#1473 Canadian Danger Phallus
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Carli, 48, jokes about her husband's “T1D curse” while navigating diabetes, heart dissection, and lymphoma.
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Scott Benner 00:00 Hello friends and welcome back to another episode of The Juicebox Podcast.
Carly 00:14 My name is Carly. I am originally from Canada. I've been in Texas for just over three years and I was diagnosed with type one diabetes at the age of 40, nothing
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Carly 02:00 My name is Carly. I am originally from Canada. I've been in Texas for just over three years, and I was diagnosed with type one diabetes at the age of 40. It was a happy 40th birthday present for me, right around your birthday, right like so my birthday is October. The symptoms I was diagnosed in February, but the symptoms definitely started popping up like late November, early, early December. So yeah, and the other story is my husband. He was married before, to a type one diabetic, and he proposed to me on my 40th birthday, and then I got diabetes a month later, so it's basically all his fault.
Scott Benner 02:43 Have we had his penis tested?
Carly 02:48 Is it possible? But he refuses?
Scott Benner 02:51 Oh, no. I think we should do a scraping of skin cells and then send them off. So I don't know the technical dues that's behind how we figure out if his penis is calling seeing type one diabetes in women, but I think it's possible. Yeah, yeah. Would you let him cheat on you to see if the next girl gets type one next girl?
Carly 03:08 He'd actually, yeah, okay, fine, that's an experiment. I'll be
Scott Benner 03:14 Carly. I love you. But if this is what you need,
Carly 03:18 the sacrifices I have to do for my wife.
Scott Benner 03:21 Can I pick the girl? How does this work? Yeah. Okay, so Wow, do you have any other autoimmune in your life, like in your extended family, or you personally,
Carly 03:31 myself, personally? No, I've got a bunch of random, weird health stuff. It's always, um, generally, when I get sick, I get really sick. Tends to be my strategy my mom has, that's the
Scott Benner 03:45 funniest way anyone's ever said it.
Carly 03:49 I had a perfect perforated ulcer when I was 15, shingles in my 30s, dealing with cancer now. So Wait, seriously, heart disease.
Scott Benner 03:58 Wait, hold on, you have heart disease
Carly 04:00 I have, well, it's called an aortic heart dissection. So I've got a weird hair in my in my heart,
Scott Benner 04:07 Harley, we have to figure this out. And what kind of cancer are you okay? I'm
Carly 04:11 okay. I'm going through so it's basically the cancer is like a melanoma. So I did immunotherapy for a year, had a bunch of lymph nodes taken out my armpits, like, year and a half ago, thought that was all done, and then basically, kind of on, like, two weeks after I rang the bell, a new thing popped up, which was linked from the original stuff. And so they actually ended up doing a live herpes virus into the spot to kill it so, and then that was kind of working, and then I was gonna get that cut out. And then within those scans, they found a new they found a new variant. So now I want some chemo drugs that had more surgery. And yeah, that too much. I want
Scott Benner 04:53 to find out how that affects your type one. But not before I say this, how many of these things have happened to you since penis? Boy touched you. Almost all of them,
Carly 05:05 yeah. So yeah, yeah. Like the perfect answer when I was 15. I can't blame him on that. But yeah, everything else, yeah, yeah, we were definitely dating when I got single. Yeah? No, I feel like this is him. Everything else has happened
Scott Benner 05:19 post you're from the, what they call the Great White North. But Is he correct? He is yes, okay, okay, so you guys moved together into the states.
Carly 05:31 Yeah, during COVID, his company shut down, like their Canadian office. So he moved here in 2020 we spent a year apart trying to figure out who's going to quit their job. People felt like there was probably more opportunity for both of us down here. So, yeah, so I followed about a year later, healthiest year
Scott Benner 05:49 of your life. Yeah, no, beyond being serious
Carly 05:54 outside of, like, all the major diseases, like, yeah, generally, like, I'm super active and like, that's basically like, I've never been one that got to sleep lots, and I would sleep in workouts, eat workout, eat some more. Workout, sleep.
Scott Benner 06:09 I just didn't know if it was like a moldy house that you didn't realize had mold in it, like you walked out of it for a year and you're like, hi, everything tastes fresher all of a sudden, and then he came back. You're like, yeah, jeez, all right. Well, listen, let's not make fun of the poor guy. But hey, you two aren't going to make a baby, though, right? No,
Carly 06:26 no, they're both, yeah, we're too old, so
Scott Benner 06:29 sorry, would you if you were younger, it was definitely
Carly 06:34 up for debate, like we I've had, I've also had kind of issues on, on that standpoint. So I always kind of wanted kids when I was younger, and it just kind of wasn't quite in the cards. And, yeah, we have a, we have a great life now, and I'm very, very happy with, kind of, yeah, like with, kind of with our life together, not
Scott Benner 06:54 in the cards. Like, your lady bits don't work, right? Or just like that. You know,
Carly 06:58 yeah, I could get pregnant, but could never hold a pregnancy game. So that was, yeah, sorry. I'm sorry, but it was so Jeezy,
Scott Benner 07:07 took all the fun out of it. Never mind. Okay, I know. I know. Sorry. Hey, everybody just found my line Carly. I was like, they're like, oh, he choked right through cancer, but he got to, he got to miscarriage, and he shut them right down. Yeah. Anyway, that was it. That was it. Now you all know my line. Okay, so what is it? Well, geez. So how many years have you had diabetes for?
Carly 07:29 Not long, so I it will be eight years in February.
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Carly 09:58 and actually. Something that I never like, I just only recently learned was auto immune. Is, I keep wanting to say eczema, but eczema, my sisters had eczema her entire life, so that would be the only other so
Scott Benner 10:11 thyroid eczema type one, yeah, and then just you randomly getting sick, yeah, yeah. Nobody, anybody else that you're related to just have that, like, what people would call, like, bad health luck. Well, yeah,
Carly 10:24 my dad passed away from ALS about 10 years ago. So no, 15 years ago, so I'm sorry she's very bad health
Scott Benner 10:32 Yeah, that is bad health luck. Yeah, yeah. I think anything that happens that ends up with you dead is definitely bad luck. Oh, well, that sucks. I just feel terrible to me. Oh my gosh. You have brothers and sisters. You do? You have one sister?
Carly 10:44 Thanks, yeah, no, yeah, one sister, yeah. She's 15 months younger. Gotcha,
Scott Benner 10:49 you diagnosed eight years ago. You're in the States. When it happens, you're in Canada. I was in Canada, yeah, how do they start you off your treatments?
