doctors are doing, I couldn't control, I just had to trust that they were giving me good advice. But you got to get yourself a community, that Instagram thing, you have to watch other people struggle and fail and get back up again. So that you can learn how to manage your failures, because that's, that's diabetes, you know, you're gonna screw it up sometimes. And you have to get to know your body. And there's no way to do it without watching other people do it.

Scott Benner 1:06:01
I had a guy reach out to me an adult, male, a week ago or so through Instagram. And it just seemed like he had been watching the account my account for so long. And he just finally had the nerve to say like, hello. And he's like, I don't know what to do, I need help. And I looked at his graph, and I was like, Hey, man, If I was you, I'd look at this, and this and this. And he's starting to, like, get control of it. And he should see how happy he is. Just it but but it was his, um, he got over the hump of like, not of not saying anything to anybody just imagining that his blood sugar had to stay in the two hundreds all the time. And I just had never been happier for a person who I've never seen before. Like, he doesn't put his face in his Academy where I don't know him. But I've never been happier for a person that I don't know, because he made this big. You know, he made a big grand gesture for himself. And for him, it was just reaching out to somebody and saying, I don't know what to do that and

Jill 1:07:04
I have found that so many people in this community, of course, your self included, are just so willing to help, you know, like, it's, it's, it's your health, if you're not willing to ask and say, Hey, I need help with this. I don't know, man, it's gonna be a lot harder, you know, and there's so many people out there with the knowledge who are happy to at least point you in the right direction. You know?

Scott Benner 1:07:25
Yeah, no, I've found that for sure. Well, I think we've learned that in this hour. You've talked about a lot of projects, but you only didn't avoid one of them. So the rest of us are pretty good at running from that's all I heard. Also, I have a image of you in a doctor's office, like a like in a horse bridle having a Dexcom put

Jill 1:07:47
on you for that was traumatic.

Scott Benner 1:07:51
I liked it. You were around people now that are just like, yeah, we'll worry about what Joe wants in a minute. He really well, because here's why. And I'll let you go in a minute. I know we're up on time. But it illustrates for me, like when people say about their kids, like, oh, he doesn't really want that. Or she I don't think she would like that. She said she doesn't want that. I'm like, yeah, no one wants that. No way. No one says to themselves, you know, it'd be cool. I'd like to wear an insulin pump. But then you guys run diabetes. You know what I mean? You go Okay, and then my, my thing to people has always been, what other life and death decisions do you let your eight year old make? Like, they're always like, well, it's their body. And I'm like, I get that. I was like, but try it anyway. Because, you know, in a week, they're not going to notice that I wore a G six last week. And the only problems I had with my G six was forgetting where that I had it on. When I was showering. Like that sounds I kept banging into with my hand and going, Oh, I'm wearing that I forgot. Like, and I've worn it on the pod demo. And the same thing happens. You know, a couple days later, you just you don't know what's there anymore.

Unknown Speaker 1:09:09
All right, you just get used to it.

Scott Benner 1:09:10
Yeah. And it's been and listen, people don't have to pump. They don't have to use the CGM. I'm not saying that. But if you're a parent sitting around thinking, Well, I do think this would be really beneficial. But you know, Billy doesn't want it and Billy six years old, maybe, you know, channel your introductory cue and just be like, shut up, Billy.

Jill 1:09:32
Yeah, sorry. Sometimes we have to do things that are hard. You know. That's just that's just how it is. Diabetes is not something to mess around with. You know, and if you have something that's going to make it that much easier, that you are going to kind of forget about I mean, you don't remember that you're wearing and unless you knock it on something and it comes off. Right yeah, I don't. I don't see what the what the weight is for. Those things are game changers because Am

Scott Benner 1:09:57
I Rachel in fairness, if we left this It's up to you, you wouldn't be wearing those things.

Jill 1:10:02
No. And I think I mean, I don't think I'm alone in that if you're an adult, who has lived your whole life without a device on your body, not looking not, you're not gonna want to wear a device. I mean, shocker. You know, like, it's not comfortable to have something stuck on you. At the beginning, people don't always like change, right? It's a that's a big life thing that you have to get used to. And especially as a woman, I think if you know, society pressures have so much to think about what we look like, it is a big mental step to think, Okay, I have to put this on my arm, or I have to put this on my leg or in a place where people could possibly see and ask questions. If you're not at that mental place to want to ask answer questions of people like what is that? It's a big thing to put on. I think if someone had just handed me the Dexcom, and said, Here you go wear it when you are you ready to wear it? I probably would have continued finger sticking for a while, because it's just a big step. And I'm so glad that I'm not still doing that. You know, there's some times that I run out of Dexcom supplies and I'm like, man, I have to go back to the old way. Like, this sucks.

