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The Juicebox Podcast is from the writer of the popular diabetes parenting blog Arden's Day and the award winning parenting memoir, 'Life Is Short, Laundry Is Eternal: Confessions of a Stay-At-Home Dad'. Hosted by Scott Benner, the show features intimate conversations of living and parenting with type I diabetes.

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#685 Ask Scott And Jenny: Chapter Fifteen

Scott Benner

Scott and Jenny Smith, CDE answer your diabetes questions.

  • Where does Jenny put her pods?

  • At what age do teenage years and having fluctuating blood sugars due to hormones get better?

  • How do you handle Dexcom sensor issues? How many times would you calibrate before giving up on a sensor?

  • Tips for breastfeeding a type 1 baby or toddler.

  • How can I reduce post meal spikes? Tips on MDI and pre bolusing.

  • How do you deal with fat and protein using Loop?

  • How do you help a college student who forgets to bolus before he eats at least once a day?

  • Let’s talk about nutrition labels, the impact of dietary fiber and the difference between soluble added fiber versus unprocessed fiber.

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Scott Benner 0:00
Hello friends, and welcome to episode 685 of the Juicebox Podcast

we're gonna do something today that we haven't done in a little bit. It's an ask Scott and Jenny episode. This episode is full of questions from you the listeners that Jenny and I sat around and mused about. Please remember, while you're listening that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan, or becoming bold with insulin. The T one D exchange is looking for US residents who are caregivers of someone with type one, or have type one diabetes themselves to fill out a short survey. It's AT T one D exchange.org. Forward slash juicebox. Your simple answers to simple questions will go a long way towards helping people living with type one diabetes, T one D exchange.org. Forward slash juicebox. I just looked and we haven't done an ask Scott and Jenny since 2020. But this one will be the 15th installment. I hope you enjoy it.

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Jennifer Smith, CDE 2:18
really wasn't what we talked about before we

Scott Benner 2:20
really get talking people are like what's happening? Well, they don't, you know, so we just chatted before we started recording. And I think that's important for people to kind of relax and get into a flow, which I think if you look at the episodes where I'm interviewing people, it's why the first 10 minutes are sort of like the way they are just trying to get calm and relaxed. And I know there's a world where you can edit all that out. But I think it's interesting to learn about people that way. So anyway, when I think

Jennifer Smith, CDE 2:47
when you're talking to somebody for the first time, honestly, right, you might have emailed with them or whatever to kind of get things set up. But you've probably never really talked to them before. And it's you have this sort of get to know somebody, you can't just really just start talking about a topic.

Scott Benner 3:05
The top I do not talk to people before I interview them, they fill out this very short form. It says What's your connection to type one? Have you been on another podcast in the last six months? What would you like to talk about? I understand that this is for entertainment purposes only. That's it and then they jump on and I meet them right in that moment. And we start talking so I love it like that. I wouldn't. I mean, I've interviewed people that I've known about, I interviewed Robin ORS on the other day, and the peloton, girl that has type one. And yeah, I mean, everybody loves her. I 100% That's what I tried to tell her. She didn't seem to know. But I, I had notes and you know, she had notes about me. And we had we had in I'd interviewed her for print years before she of course, with no reason to didn't remember me, but her people filled her in about it. And like I don't know, like I would have much rather us just felt like we were like grabbing a drink together, you know? So anyway, it still was a really nice conversation. But Alright, so here's what I did, Jennifer. Last night, I was up editing the show rather late. And about two o'clock in the morning as I was going to bed. I thought I don't want to do a defining diabetes tomorrow and Jenny calls. Oh, so I never know what we're going to talk to Scott brings to the table today. Let's see, I don't treat you much different than anybody else. So. So I put this little post in the Facebook group. And I'll tell you, it just shows how things have grown because you and I've done this before where I'll say Hey, Jenny, I got questions from people. We have eight 510 questions. So I put up a post eight hours ago in the middle of the night. That said, I'm thinking about recording and ask Scott and Jenny episode tomorrow, but it all depends on if there's questions here when I wake up in the morning. There are 100

Jennifer Smith, CDE 4:52
That's like putting something out into the universe, like expecting nothing to ever come back.