Carly 10:57 Yeah, I guess that was kind of one of the things, like just, you know, listening to the differences between the different the different countries. But so I was Alberta. Like, every province has their own health care system, so I'm guessing someone in Ontario is going to have a little bit different experience than someone Alberta. But like, basically, I was wasting away. Like I was about 20 pounds lighter than I should be. I had zero energy. I was trying to get to my family doctor, who was part of a walk in clinic and had an appointment in, like, March and like, that was, you know, three months this, as soon as I could get in to see her, and just kept feeling worse and worse and worse, and kind of went into the walking clinic with where, you know, my doctor was, and the lady who saw me, and I don't blame her, because I think a lot of people come and say, I don't feel well, and it's just like, Yeah, you know, to pick up yourself here, whatever. I'm like, No, but I'm like, I'm super active. I know my body, I'm definitely not doing well, but I kind of go in and she's like, well, you're seeing your doctor in a month. Like, can you wait? I'm like, I don't think I can anymore. And she's like, Well, you didn't just turn 40, like, things slow down. I'm like, well, it's not like it turns 40, and my entire body decided to to shut down. So she sent me spurs, some blood tests, and the next day she calls me and she's like, You need to go to emergency right now. Like, kind of in Canadian numbers, my blood sugar was like, 35 or something like that, which
Scott Benner 12:21 is, I can figure it out for while you're talking good, you talk, I'll figure, yeah, yeah.
Carly 12:25 So, yeah, so. But so she's like, he's going to emergency right now, kind of left the office, went to emerge, spent about six or seven hours in emergency waiting to see someone. So finally they like, yep, you've got diabetes. You've got type two diabetes, just because of my age. Like, you know you're over 40, so it must be type two and like, I'm, like, you can see my veins and all my body.
Scott Benner 12:51 Everything I seem to know about type two diabetes says I shouldn't be, like, wasting away like this, if it's happening. Yeah? Also, three took them three months to see you too. Huh? That's very Canadian, yeah, yeah.
Carly 13:03 Very, very, yeah. So he, like, he sent me away with a prescription for Metformin, and then and a bit the referral to see the endocrinologist. Like, a week, you know. So this was a Friday, so the soon as I could get in was a week later to see an endocrinologist. So he spent that weekend, basically, like, you know, my husband is like, six four and played rugby, so, you know, close to 300 pounds. And we're walking around like, we went saw a few friends that weekend, and he's basically walking in the door going, guess who has type two diabetes? And he was all excited, because it wasn't him and it was me. It's so kind of spent a week on Metformin. Carly,
Scott Benner 13:45 if he ever breaks up with you, be careful if he walks in the room and yells, everybody who's dating me, raise your hand.
Carly 13:53 Exactly. Yes, it's been a week on Metformin like that was kind of all I had. And no equipment, no nothing, kind of, not much guidance beyond that. And so I went and saw, kind of my endocrinologist on Friday, and I walked in and she's like, You are not type two diabetic. She's like, you are type one. We're gonna get you in to see, like the dietitian right now and stuff. So kind of, I saw a dietitian. They showed me how to do insulin shots in the moment, and she said, Come back and see me in a week. And they just put me on long acting for the first week, just to kind of guess, get used to it and see us, started finger pricking and long lasting per week. And then saw her that next week, and she put me on,
Scott Benner 14:31 listen, it wouldn't be hard and fast, I don't think. But if I saw you with a 35 blood sugar, which, by the way, is 630 in over here in America? Yeah, I think I'd have a really difficult time thinking this is just type two diabetes. Also, like, yeah, not that your body weight has you know that people can be thin and have type two diabetes. Like, that's not my point. But like, you gotta think you can start adding the things up, like, the losing weight. Like, did you have other symptoms? Were you going to the bathroom? A lot?
Carly 14:59 Yeah, oh yeah. Like, it was where it first showed up. I grew up competitive swimming, so I always know when I'm getting sick when I'm swimming, like, because I'll feel bad without, like, before I actually feel bad. So it kind of popped up in December where I'm, like, my energy levels were really low and stuff. And didn't really notice the weight loss until kind of maybe a couple weeks before I went in, where I was, like, Oh, wait. Like, I put on a pair of jeans and, like, these are falling off me. Like, like, I would do a bike class, kind of the group on Saturday mornings. And my husband's also a very good cook. Stay can pass at kind of Friday nights. And I would show up on Saturday mornings generally, like, hung over and, like, super dehydrated, and joking with it was always joking with a buddy that my husband was trying to kill me. So I just feel like sweating salt and stuff like that. Carly,
Scott Benner 15:42 you're so Canadian.
Carly 15:47 So like, it was, yeah, like, those lots of thirst, getting up in the middle of night, he definitely infections and stuff like that were popping up and wouldn't go away. And, yeah, so, like, you look back on it, but like it was, like it was the energy level, like, again, it'll do something active, probably two, two times a day. And like, you know, I'd go for coffee in the morning from the office and just to walk a block. Just felt like that was
Scott Benner 16:08 too much. Hey, things degraded the way we would expect. But for some reason, a doctor looks at you and says, You have type two. You see endocrinologist A week later, after a week of metformin, he probably lost more weight, I'm imagining. And, yeah, luckily, you're not dead, but you're in DKA, aren't you? Not? If I was, they didn't tell me. Okay, so the the endo puts you on the long acting for a little while to get used to it, i By the way, why couldn't they should have put you in the hospital, is my point? Yeah, yeah, no, like, I, they sent me home that night, yeah, this will probably be fine. Give yourselves one of these a day while you acclimate to it. And then we'll talk to get, like, acclimate to, oh my god, yep. So you live through that. Obviously, you go back in a week. What happens? So they
Carly 16:54 put me on normal, like, yeah, so kind of fast acting and long lasting. And, you know, I see the dietitian, like, or I get a diabetes nurse that I kind of have to go and see her for, like, once a week for, I think about three weeks to kind of make sure I'm kind of getting the hang of it, yeah, and then I see the Endo, I think about three months later. And then after that, I'm on a one year rotation with the Endo, and that's about it for my for my care.