Scott Benner 1:11:08
I remember interviewing Victor Garber. And he said, I have a I think it was a Dexcom around the pub one. I might have been in the party. So I have that it's in a drawer. I can't bring himself to do it. Now. He wears it. whichever one it was I forget which one it was. Now he now he wears it. And so you know, that's not the he's not the first person has told me I have the device. I put it in a drawer. Yeah, yeah. And so I get it. Like, you know, I listen, I remember taking Arden to the Children's Hospital for her first Dexcom insertion. And she said, going in there. I don't want this. And I was sure yeah, I was like, I know you don't. I said, I think it's going to help you. So let's try. And you know, and it's probably been the best decision we've ever made. Yeah, but and I'm not saying forced by the way. I'm not saying force your kids to do something kicking and screaming. But I'm saying there's a way to continue to the conversation. And you know, talk them into doing it at some point just you know, the trying it at the very least. Yep. Yeah. You Joe. Thank you. For for this thank you for basically creating like a two year relationship with me so I could get a cool podcast episode out of you. Because I just knew if we talked last year, this wouldn't have been how this couldn't have gone better, in my opinion. Just what I'm saying. Right. Thank you so much. I'm so happy. What did we name the baby?

Jill 1:12:32
zombie? His name's zavier. But we call him zombie.

Scott Benner 1:12:35
Not Scott. Okay, I got it. That's all you could have just said not Scott. I don't really care what your baby's name is. You understand?

Jill 1:12:43
My baby is adorable and any kind of attention he gets he's getting. I'm still a new mom. Okay. Oh, no,

Scott Benner 1:12:50
it's got to be the most exciting time. It doesn't end. By the way. If you're using my wife as an example, I still think my wife's ovaries twitch when my son his or daughter, like in trouble or sad or upset or anything. I don't think it goes away. Just so you know. You're gonna be tormented by that kid forever. Your mom is somewhere right now. tormented by the things that bother you. Just Oh,

Jill 1:13:12
she's downstairs? Yes. Our bed watching zombies.

Scott Benner 1:13:17
Is the Is he a handful?

Jill 1:13:20
He's becoming a handful right now because he just took his first couple steps. So yeah, he is becoming a little, a little nugget, that's for sure. But nothing I can't handle.

Scott Benner 1:13:33
You just made me think of the first time Arden ran across the room and almost made me cry. Isn't that sounds good? Ah, and she's 16. So just, you know, it's not gonna stop just so you know.

Unknown Speaker 1:13:42
I believe it.

Scott Benner 1:13:44
Thank you so much for doing this. I hope you have a Merry Christmas. I gotta tell you I really like this one. It's probably gonna go up pretty soon. A huge thanks to Joel for coming on the show and telling what I thought was an incredible story. Thanks also to Omni pod makers of the Omni pod tubeless insulin pump for being longtime sponsors, and another longtime sponsor Dexcom, makers of the Dexcom g six continuous glucose monitor. And never forget about touched by type one.org. Learn more about the sponsors and give them a look. My omnipod.com forward slash juicebox dex comm.com forward slash juicebox touched by telepon.org this was a good first show, isn't it? Right? We're starting off 2021 with a vibe that I liked. Let's keep it going.

Okay, so pretty soon, pretty soon, first couple weeks of January, on my Instagram and Facebook pages. I'll be putting up information and it'll basically say this we're gonna and basically here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna figure it out probably one or two episodes of the pro tip series at a time, you'll listen to it in your own time. And then there'll be a scheduled time with a zoom link that you can come and talk about it with a bunch of people. So, like a book club, we're gonna listen to something, then come together and talk about it. I thought that was a nice idea. I ran a pass and people, they seem to like it too. So we're gonna give it a shot. And if it works, we're going to go through the entire pro tip series. If you don't know what I'm talking about when I say pro tip series, there are episodes within the podcast called diabetes pro tip and then an extension of what that episode is about. It begins at Episode 210. with diabetes pro tip newly diagnosed are starting over. And you can see all of those in one place at diabetes pro tip.com. Or you can just scroll back in your podcast player and listen to them there. So if that sounds good to you keep an eye out for the social media. I'm on the Instagram, and Facebook. Let's see on Instagram at Juicebox Podcast on Facebook, the public group is at bold with insulin. The private group is Juicebox Podcast, type one diabetes, the information will be there very soon. I hope you're having a great start to your new year. I am genuinely jacked up about this next season. I can't wait to bring you all the things I have planned out. Oh, and I probably should say because so many people right now are trying to take advantage of others with their Instagram you know I'm a I'm a what was the one thing I saw that cracked me up I can't say are the personal note I am. Anyway, there's a lot of people charging money to get together and private Facebook groups and talk about things or have access to certain content. I do not do that this book club thing is completely free. So you'll never be asked to spend money to listen to this podcast. Keep that in mind. Anyway, I'll get you more details as soon as I have them. I'm looking forward to doing it. I think the first meeting should definitely be in January. And I can't wait for this next season of the podcast. Thank you so much for listening. Thanks for sharing. Thanks for leaving amazing reviews wherever you listen, subscribe in a podcast app and support the advertisers. If you do those things, you make the inside of my heart happy. I'll talk to you soon.