Scott Benner 4:57
I'm like, oh, we'll see what happens. Right? It's overnight. But anyway, there are 116 questions in this. It's I don't think we're gonna get to all of them. But now we have something to do for the next couple of times that we talked for sure. Because there's great question. So you want to just kick back and do this together? All right? Do you ever sleep? That's for me? I'll answer that later. Is a simple question. Someone said they'd like to know where you put your pods?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 5:23
Me personally, yeah. Oh, I get asked that an awful lot. So that's actually easy. My, I guess I don't really have favored locations, although they're the locations that I've rotate through, I'd say favored in terms of like one versus another that is better in terms of absorption, because I know some people do notice that. I use the backs and kind of the sides of my arms, and never use the tops of my arms or like the bicep area. I note that people do, I don't I use the front of my abdomen, either above or below my beltline. I use my lower back. Those are my go to places. I do not have luck on my legs. I don't love it on my upper but they just, it's almost like I'm not taking enough insulin there. It's an absorption thing. And I just prefer to not go to those places. So

Scott Benner 6:29
yeah, it's that's a lot of moving around, which makes me think what I wanted to say was Jenny takes her own advice. Like that's, you know, you know how some people give advice, but don't live it. You know, I rotate. Yeah, you really are rotating your sides. I don't know if you're doing it because you think it's right, or because you tell people to rotate. You don't want to be a hypocrite.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 6:49
I think it's probably both I and I've said before, I think it's really important to be a good example. And if you're not going to do the majority of what you're telling people to do, then why are you talking about right?

Scott Benner 7:03
No one asked, but Arden wears hers either side of her belly button, kind of in line with her belly button off to the side a little bit. She prefers the cannula face towards the belly button. But we will also turn it 180 degrees to face away. She uses her thighs, tops not so much more to the outside, she used to she overused the tops of her thighs. So she moved it sort of to the the the outside of the outer part of her legs. And I recently in the last year finally had luck getting her to put it back on her arms. So we now have the way I think of it as the legs are kind of there are a ton of spots because one spot on your thigh an inch over an inch higher an inch lower like becomes a lot of different spots, but her thighs, her abdomen and our her sides of her upper arms. She doesn't like it on the back. Okay, so I think it wiggles too much back there for

Jennifer Smith, CDE 8:02
like she's my I actually have a good friend years ago when I started wearing Omnipod. And it was probably a couple years after that, that I met somebody through like the diabetes community, who I've gotten to be good friends with now but she out of like swimsuit material, she actually made bands that I can put over almost as like a three inch sleeve kind of like a free arm, like a headband for my arm and like I've got my pump my pad on my arm now. And when I run longer, like longer than a 30 minute run, I will typically use one of those because kind of like Arden it it does it wiggles I mean, not enough that it's irritating in terms of the actual site. But just it's something you pay attention to. And it's like change jingling in your pocket, right? Just can't stand it after some time. So

Scott Benner 9:03
for Arden this goes all the way back to when she was young and she played softball, and she couldn't put it on her right arm because when she threw the pod would really kind of like torque around. And sure after that it was just, you know, the I think the funniest thing that happens with people, kids, maybe adults as well is they get rules in their head, like so after a while. She just thought, Oh, it doesn't go on my arms because we don't put it on my arms. And there was a reason that we stopped doing that. And then I had to show her one day I was like you're not throwing a softball anymore. So please,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 9:30
let's try the arm again. Yeah, I will say though, from a site rotation, those sites that I don't use for my pods or infusion from any pump, honestly, not just my pods, or when I when I've used a tube pump to but my upper thigh and my my upper but also they work really well for my sensors. So it's not that those sites don't get used. It's just that they don't use them for insulin. Okay, and Artem