Scott Benner 17:23 Are you carb counting right away, or are you doing sliding scale? Which province? Oh, excuse me, you're messing
Carly 17:29 they did, yeah, they Yeah, yeah, yeah. They got me on carb counting right away. Well, yeah. So I got one friend that, like, two of his three children had type one diabetes, and I actually, like, I think that first Saturday after I've been diagnosed, I showed up. He was also part of this computing class. Showed up, and I kind of just said, I'm like, I got type I'm like, I've got been diagnosed with diabetes. And dude looked at me and he said, you know, like, well, he's like, there's two things I know about this disease. It's a numbers disease and it's a routine disease. And he's like, if I know two things about you, he's like, You love your routine, and you love numbers. So he's like, you're gonna kick ass at this, and you'll be fine. But he definitely helped me on the gave me a little bit more direction on kind of carb counting, and, you know, how they like,
Scott Benner 18:14 you know, kind of gave you a leg up. Give you a leg up on things, and got you going. I have to tell you, this lag just saved me because you said I have a friend whose kids have diabetes, and my brain wanted to say, Oh, God, your husband wasn't near those kids, was he? And I knew, and I knew how wrong that was, and the lag gave me time to think about it, and so I didn't say it. Now I'm taking credit for not saying it as I've posturally said it anyway, I find that both not funny at all and hilarious, in case you're all looking for an insight into my sense of humor, yep, well, I get it. Yeah, no, I was like, the only thing that stopped me was lag. I don't want to, I don't want to talk over when I say my stupid stuff. Anyway, let's assume those kids were over 18, so that what I just said feels okay. Yeah, they are now. They are now, yep, for sure, or then whatever. Anyway, your husband had nothing to do with that, nothing, nothing, no, not on this one. But, I mean, it is fair to say his ex wife and you both have diabetes. I'm just saying, Oh, my God, he should probably wear a condom constantly. I'm just, I think, so I don't know what he's got down there, but I don't think it's good. So
Carly 19:25 it's dangerous. Whatever it is, it's dangerous.
Scott Benner 19:29 That's right. Oh, there's no way to call this Canadian danger. Penis is there. I don't know what
Carly 19:35 your what your safe cards are allowed. So
Scott Benner 19:37 I think Apple won't let me do that. It's a shame, because, god damn it, that'd be awesome. So okay, so you get a little help from a friend. You get not a lot of, you know, not a lot of direction from healthcare. Does healthcare ever step in for you and become more valuable? Or do you just free wheel it on your own and figure it out?
Carly 19:56 Kind of free wheel it on my own, like people like, I really. Like my endocrinologist, but I think just the system is too, like, it's the way that, like, it is the, definitely the difference. You know, both systems have their issues. But like, the one thing I've really noticed in the States, I'm getting more appreciation, kind of, on the cancer side of things, is like, because it's a business, there's some customer service aspects down here, whereas in Canada, like, it's like, there's not, there's no incentive to go above and beyond, and you're kind of getting paid for, like, who you see and like, anything extra is, but not even that. There's not compensation. But, like, they're overworked, underpaid, and don't have the capacity to do it. But yeah, like, I would see my endo once a year. She's like, you're doing great. Like, my a one, CS at the time was low, sevens, but she was like, it's a little high, but you're super active, so I'm not worried about you. You're, you know, like, your weight, steady, all of that kind of stuff. So here's a prescription for the next year. Off you go, and we'll see you in a we'll see you in a year.
Scott Benner 20:58 Yeah? So it's a shame. You know, it's funny, as I'm sitting here like it's election day in America while you and I are doing this, it just occurred to me, I mean, out of nowhere, almost crazy, that you could listen to this podcast not know me and be like, Scott's got some really weird right wing fringe ideas, like he's always talking about how doctors aren't blah, blah, blah and everything. And I'm like, and I don't really give away my politics on here, or how I lean, really, but I don't feel that way. You know what I mean? Like, I don't have, like, the, like, the whole world's out to get me. This is all a conspiracy. You know, no one's working on a cure because there's more money. I don't really, I don't think like that. And by the way, if you do it's, I don't give a play. It's fine with me. But I find myself talking that way because of all the conversations that people have coming in here. Like, if you go back to the first year of the podcast, all I all you would hear me say is, like, look, I didn't get a lot of direction from my doctors, and I figured this out. And here's what I figured out. And here it is, you can just do whatever you want with it, right? But I don't know how many people have to come on and and say this stuff before you just go, wow. Like it, mean, it doesn't matter. It's ladies in Canada. Like it's, I hear from people in I just interviewed a woman in where, what the hell was she the other day? You don't know, because it was just me and her, but I think about, I think I was interviewing a woman from Bahrain. How does a woman from Bahrain find a podcast made by a guy in New Jersey? Because the people there aren't helping her. And, like, you know what I mean, and and so, and everywhere in between. If I pulled up a map of where this podcast is, like, vigorously listened to, the answer is almost everywhere. Yeah. This is also not to say that some of you don't have, like, awesome doctors who, like, on day one sat down and talked to you like, bang, here it is. Let me lay it out for you. And you just walked out of there with a five, five, a, 1c, because you know what you're doing. That absolutely happens. But clearly, I interview a person at least five days a week, and overwhelmingly, this is how the stories go. And I know people don't come on the internet to tell people how good things go, you know, all the time, but maybe more people should. So if you're listening to this, you're like, hey, you know it's not balanced. Well, then come on and be balanced about it. But all I can tell you is that a lot of people that come on tell me this, like, Hey, Scott, I know who you are, because my doctor did not fundamentally help me. So sucks, is all well, and on the other side, like
Carly 23:24 they're here, like three months, like we've
Scott Benner 23:28 only been 15. Oh, Carly, did you go to the wrong part of the house? Again, I'm with me, but she
Carly 23:33 made me cry.
Scott Benner 23:37 Oh, I can Yes. Now, okay, did you go to the wrong part of the house? What just happened?
Carly 23:40 Maybe. All right, let me Are you moving? No, I was sitting very still,
Scott Benner 23:44 because when I talk on the phone, I wander around my house aimlessly. When I'm on the phone, I like, oh, clean toilets. I put laundry in like, I sweep floors. People like, what are you doing? What? Sometimes I have to say to people I'm on phone calls, hey, in a second you're going to hear me flush the toilet. It's not because I just used it, I promise. It's because I cleaned it while we were talking. Yeah? Try something else. Maybe put your Wi Fi back on. Yeah. Okay. Well,
Carly 24:10 first, let's I've just tried a different room, which is going to be a little bit more. I don't know if that's echoey, but
Scott Benner 24:16 you have a tin foil hat that you can wear that might help. So I made my big pronouncement, and I said, it sucks, really, you started talking. I literally couldn't hear you. I'm sorry.
Carly 24:26 Okay, so, yeah, just on the endocrinologist side. Like it the first one I found here. She was actually quite involved with my diabetes and, like, but I yeah, she basically made me cry everything. Like, I left,
Scott Benner 24:39 oh, the office. But Carly, how does that? How does that happen? What does she say that that makes you upset? Well,
Carly 24:45 so this is so I was before coming down to the States. I was just on MBI, and so saw her for a while, and she's like, You need to get on a pump. You need to get on a pump. I'm like, Hey, fine. Like, I want to so kind of starting out, trying to understand insurance and all that kind of stuff. And, you know, with the insurance that we had was my husband's company at the time, I was just covered for Omnipod and the five was coming out. So I'm like, Well, this is supposed to be the newest technology. Like, why don't I just wait until it's out? Started on the five, and I'm like, maybe two weeks into it. First time I'm ever on a pump, and I walk into the office and he's like, this doesn't make any sense. I don't understand how to read any of this information. This is not helpful. Like, I didn't even know this was out. Like, what's going on? And she's yelling at me.
Scott Benner 25:27 She told you, get on a pump. You got a pump. And she's like, not this pump, you fucking idiot. Anyway, this is how the stories happen. People just keep listening. Go ahead. Yeah,
Carly 25:39 yeah. So that was kind of where I'm like, okay, yeah, I definitely it's time to leave her. So kind of got a new PCP, or found a PCP, and she referred me to a new window. I really quite like her, but again, like, I see her every three, four months, and, you know, we spend 1015, minutes together. But just even the difference, because, like, the Canadian and this could have changed. Like, I apologize to Dexcom, is it has changed. But the Canadian app versus the US app, like the Canadian app, the doctors didn't have the ability to download all your information. Okay? So, like, you'd go get your blood test and they would just see your ANC and like, that was the information they had, and that was that was it where. So even just the fact that, like, when my endo walks in, even if she only spent five minutes looking at my my information, she at least has a sense of what's going on with me. And, you know, and like, there is some kind of service around that level. But, you know, like, on the cancer side too, like, I'm just, I'm blown away at the care that I'm getting. And like, my access to doctors, and just, you know, one of the reasons that I was quite sure, if I was still in Canada, I might not even been diagnosed at all, and definitely would not have a lot of the stuff that has been caught would have gone unnoticed, just because of the way the system is set up there, versus it is here. Like there's something about the customer service, like, where it is a business, that you're trying to bring people back, that my brother in law had some kind of, like, just had some skin cancer stuff, and he went in, they treated it, and they said, like, hopefully we never see you again. And like, there's no preventative care to follow up, or like, anything like that. It's just like, you know, off you go and good luck. Whereas here it's like, you know, I'm still getting, you know, you're getting scans every three months just to make sure nothing new is popping up. And, like, there's a better sense of and with her, it could be just because, you know, kind of conspiracy people well, it's a business. They want to bring you in like they're trying to make money, you know, like, that's, I don't care, because they're, they're trying to take care of me. So do
Scott Benner 27:36 you think that, like, it feels like doctors helping you with cancer are more on the ball, because what they're doing is segmented, already understood, like their steps they're taking. We're going to do this, then we're going to take a scan. If the scan says this, we'll do that. Like it's much more if, then if this, then that, because it's a it's planned out, whereas diabetes probably has a lot of variables that the doctors aren't aware of. Yeah, I
Carly 28:02 hadn't actually, yeah, I hadn't really thought about that. But that does make again, with like, cancer, like, you're kind of supposed to be kind of cured, or whatever, and, like, but it can come back. And so there's whereas with diabetes, I guess, yeah, like, we have it, you have it, and it's not going away. So there's less, less need for follow up, is the right word. But yeah, yeah, yeah. I guess that's, that's a very good point. Yeah. I just
Scott Benner 28:23 wonder if that's the end it feels like it's going well because you're alive, so you're like, well, there was a CGM for your cancer, and you could see it bouncing around or whatever. I wonder if you would be like, well, they're trying their hardest, but it's not going as good as I wanted it. Like, you know what I mean? Like, it's such a I don't know. It's hard thing to quantify. I guess, yeah, maybe, yeah, yeah. I don't know. It's, it's, it sucks. Like, don't get me wrong. Like, in the end, you're asking a human being to, like, go to college, get an undergrad degree, go off to medical school, do the whole thing, absorb as much as they can, probably go into a specialty, learn as much as they can about the specialty, probably while they're learning about the specialty, the stuff they're learning is probably outdated, yeah. And then you come into a room and all the other stuff's going on, the human interaction, stuff, insurance, or time, or whatever, and they've got to look at you, make an assessment, say a thing based out of the knowledge in their head, and it's either right or it's wrong. And you go forward and see if you're lucky enough to, you know, to do it. I think with diabetes, when they tell you the wrong thing, it's so obvious right away, yeah, that you can say, Well, the thing that that person said to me was not helpful. And then they know that's the deal. And so then I think they throw their hands up and they think, oh, they'll figure it out. Yeah, that vibe, I don't know. I mean, I'm sure there's a lot of stories in between, but kind of feels that way to me sometimes, yeah, no, that's, yeah, that's a I like that, yeah, I don't know. It's just, I. Just think it's human. Yeah, I honestly think that if you stop talking about, I don't know, diabetes or cancer or health right now, and just shift it over to anything else and try to have a conversation about it, you'd start having the same exact conversation. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, yeah. So,
Carly 30:19 and it's person to person dependent too, right? Like, it's even kind of, I would think of this kind of, like, work from home stuff that popped up post post COVID. Right now, companies are pulling back on that. And there's, you know, like, there's people that, like, it's work from home, but I'm still working. And then you have people like, Oh, I'm going to take advantage of this system. And, like, you know, it's kind of that some employees are good at it. Some employees aren't. And it's, I would assume, kind of the medical system and the doctors and everyone else out there is the same, like, you know, kind of people's motivations different, or people