Scott Benner 9:57
Arden puts her CGM on her hips, kind of on the side. So I was gonna say longitudinally and let but I don't, I'm not sure which is which anyway, sort of like, the top of her butt crack and you kind of draw a line around to the her sides and there's sort of like a flat spot in her sides and you can put it there. She just goes left, right, left, right. She's been doing it for years like that. So yeah. Okay. All right, next question. Thank you for that question. Blue. Next question is from Christine. And she said At what age do teenage years and and having fluctuating blood sugars due to hormones get better.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 10:38
So, this isn't like hormones relative to either male versus female. It sounds like it's just in general. I can say though, from female hormone standpoint, is that the cat is the cat that would like to be let out of my office. I'm gonna let the cat or the cat doesn't keep banging on the door

Scott Benner 11:13
you know what arrived at my house just the other day, the Omni pod five. It came to us directly from us men. Here's what I did. I contacted on the pod and I said I would like to get on the pod five. I did it just the same way you guys are gonna do it didn't get any special treatment. On the pod contacted us Med and said I have a customer here that would like to get there on the pod five supplies from you. Okay, not so tough. I think on the pod then contacted my doctor had a script sent and Bada bing bada boom, a box showed up at my house with the Omni pod five starter kit. And we're already set up for future deliveries of the pods that will need to continue with Omni pod five. It was in fact exactly that easy. They can do that for you as well. Maybe you're looking for libre to wear the Dexcom G six. How about the Omni pod dash? US med has it and so much more. At this point, you're thinking Scott, I'm in how do I try it? Well, you're in luck. You can either use the internet us med.com forward slash juice box to get your free benefits check. Or you can use this phone number that US Matt has provided just for Juicebox Podcast listeners. It is 888-721-1514 us met accepts Medicare nationwide and over 800 private insurers they always provide 90 days worth of supplies and they have fast and free shipping. I will now make a seamless transition to the in pen from Medtronic diabetes, are you using an insulin pen but wish it did more? The M pen is probably what you're looking for. Because the M pen is a reusable smart insulin pen that uses Bluetooth technology to send dose information to a mobile app. This offers us support with those calculations and tracking in pen helps take some of the mental math out of your diabetes management. You can get started with in pen today at See what I did there what you don't know yet, but you'll see the second you can get started within pen today at in pen today.com. Take the guesswork out of your dosing. Your in pen app will show you your current glucose levels, your dosing calculator, active insulin remaining meal history, dose history, glucose history, and an activity log. And other reports. The pen itself, it's just what you expect. It's a pen with a cap, an insulin needle, a dosing knob, a dosing window, and a button to do your injections with the implant is also surprisingly affordable. I hope you check it out in Penn today.com. All you have to do head over there right now. There are links in the show notes of the podcast player you're listening in right now to in Penn us Med and all of the sponsors. You can also find them at juicebox podcast.com. When you click on the links, you're supporting the show us med.com forward slash juicebox in pen today.com I'm now going to get you back to Jenny who by the way works at integrated diabetes.com If you'd like to hire her

Jennifer Smith, CDE 14:39
That's too funny. I totally thought that she was out of my office.

Scott Benner 14:42
I heard that noise and I thought hopefully that's Jenny's cat where she's she's abducted a neighborhood child and they're locked in the basement.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 14:51
Oh no, no, no. She thinks on my closet doors not the actual door to get out. She Bangs on the closet doors when she wants I don't know if she's

Scott Benner 14:58
good sound. Me Pay attention anyway. Sorry. So no, I

Jennifer Smith, CDE 15:02
was, I can't remember my thought. Now I was on a pattern. Say