Scott Benner 30:49 are a mixed bag, yeah, that's, yeah, right? And they have their barrier. They can find the bad ones, yeah. And they have their variables too, right? There's, like, it's easy to say, like, oh, you know, I don't know David doesn't do good working from home, but you don't know if David's kids are sick, or his wife is yelling at him constantly, or he's yelling at her constantly and she's running around, hiding from like, I don't know, like they might have a lot of family problem, and then he's working from home, and then it's both, David doesn't do a good job from home, or maybe David's At home, you know, with his phone in one hand, watching a YouTube video, and, you know, looking at Twitch with the other hand, and that's why he's not getting anything done. Yeah, you know, you don't know what the reasons are that things happen, but at the same time, there's going to be as many just lazy people as there are people who are just not in a good situation. And you just never know why what's happening is happening. Like, it's easy to think, like, Mo, my doctor is an idiot. He doesn't care. He's not trying to help me. Or maybe that's not the case at all. Like, maybe your doctor's sick, or maybe your doctor's, you know, getting divorced. Or, like, you know, I mean, like, there's a lot of things going on in people's lives. In the end, none of this matters, because this is what ends up happening. Listen, if you really look at diabetes, like over a timeline, go back to 19, you know, 1915 as an example, and you get diabetes and you die eventually, right? They were doing starvation diets to try to keep people alive, like that kind of stuff worked. Sometimes, for some people, insulin comes out. Shoot people with insulin, hey, I'm alive, right? Insulin gets better. I'm sure these people who were saved by insulin in 1928 for example, didn't live till they were 7990 years old, like, Right? But it saved their life in the meantime. Then you know what comes next? Uh, pork, beef, you know, regular mph, like, you start going through that timeline there, and every time I talk to somebody who lived through one of those timelines, it came with its own challenges, and then it gets better every time the insulin gets better, and then it gets better when pumps come out, and then it gets better when testing is better, and it gets better when CGM come out, and it gets better When algorithms come out. But what we're counting on through this whole thing is technology, either biological or mechanical, technology, to make diabetes better. At no point during this process do I hear anybody telling me, Oh, I was diagnosed in 1965 but I'm still alive now. Let me tell you how much better my doctor got during this time, no one ever tells that story. Right in my mind, what we're waiting for is technology to be able to mimic better the ability to take in information, absorb it, consider it, apply it towards everything the world knows about health and type one diabetes, and then regurgitate the correct answer. I think we're waiting for AI. Yeah, yeah. That's where I think a leap in doctoring is going to finally come from, because, not because doctors are bad people, or they're not trying, or they don't take it seriously, or they don't care about me, or there's, you know, insurance, they got everybody in there. It's, it's the limitations of their their little like, noodle, they're thinking thing like, it just, it's not because they're dumb, it's because we're human. Yeah,
Carly 34:07 well, and in the end, we we're human. Like, doctors can only give us so much information, and, yeah, I can have best doctor in the world. It's going to be like, you know, no more than anyone have, like, the best advice that, if I don't take that home and listen like, you know, in the end, it's still like me that has to figure out, like, what my body's doing, and why does it, you know, why it reacts this way when you know I'm doing this? And like, in the end, like we have to take some responsibility ourselves. Like, it sucks that, yeah, you know, you hope that you could be able to kind of go and see a doctor, and they should give you the right guidance. But in the end, it's like, you know, again, we still need to go and figure out what's best for us.
Scott Benner 34:46 And even that perspective is like, we have to go home and do something with it that gives that you understood it. Yeah, it's not just about like the doctor telling you the right thing to do. It's about them telling you that in a way that you can absorb. And now. Like, you're a different person. Some people are visual learners. Some people don't want to read. They want to some people want it told to them, like, how the hell are we supposed to get this straight? Do you know what I mean? But like, yeah. Like, I've already done an episode or two. I'm not saying it's perfect or anything like that, but I've had people come on who have had, like, medical issues that they're like, I don't know what's going on with me. And I was like, why don't we just sit down and keep asking? Ai like, why don't we keep telling the AI about you? And then ask it what might be the problem? And it gives back, like, I don't know if it's right or not, but it gives back reasonable ideas to look into that I don't know that everybody would think to look into. Yeah, I know it's not perfect right now, and I don't know if it'll ever be perfect. I'm not saying it will be or anything like that, but at least it can hear what you said. Remember all the things that you told it. My name is Carly. I'm this tall, I weigh this much. I've got this kind of cancer and that kind of cancer. I've got this kind of this, and I've got that, and I have type one diabetes, and I end it's possible that somebody with a magic wand is trying to kill me.
Carly 35:59 And, you know, because I call it magic, that'll just that goes right to his head,
Scott Benner 36:04 which head? Now, listen, exactly. We'll get the Canadian out of you, yeah, now the AI is, is it's remembered those things that you've told it. Now, here are my symptoms. What do you see here? Like, here's who I am, here's here's my, you know, here's my measurables. Here's what I know is wrong with me. Here's what I'm, you know, experiencing. Lay it out for me here. What do you think could be going on? What could I try, first, to try to impact these things, and then let an intelligence you know that has access to the internet, which should have access to everything that doctors learned, and if it doesn't, someone's going to do it. And you know what I mean? Like, I think doctor, your doctor in a pocket. Listen, I said this to my wife a couple of years ago, and she fought with me a little bit about it, but I said, I think one day doctors will be technicians and not the clinician. I think the AI will be the clinician and the doctor will be the human there to go over everything, to make sure it makes sense. Makes sense. Yeah, I don't think surgery right away, but you know what I mean, although there are, like, there are some robot surgery tools that are awesome, but they're usually very specific to one surgery that they do, yeah, but that, to me, makes the most sense. Like, where's the limitation of doctors? It's their inability to keep all of the necessary information in their head and then compute it and spit out an answer. Well,
Carly 37:29 to your point, earlier, like, you know what they're learning? Like, you know, stuff is changing so much and, like, yeah, so quickly that, like, what they learned even a few years ago might be irrelevant, and they might not know it's, it's relevant, right? Like, it's so or, what about
Scott Benner 37:44 new literature, new new testing, you know, this stuff that comes up constantly. Like, I had a lady reach out to me this morning, and, you know, like, listen, let's be clear. First of all, I'm a podcaster, okay? Like, you know, and she's, you know, she sends to me. She's like, Look, I know you're not a doctor. And know, this isn't medical advice, but my three year old has diabetes, but only has this specific antibody and blah, blah, blah. And you know, like, you know, isn't using much insulin. He's getting stem cell treatments. Like, the family's doing a lot, you know, trying to keep this diabetes at bay. And she says to me, do you think a GLP medication would help him? And I'm like, I'm reading this, and I'm like, and if she's listening, you know, it's cool that you reached out to me and everything, but I'm thinking, like, It's nine o'clock in the morning, lady, and I didn't go to medical school, like, I don't know, but, and my assumption now is that she's been listening to the podcast and heard a couple of people's stories about using glps and their insulin needs going significantly down, but I asked her that, and she hadn't heard those episodes. Oh, now, side note, Carly. That made me sad, because I would like it if you all listen to all the podcasts. But I got past that part pretty quickly, and I sent off an episode, and I said, Hey, listen. Here's an episode with this 15 year old girl who's using a GLP, and she's, like, barely using any insulin. Now, she had type one for like, three years. She's using a ton of insulin. Like, something's working for her. It's not gonna, you know, it's not curing her, obviously. And I'm assuming, at some point in her life, you know, this is gonna, you know, ratchet up. But this has been going on a while now, and everything. So she's like, I'll go listen to that. But Scott, what would you do if it was your kid? And so I'm like, Look, I'm not a listen. Also, I'm not a doctor. I don't give people medical advice. Like, I can't answer this