Scott Benner 15:07
you started talking about when I guess we're not talking about hormones for gender specific. Right?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 15:13
Right, right. So hormones from a female hormone perspective, with monthly cycles, I've found that it's when the cycles tend to get a lot more regular, that things tend to get more stable girl or females also tend to stop growing sooner than men do. So from that perspective, when a growth phase for girls like they're no longer getting taller, you can tell visit after visit at the doctor, they're just not growing in height any longer, they might have a very regular cycle, that's when things do tend to even out more, there's not as much of that flux. If the cycle isn't very regular, then it could very well be that you've got a lot more ups and downs still, because those hormones are still so much on a rise and fall. That's not sort of a pattern, right? Guys tend to grow longer than girls do. In terms of the male hormone effect, and growth patterns, so you could have fluctuations, you know, through and up to about the age of 18, sometimes beyond, obviously, but again, some of it also has to do with have they finished growing? Are they more into a pattern of life, all of those kinds of things, because I think a lot of the variability in those teen years is just life as well. I mean, most teens don't have a very rigid schedule outside of a school schedule where you know, the typical pattern other than that sports come in, in the afternoon, extracurricular activities, weekends are completely different. You might have sleeping in compared to getting up early I there's just a lot of stuff in the teen years that I think causes a lot of fluctuation. That because we talk so much about growth, a lot of people think it's just growth. And some of it may just be the variables of

Scott Benner 17:20
the unexpected left turns, you take in the middle of an afternoon, like I'm gonna go run, jump on the trampoline now. Or, you know, my friends came over and we're gonna go play baseball in the backyard. When you're 37. You don't randomly get up at 330 in the afternoon. And go not usually, no, no, if you have kids. If you are, you're an Instagram influencer, and you're living an amazing life, because I just sit here and make this podcast and Jenny sits where she's sitting talking to people about their diabetes. So yes. So let's see. Next question is from Denise, I would love to hear about how you handle times when there are Dexcom sensor issues. How many times would you calibrate before giving up on a sensor? Do you calibrate? And if so, when Jenny and I did an entire episode about calibration, which you should definitely check out? But good. Um, to answer the question. Arden doesn't have a lot of problems with Dexcom it jives with her body chemistry pretty well. I would say that with GE six. It's interesting. I don't know this for certain, but they must make improvements to that device as they go. Like with the algorithm they must. I don't know they must. Because it's never the same. The products always better at the end of its product life. Like as they're getting ready to launch the new one than it is at the beginning. I feel like you sent it to you ever see that? Like it? Maybe I just get better at using it over time? Is that pi d? Right? That could be Yeah. Because I'll tell you like, Arden puts a sensor on. I wish we planned better, but we don't it usually happens like this. someone hears the noise that which is like the out of you know, there's no, there's been no data. And then everybody's head drops and goes oh, how long has it been since we put on a sensor you started thinking and when you can't remember you like this must be it. And you know, like, as an example, we put a new sensor otter at 130 in the morning, Friday, I would have been nice to do it. Put it on came on was pretty accurate, was happy with it. I have had them come on and be wildly off, you know, 8090 100 points sometimes. When that happens. I do what I talked about on the calibration episode is I just kind of I slow calibrate it back to where it needs to be if it's if her blood sugar's really 100 and the things that she's 200 I tell it, she's 170 and then it agrees with that you let it go a little longer that I tell it she's 150 and I calibrated. I kind of move it on my own. I don't know if that's right or not, but it works and we have a lot of success. As far as sensors just going bad. I hate to say this Arden's last ride out 10 days. I mean, constantly, you know, yeah, so

Jennifer Smith, CDE 20:07
I know I, and that's where I really do think that there's more about body chemistry, then there's any information about I think people get the sense that a sensor just doesn't work very well. And they may come from a previous brand to another brand and say, well, it's better, certainly better. But it's still not quite perfect. You know, I also, thankfully don't have a lot of sensor issues, at least not, not recently, the previous two g, six g, five G four in the seven series, I didn't really have much issues with those at all. In fact, my G fives, I could restart for three, three weeks and get like 21 days out of a sensor, and then it was like falling off. So I finally had to change it, right. But the G six, initially, I would almost like clockwork, eight days, I would get the three hour sensor error warning, it would start back up and get it again, I would call that I was calling Dexcom. almost weekly, because it literally was dying on day eight. And, and I don't know what shifted kind of goes along with, maybe they've changed something algorithm or the the sensor coating on the outside of that filament, I don't know. But I've not had that problem. And I can't say that my body chemistry is just decided to do like, you know, a 180 and sort of be completely different. And now it just works better. For me, I don't know, I'm mostly now get 10 days, I typically if I'm going to have a bad sensor, it's usually only bad for about eight to 12 hours after starting it up. And my trend is that it's not high, inaccurate, it's low inaccurate. If my sensors are going to be off, they're going to be off and they're going to tell me that my blood sugar's like 42. Consistently, even though it's in the 80s 90s, low 100. It'll just keep telling me I'm low. And I avoid calibrating at that point, right? Because I've had enough issue with trying to do it in that first kind of startup time that, then I've had sensor fail. So I just I leave it alone, I just opened my algorithm. And don't let my pump adjust off of those funny values. And just go ahead.

Scott Benner 22:34
So it's funny when you're you, you said something that really made me think when Ardennes is off for an extended amount of time. It's lower, when it's high off, I can bang it back down again. And it works. When it's low off. She's 5355 56. It just thinks that's what she is. You text her she's 85 Doesn't matter what she is, right? It does just sort of come online. And just it's kind of magical. And then works great after that, if you're using an algorithm like Arden is and like Jenny was just saying that I just made for this, I opened the loop. And we test. We test like every 90 minutes or so. And then through the health app on the iPhone, just enter it you enter her blood sugar on the health app, and the loop app pulls the number from there, and it's usually enough to get by until it straightens out. That is that concern from people who are new. Or even sometimes I see older people, the idea of I can never go on an algorithm because what if the sensor is wrong? It's gonna kill me. You know? Like, it just doesn't go that way.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 23:42
Yeah, unless there comes to be a system that doesn't allow you to go back to manual use mode. Quite honestly, you came from manual pumping or manual engine. I mean, you have something to go back to. If you know enough that something is inaccurate. Don't use it while it's inaccurate. Right? Do what you know how to do. Even if it means you have to go back to a little bit more old school. Don't use a system that's gonna adjust off of a blood sugar that's 42 When you're not sitting at 42 I

Scott Benner 24:16
think sometimes that people get stubborn. Meaning they have this feeling like this thing that I paid for supposed to do this and it's not doing it so I'm gonna be mad at it. You're like, cool. Yeah, of course, absolutely. I see it. I'm just like, open the loop and test every once in a while this thing will work in a little bit. We'll be fine. It sucks. If it happens overnight, because it's telling you you're low, you're low and you'd like you're not but even that's a mindset thing. I have to say. When Arden was really young, I met this person in the community who had an older child already. And they would tell me, you know, it's great that you guys have the CGM and I think they're amazing, but you know, my daughter never had one. And there she is. Isn't she's fine? And what that made me think was, Oh, okay. Like, it's alright if once in a while, Arden goes to sleep and her blood sugar's 135. And it climbs to 150 overnight, and I fix it at four in the morning or when we wake up or something like that, like, that's not the end of her life. If that happens, you know, but yeah, don't like it back then. When she was

Jennifer Smith, CDE 25:23
young, because you were used to having so much information to utilize to keep her where you really know, is a safe value long term to be sitting. Right. Yeah, but I mean, I, you know, and that's a point that I bring up with people all the time, too. I mean, I had, I had nothing fancy in technology growing up, right. Heck, I made it through college without anything fancy.

Scott Benner 25:47
But you're still paying attention to your health, right? Oh, of course. I

Jennifer Smith, CDE 25:50
mean, I use probably more more test strips in my life prior to a CGM, then yeah, probably was necessary. But I was a little bit OCD. Must Know What My blood sugar.