question, but she had a lady here. She's you, she's craftsmen at straws, right? And I don't know if this ends up working for her kid or not, but obviously the lowest dose that's available in a pre mixed in a pre, like, measured pen, I'm assuming, would be insanely too much for a person that size, right? And I don't know the reasons why or why not. You wouldn't give it to a kid. Like, I don't know any of this, right? So I tell her all that. I'm like, I have no idea about any of this. I really don't know, but I. I would wonder too, if I was you, like, is there like, a micro dose of this medication that would help but and then I said to her, the the lamest thing you should ask your doctor. And when I said that, I thought she's gonna go ask a doctor who is gonna just have heard, like the side effects from GLP from two years ago on the internet and go, you can't give that to them. Give them liver disease and shut off their they're gonna, their guts are gonna twist up in a butt. Like, you know, I mean, like, so I ended up saying, why don't you send this episode to the doctor and let them listen to it, see if you can spark their imagination to go ask questions and find out. Because I don't know. Like, would the tiniest little bit of that stuff, like, do something for the kid? Would it hold off their diabetes? Like, would it, like, lessen the impact on, on the on the kids beta cells? Would it stretch things out? I don't know, but you know who definitely is not going to know her doctor, and so she was put in the ironic position of thinking to herself, it's possible a podcaster will have more up to date thoughts on this than my physician will. Now I'm not saying that's a good idea. I'm not saying you should be coming to me before your doctor. I genuinely am not saying that. I want to be very clear, but like it puts her in that position to wonder that, yeah, and if aI had access to everything that was happening in the world, and it could, it could consider those things, you know, like testing and, you know, stories and, you know, anecdotal and and whatnot, it might be able to come back and just say to her, like, hey, You know what? Don't do that, or I wonder what maybe the AI would come back and go, Hey, you do have to wonder what would happen if we just gave the kid, like, the teeniest little bit of this, like, I don't know, like, you know, but that's what I think you're waiting for, is you're waiting for something to aggregate information, be able to hold it, understand who you are, and regurgitate reasonable things to look into, yeah, yeah, no, for sure, yeah, because it ain't gonna happen. It's definitely not gonna happen in Canada. I mean, no, I try not to make a big deal out of it, because I feel like some people are like, Oh, see, he's like, He's agreeing that socialized medicine is a bad thing. But it takes way too long to go to a see a doctor in Canada. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It just like, when I was, yeah,
Carly 42:21 like, when I was in and I remember, like, when I got diagnosed, I'm just talking to a co worker, I was like, Well, yeah, like, I always had a very negative view of the US system. Like, well, you know, you could go bankrupt and, you know, whatever. Like, just, how is this not just part of, like, your everyone should have decent health care, right? And, yeah, I get diagnosed, and I have, you know, access to a nurse, and I immediately get an endocrinologist and stuff. And then I come down here and it's like, oh, like, both systems, again, have their issues, but if you have insurance here, like the level of care you're getting is exponentially better, you know, like, is so like, it's, yeah, like, neither system is perfect, but yeah, the Canadian system, like, having, just having access doesn't necessarily mean you're being taken care of,
Scott Benner 43:09 right? Yeah, right. Access to people three months later, and you know, we're longer I know, listen, I know other Canadians, and they come in with reasonable concerns, but, you know, the doctor's like, well, that's not going to kill you. We'll see in a year. And I'm not making that up. Like, I've had people tell me, I you know, I had low iron. Took them nearly a year to see a doctor, but, and it's low iron that needed, like, intervention, not like a vitamin, yeah? I mean, a year is a long time to live exhausted, yeah, when it's not necessary, because I had that happen to me, and I pressured a doctor, and four days later I had an iron infusion. Guess what? I felt better in two weeks like so somebody else has got to wait 12 months to your point. What exists here that doesn't exist there? It's the carrot at the end of the stick. It's money. So, yeah, you want to get paid. You get my ass in there and you fix my low iron problem. Yeah? You know, yeah, I don't know.
Carly 44:03 Like, I'll use my sister like she so my sister, over her lifetime, she's had, like, it's happened three or four times where she's just stood up and she's just passed out. And the last time it happened, she knocked her head, got a pretty bad concussion. And so they finally ran it, like, we'll run some tests and stuff. And so they're like, Well, we think you have epilepsy. So she goes and does the test. Like, it takes her three or four months to get the test, another three or four months to get the results. And like, it's inconclusive, so we need you to run another test. So it takes another three months, takes another three months to get the results. They're like, just over a year into this, and they're sitting there going, if you have epilepsy, we're gonna have to take you're gonna lose your driver's license, but because we don't know you know off you go do your live your normal life, but it was basically, like, it took them almost two years and maybe four or five appointments in total for her to be diagnosed as like, it's inconclusive. So we're just gonna leave. It. But all of
Scott Benner 45:01 that, anything was yeah, just even wear a helmet. I mean, like, is that? Like, yeah, yeah,
Carly 45:08 exactly. She first told me to epilepsy, looked up for ways to like or things to, you know, things to do, to take care of yourself. And one was like, maybe wear a helmet.
Scott Benner 45:17 Did somebody really say that? Send her a picture of what? Wait You said that you and I
Carly 45:24 would get along. Helmet for Christmas,
Scott Benner 45:26 yeah, you and I would get along. I see this, yeah, to me, though, the horrible part about the story isn't that they couldn't come up with an answer. Like, I accept that they can't always find an answer. It's the amount of time it took them to not come up with an answer. That's the part that kind of pisses me off. Like, how much time has to go by for you to go, oh, sorry. Like, you know how demoralizing that is, yeah, well,
Carly 45:49 just the fear of, you know, she's 45 years old. Like, yeah, when are we gonna be like, I've been driving for almost 30 years. Like, you're gonna take this away from me and like, what are the like, what does that do for my job and my kids and like, yeah, and stuff just overhang, like, hung over her for almost two years, and then to be like, ah, not sure. So we're just gonna leave it
Scott Benner 46:10 anyway. Good luck. Thanks for coming. Yeah, hey, get yourself a Tim bit on the way home. Yeah. God, that's a donut hole, right? Yeah, that's exactly what it is. You call it something fancy, but it's, it's the it's the middle of the track, like you've made something up, you know what? I mean, yeah, yeah. Have you ever tapped the tree and taken syrup right out of it? Yes or No,
Carly 46:34 I did. I was at a water poll tournament nationals in long time ago, and they were in Montreal, and so we went and did, uh, we did do that. So
Scott Benner 46:43 I know any stupid thing I ever say to people they've done so, yeah, I know
Carly 46:49 only once, though, only once. I only
Scott Benner 46:50 do that so that people who think that generalizing is bad go, maybe, maybe it's not like every dumb thing he says to people like, oh, that definitely happens. Go back to the Canadian episode where the girls, she's a can can dancer in the Yukon. It's awesome episode. Oh, and I say something to her about, like, working at the bar that I know people were like, Oh, stop reaching for. She goes, yep. And I'm like, Yeah, I win again. Anyway. What do you have here in your notes about diabetes versus cancer? What do you want to talk about revolving around that was interesting.