Scott Benner 26:06
Let's get to. Let's see, the next question just says it's not really formed as a question, but that's okay. It says breastfeeding a type one baby or toddler. So is that do you Bolus?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 26:20
I guess that's, that's a hard one. So talking about not the mother has type one, but the baby or the toddler actually has type one. Yeah, it's a it's a difficult scenario, honestly. Because unless you have a very rigid schedule of nursing, or even formula feeding, I mean, this kind of goes along. Because that age, that's a child's mean nutrition intake, it's either breast milk or formula, right. So unless you really have an idea of how much the child is eating, there's not really a way to carb count that per se. If you have a little bit more regularity, a lot of people tend to sort of coat with a Basal insulin. Knowing that nursing, especially an infant, typically is going to be nursing every three ish hours, until they get a little bit further out into post newborn stage, right. So sometimes there is a coding with a basil knowing that you have a regularity, to nursing or formula feeding. If you have a known amount more like formula, and you can gauge how many ounces the child is going to take at a time. You could base that on a dosing strategy then with rapid acting insulin. The big thing with that is we would usually, as much as we talk about Pre-Bolus ng for something like that. You just you don't Pre-Bolus There's no way to know how much a child who usually drinks, you know, three ounces at a feeding time. Today, for whatever reason, they're fussy, and they're only taking one ounce, but you can't Bolus or do anything for that until you know

Scott Benner 28:08
we're talking them into it if they need more. Right. And there is no more food. What are you gonna do with gummy bear? Yeah, right. Yeah, well, yeah,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 28:15
I mean, it's not really until that child is and I've worked with a couple of people, you know, more recently, who have littles who have either just weaned off of nursing, in that case, their Basal needs actually have gone down. Because what we were doing were We were coding the overall nursed milk intake with basil knowing that it was very regular night and day. And until they were weaned, and we had a little bit more in terms of a breakfast, a snack or lunch or snack and how to kind of coax that with bolused Insulin it and I know it's a difficult time. So

Scott Benner 28:53
it sounds like to me that you adapted that. So there's that. There's that old timey endo idea for people who they think don't Bolus for their meals, right? They jack them up on basil. And then they know they're going to eat. So they're feeding the insulin, they're not really feeding the insulin, they're feeding the drop before the drop happens because they're eating on a schedule. So you keep the baby's Basal at a spot where it's impactful of those every three hour feeding schedules. Correct, right. Yeah. And are you shooting for? What blood sugar are you shooting for?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 29:25
Yeah, it's a good question. I mean, most doctors are happy as long as they're not dropping usually below like 120. Honestly, most most parents find that littles like that will often drop very rapidly. If they get under about one to 101 20 ish. It's a very rapid drop and depending on then what they're able to tolerate in food intake, where they are in their intake of, you know, this kind of food versus that. It becomes really important to know how much does it take to turn that around and Um, yeah, it's a, it's a hard thing a corrections. Correction insulin often is very, very, very tiny. In fact, we often end up dealing with diluting insulin, so that you can actually get a larger dose because again, pens and pens and even syringes, the littlest that you can dose is about a half a unit. I mean, if you're really good on a syringe, you might be able to get, you know, a quarter unit kind of in there. But it's a little bit easier to see volume doses, if you dilute the insulin in a larger volume, you get the same dose. You know,

Scott Benner 30:40
I, there's two things that makes me think of the One is I, at some point, when Arden was super small, I took insulin, and I put it in a dish, and I colored it with food coloring, so I could see it. And then I practiced pulling on the syringe enough to get a drop in. So I could ah, and so it wasn't by eye anymore. It was like feel. So I taught myself how to just pull on it enough to get a drop of insulin out of it. And then I would I would try to correct her with a drop of insulin. That was not fun. I don't know. I don't remember any of that fondly. Yeah, okay, that's a that's good information. And I'm assuming if you can afford it, or have insurance, a CGM with a baby is probably going to be like the best thing you could do, right?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 31:23
A CGM above. I mean, above even a pump. A CGM is by far the best technology that you could possibly get. And even at that age pumps are not necessarily the greatest thing for some kiddos. either. It's a wearability issue, or it's a pull it and target and pick at it. And it's not worthwhile putting it on when it gets picked off by the end of the day anyway. And there's only so much hiding that you can do with a child's gonna