Carly 47:22 Papers reached out about that, like, because it was kind of like this. You know, if I could have one over the other, and cancer is looking like it's more chronic and not going away either. But if I can get rid of one, I would get rid of diabetes, because it's still still it's because it's all consuming, right? Like, Cancer sucks and but in the end, if you don't do a good job with either of them, the end result is going to be the same. You have a little bit more control, actually, probably a lot more control, over diabetes. But it's like, it's all consuming, right? Like, no, I probably don't go much more than 10 minutes where I don't, at least I'm like, What's my blood sugar? Like, haven't looked at my blood sugar. What's going on? Like, in every decision you make, right, like, Okay, I'm going to eat, but I'm going for a ride in a couple hours. Like, where it's, like with cancer and it again, like it my thoughts process is changing a little bit on this now that it is a little bit more chronic and not going away. But, you know, like, when I was first just doing, like, head surgery, surgery absolutely sucked. Post surgery sucked even more. But like, then I was just going in for immunotherapy once a month, right? So you kind of go in, you get the treatment, and then you would think about it for another month, right? Like, you kind of go about life a little bit, whereas Carly,
Scott Benner 48:33 I gotta tell you something, it isn't often that I get bummed out by things, but that I'm usually a very positive person. I don't want to bum you as the parent of a child with type one diabetes. She's just embarking on her young life. That really kicked me in the stomach. I have to tell you, thanks, Carly. I'm Yeah, yeah. Just here
Carly 48:53 to bring joy. I appreciate you
Scott Benner 48:56 being honest about it, and it's a very interesting perspective. Now, may I ask you if the cancer was going to take you three months from now, for sure, you'd say I'd rather get rid of the cancer. Yeah, yeah, for sure. Okay. I mean, I just didn't want people who can't hear nuance to yeah, get upset. That's all,
Carly 49:11 yeah, yeah, no, and like, and yeah. Again, it's kind of, you know, the fact that this is not going away as quickly, it becomes a little bit more sure of a bigger deal and a little bit more emotionally time consuming and stuff like that itself. So, you know, that perspective, you know, is, is evolving, yeah, probably say, but yeah, like, it's, they're, they're different mindsets. Have you
Scott Benner 49:33 had a big if I'm not here anymore conversation with your husband? Not really
Carly 49:38 like, I think so. I'm generally, um, relatively positive. I don't do a lot of research, you know, like, kind of, my doctor's like, oh yeah, we'll just have the surgery and you're just gonna do this treatment and whatever. And so I'm just kind of, I've gone about thinking I'm going to be fine, and not done much research. I guess still am reading a book and, like, there was one section on cancer, and I was like, Oh, this isn't doing. Well, for my my emotional health. And I did, um, I shared, like, one paragraph writer to my husband, and the next morning he woke up and he's like, You have to stop reading that book, because he didn't sleep the entire
Scott Benner 50:12 thing. He's like, listen, I read it and it's upsetting. Well, I mean, listen, I think that's like, I again, it's, I can't believe Texas. I mean, come on, you know what? I mean, it's a state. It's big, isn't it huge? It's the biggest city in Texas. I think it's bigger than a lot of countries like you would think, get a nice, rock solid internet connection. But neither here, yeah, I get the idea that the cancers, like do the thing move forward, right? Like we do the thing, we test later, we move forward. It's the only way to live with that. In my like opinion, my mom lived a, you know, a time, but a short time after her cancer was removed, and like she got to ring her bell and like it's gone, and then, you know, a year and a half later she was gone. But in that time, look at me trying to be upbeat about my mom dying. In that time, I did appreciate that we did the thing. The thing is over. We'll set up the next test. Until then, you'll live like it's not going to happen again. There was something good about that. Yeah, yeah. I don't understand how you could live otherwise, to be perfectly honest. No.
Carly 51:15 Well, you can't, like some people do, right? Like, I guess you know you you see it in the in the diabetes community, you see it in cancer community, right? Like, cancer came back and, like, I probably need to talk to someone. So kind of got a therapist, and, you know, first meeting, he type one diabetic and has been type one diabetic for like, 35 years. I'm like, okay, Kim and I, we're, we're each other's people. So kind of got along right from the beginning. But, like, both of us, we kind of talked about that. It's like, how I am not diabetic. I have type one diabetes, right? Like, and so it's kind of across everyone. Like, some people just internalize whatever's happening to them and make it part of their identity. And like, I'm not saying one way is right or wrong, right or wrong at all, but it's, you know, like, it's kind of how you guess, like, that's kind of part of me. And, yeah, like, you know, I guess saying like, diabetes is all consuming, but I still, like, I don't, my lifestyle hasn't changed, you know, like, I didn't, yeah, I haven't stopped drinking. I still eat carbs. Like, you're gonna live the way given that cookie, like, you know, like it's, yeah, like, my life is exactly the same as it was
Scott Benner 52:18 before. And how many visits with a therapist till you ask him if he's had sex with your husband.
Carly 52:26 That's a neckline. I think,
Scott Benner 52:29 listen, I don't think I can tell you any more of my secrets till I double check on this. Yeah. Rugby guy, big dude. You don't know him, do you? He's like the Johnny Appleseed to type one diabetes, your husband. He's gonna find this funny, right? Because he's big. And you, yeah, yeah, you can reach me through an interstate. So I'm not worried.
Carly 52:54 You can see the stuff that he sends me on Instagram, like the reels. He says, I don't want
Scott Benner 52:59 to open my front door. One die. And like, you know, like, this giant man sitting in front of me, I'm gonna go, Oh, you're gonna be Carly's husband. Yes, I'll just tell him that story about the can can dance or loosen him right off. He'll be fine. Yeah, yeah, Carly, is there anything we haven't talked about that you that you want to, that I haven't brought out of the conversation?
Carly 53:19 No, no. I think that's kind of Yeah. That covered it like, yeah, I guess just one kind of like that. Every system is a little different. And it's just, you know, I find kind of, when listening to someone from Canada talking about the system versus the states, that there's always kind of a bit of a, I don't know, cognitive difference. Is that the right term like that, I struggle with. And it's just, yeah, the system just, it's a little different and interesting, you know, managing both,
Scott Benner 53:46 yeah. So if someone comes on and starts saying, like, Oh, I'm in Canada, and everything went great, party used, like, It ain't like that everywhere. Sister, like, that kind of feeling like, just makes you feel like, that wasn't my experience, yeah,
Carly 53:57 yeah. And it just, and I think kind of people like in in Canada, we don't, like, until he was here, I didn't appreciate some of the, you know, the positives of the system down here, and some of the pro like, you know how some of it is a little bit more proactive and preventative versus, you know, yeah, like in Canada, like, unfortunately, like, it's part of the system, but, like, there's not a lot of preventative stuff. It's more like, just, how do we manage what's already happened? Yeah,
Scott Benner 54:22 I think that's pretty much everywhere, though. Like, yeah, if you're lucky enough to be working on preventative care, you're doing it yourself to some degree and or bringing in doctors who you're paying cash to here that are helping you with stuff like that. Like, if, you know, I don't know if they're, yeah, I don't know if most of them are, you know, even allowed to, like, listen to you. If you come in and say, Hey, like to preventative, I need you to help me manage some preventative mate, but that'd be interesting. Why don't you go into a general practitioner and say, I want to, I want to preventatively main, do something here. Can you help me watch the doctor go? Yeah, sure. But we can't bill your insurance. I. You know, so that sucks, really does, by the way, I love Canadian danger penis so much that I'm wondering, can I just, like, make it pee, like, you know, like ampersand, like NIS, or, would that, yeah, be okay, yeah, I don't know such a good title, or, what if? What if I called it Canadian danger and then a different P word, like a more acceptable one. Then the first thing I said when the episode came on was like, Look, guys, this episode is really called Canadian danger penis. But I couldn't put that, yeah, I couldn't put that in the title. I'll probably just reflect
Carly 55:36 that. That'd be another like, of course, in the moment I'm blanking on any other term for the Oh, for the penis, for a penis, but like, Is there, like some other, like Carly, I know, for
Scott Benner 55:47 fun, why don't you name all the words you know for penis right now? Yeah, the guy can bleep him out. What comes to mind? Go ahead. Well,
Carly 55:59 you said, imagine it like magic wand, like the shrimp boat. I'm now, I'm going to, was that Grumpy Old Men? At the end of Grumpy Old Men to be able
Scott Benner 56:08 men. How old were you? What the hell
Carly 56:10 was the same, like John Lennon and Walter les gal and stuff like,
Scott Benner 56:15 you got that. So, right? Walter Matthau, did you say? Is that right? Is that right? Is that the Walter, Matthau and Jack Lemmon, I believe you said John Lennon. Did you say John Lennon?
Carly 56:32 Wrong. One. Wrong.
Scott Benner 56:34 That was awesome. I did some use my Google fingers. Member, phallus. Phallus could work. Canadian danger phallus, oh yeah, that's what we're gonna do. Also, manhood, organ, shaft, tool, genitalia, private part, masculinity, Rod, package, pecker Johnson, Willie and junk. That's what came up for me. All right, that sounds pretty standard, yeah, none of the dirty ones came up.
Carly 56:59 No, no, yeah. But see, there you go,
Scott Benner 57:02 Canadian, let's go phallus, because the P is there, and then, yeah, because in private part would be weird. Yeah, I'll do phallus in the title, and then everybody will come in and I'll let them know I just had to do that for the title. And then we'll move on. Yeah, there we go. I love it. You've brought a lot to this podcast. When I look back over this thing when I'm done, I'm gonna remember this moment. I wonder how long I'll do this for. How long have you been listening?
Carly 57:26 So I started during COVID, like, I was kind of like, I needed to get out of the house, you know, work from home. And so I wasn't big into podcasts at all. I don't listen to podcasts at all at that time, like, oh, maybe this will be a good place to to learn about diabetes. And so it just kind of Googled diabetes podcasts and landed on yours
Scott Benner 57:44 and just started listening and have been stopped. 2019, 2020, 2020, Oh, awesome. Thank you. So I think I can Kelly, summer 20, Summer, summer. 2020. Summer. Okay. I think I could keep this going. I think I could do it another 10 years. Like, for me personally, like, I could, like, once I get into my 60s, like, I'm gonna be like, Listen, I'm just whatever money I've been able to scrape up, I'm, I'm gonna off with it now and be done. But I think I could do this for a decade. I think I could make it interesting for a decade. So that's my goal. Is 10 more years, 20 years total. Like, at the end, at my funeral. What's that well, and then the end, like, where
Carly 58:23 it's, like, it's part of, it's just creating a community, right? And people sharing stories about, you know, their own experiences that we're all experiencing. So it really is,
Scott Benner 58:31 Listen, I'm very proud of the whole thing, like, how I see it helping people every day, and it's a great outlet for my stupidity. So that's awesome. And, you know, like, people come on and tell stories that you just don't hear anymore. Like, listen. I don't know what we talked about today, but at one point you said, I think I'd rather keep cancer than diabetes, and I think that's a thing worth hearing and considering if you're out there listening, you know what I mean? Like, I do agree that you have to live like it's not their diabetes, that you have to minimize it as much as you can, you know, all that stuff, and try not to let it over take your life. But the truth of the matter is, is that, you know, when Carly came on and said, If you could give one of these away, she said, What? She said, You know, so you got to keep that in mind while you're living with it or parenting with it, or whatever. Yeah, all right, well, this was somehow a bummer and fun at the same time. I'm so sad about your just go
Carly 59:25 back. Just go back to the penises. And yeah, we'll make it end on a high note. On a high note,
Scott Benner 59:34 you just broke up. But I was so sure you're gonna say strategic and, oh, you just, you just broke up, Carly, I was so positive you're gonna say on a high note or on a hard note, but I wasn't sure where you were going with that. Is that where you're Oh, you and I would get along really well. You and I would get along very well. Wouldn't we look at us, you'd be like, Oh, he's about to say something stupid. I know. Yeah, I know he's about to say something stupid because I'm already thinking of stupid now. There you are breaking up like it is so infuriating. All right, I don't know what's wrong with Texas, but I hope they fix it. You were just gone. Hello,
Carly 1:00:11 Carly, hello, I'm here. Yeah, breaking up.
Scott Benner 1:00:15 I don't know what's wrong with Texas dog. Houston, we have a problem technology. Am I wrong? Yes, Justin,
Carly 1:00:21 we really do have a problem. Also, I can definitely call you not wrong.
Scott Benner 1:00:27 Carly, I'm gonna let you go so that I don't bang my head on this desk while people are listening. Okay,
Carly 1:00:32 yeah, no, that's great. Hold on one second. I'd
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