Scott Benner 31:55
find it. Yeah, yeah. All right. Well, that that makes sense. Thank you. Let's see, what does Monica say here? Oh, Monica is going to ask a question. And I'm going to answer by saying, You should listen to the Pro Tip series. But we'll go How can I reduce post meal spikes, my six year old is on an MDI. Hold on a second. This is it. I can't some water, water, a frequent tea I'm drinking alone. My six years, my six year old is on MDI, we always make sure to Pre-Bolus before food, she dips into hypo, but we almost always still spiked over 180. I listen to the podcast, I believe the Basal levels are good. Anything else we can improve or work on to reduce spikes? Also, this is not a question. But I want to say thank you to you and Jenny for all that you do. So that's very nice. Thank you very much.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 32:47
Yes. All right. Yes, you're welcome. Absolutely.

Scott Benner 32:49
So she's Pre-Bolus thing on MDI, dipping down dropping up. Pre-Bolus is too long,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 32:57
I would say either Pre-Bolus is too long. Or to get rid of a potential spike, you could Pre-Bolus the length of time on MDI, you could always do a split Bolus plan, especially if this is for a child that you don't necessarily know if they're actually going to finish everything, right. So you can Pre-Bolus the amount that they that you know that they'll definitely finish up eating. And then you know, by the end of the meal Bolus, the rest of it so you don't you kind of take care of getting rid of that ultimate dip that you end up having to treat. And there in may also be if you're treating a low, and then having a rise later, the rise actually might be going up higher, because you're having to treat the dip first, along with the food being there, right. So it's kind of a double whammy of, well, I have to take care of the lowest something quick because the food isn't obviously all hitting yet. But then the food does catch up. So it could be a double Bolus strategy still with Pre-Bolus or first thing may just be to decrease the Pre-Bolus time. Yeah,

Scott Benner 34:00
I mean, I would either. I mean that's how it occurs to me like just from this small description. Shorter Pre-Bolus Maybe maybe even shorter. Pre-Bolus a little heavier on the carb ratio maybe depending on what happens you know what you see next? Or split it I put some in gets a treat it like a baby, right? Like, baby it's funny, I think of babies and or young people and gastroparesis is the same thing. Put it in enough to get the insulin on your side. And if it starts happening the way you expect them putting the rest. That way you kind of stay out of a spike. Okay. Helen asks, How do you and Jenny deal with fat and protein using the loop? I'll tell you what, as I said it out loud. I thought to myself, does Jenny eat fat by the way now, just now for my description. People believe that you 86 pounds and you're just one muscle wrapped around a bone but no, no I just mean, you're a healthier eater, but you think have french fries? Sometimes I imagine. Oh, of course. Okay. Yeah. Sometimes, sometimes,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 35:09
not often,

Scott Benner 35:11
at the fair, Jenny, is that when you do it, maybe?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 35:18
Yeah, I mean fat and protein. And, again, I think this is where an individual nature of evaluation first needs to be done. How does it seem to impact you or your child or whoever you're caretaking for? Right? There are some sort of starting rules of when to start adding in extras for fats and proteins. And how much of each you should add in, in general, in a looping situation, since that's what the question is really asking about. Forward stamp damping, a fat or protein amount into the future, from the actual meal time. So let's say you have, you know, a whole pizza for dinner like many of my college students may definitely, right, there is a large amount of fat there, there may even be a very large amount of protein depending on what was on that pizza as an example. bolusing for the carbs right now is an important thing that has to get going. The absorption time is also really important here. So you're not going to put in one or two hours for pizza. Because despite the crust being a lot of carb, you're going to have a lengthy digestion of that, because of the slowing factor of fats and proteins right. Now fat and protein then can start to hit later in the aftermath. So one to three hours after a meal protein starts this climb, if you've eaten enough of it, somewhere between two to four hours after a meal is where fat climb typically starts to hit. So determining first how much you might need to cover, most often protein somewhere between 30 to 50% of the total amount of protein might need to be put in as if it were a carb entry, right. And then determine where into the future to timestamp. Let's see it's you know, 5pm, and you're having your pizza, expect protein to probably start hitting somewhere around, let's say seven o'clock, two hours later, give or take, whereas fat, large amount probably is going to take about three to four hours to kind of come into play. So again, how much fat 1020 30% of the fat to maybe get going again, grams of fat are important grams of protein. So this becomes less carb centric counting and more overall macro neural, knowing how much is in the actual portion that you're eating, which most people have never been taught, we are taught how to look at grams of carbs. So it's something new to learn about if you're planning to start using this strategy, but time stamping it into the future. So then loop has an idea in terms of the system loop will see that you stamped this coming forward into the hours ahead. And especially if you save without bolusing then loop will see missing insulin for the carbs that you've already entered. That it's it's watching for because remember, it's predictive glucose line is going out hours into the future beyond this point. Yeah, so it's looking for the impact of that. And if you can give it information about what may be coming into the picture to hit you

Scott Benner 38:50
should aggressively Bolus. It could either aggressively

Jennifer Smith, CDE 38:53
Bolus if you're using auto Bolus or aggressively increase basil if you're using it the basil branch right?

Scott Benner 38:59
I so I know what you do. So there's two ways that you can set up I have in the past set up exactly the way you think way that you just said that the other way, I just sort of think of it as this, that they're just different impacts. So there's an impact from the carbs, there's an impact from the protein, and there's an impact from the fat. They're basically just three different Pre-Bolus and opportunities in my mind. So you Pre-Bolus The meal around 80 minutes later I know the first rise is going to come then you Pre-Bolus That rise and then it's a waiting game. I either do it so well that I see this like 85 blood sugar and I'm like I done it I won this is over like others enough insulin there and the fats hitting at the same time and it's having this fight and we're winning. Or I start seeing the drift up. And then I I'll reevaluate and Bolus for the fat impact as well and add more Yeah, and I'm in my mind I'm thinking of this one specific difficult foods situation. It's this barf Whew that Arden has a number of times a year, she's basically getting a bowl of nachos with cheese steak on top of it. And like guacamole and sour cream, right? Everything it's hard to Bolus for all put together. And then there's french fries. So, you know, so it's fat from the fries. And then it's the french fries are processed. And you know, they're not like, it's not like we cut up a russet potato at home, baked it. Yeah, some frozen thing that shows up in a bag in a bar. You know. That's the I'll tell you what if you can Bolus for that. I'll give away a little bit of where the country I'm in if you can eat. If you can Bolus for cheese steak nachos and crab fries at Chickies. I think you're a ninja, because it's hard to do. But that to me, that's it, I just think of it as impacts. It doesn't matter to me that it's fat or that it's protein. It's a it's a known quantity that is going to happen. I know it's going to happen. I just Pre-Bolus it. Right. So

Jennifer Smith, CDE 40:55
and how much how do you know how much is a try? Right? Because that's that's really the behind the scenes question here. As I said, we're really carb centric. With diabetes and education. We don't talk about fats and proteins, I would say that the majority of people that I talked to, don't even know what a portion of protein is supposed to look like. Some people don't even know outside of butter, don't realize where fat is in the food that they're eating. So then taking the step further to say, well, how to how to add quantity, like what am i How much of this isn't my my eating? How many grams, now you're telling me I have to go back to school to learn again, right?

Scott Benner 41:35
I develop those ideas after you and I, you know, talk through, I have a list in front of me here, actually. And at the end of this episode. If I don't die. At the end of this episode, I'm gonna list other episodes that I think will help people with these questions. Awesome. But here, I'm going to tell you that you and I did a pro tip back at 263 fat and protein, then we defined it again at 360. I had a really great conversation. And in Episode 264, with the person who Bolus is for their keto diet that actually helped. That helped me a lot with the protein. And then in 471, we had a long conversation about the Warsaw method. And about bolusing for fat. It's all of these. Like, I take this question, and I know that how important this is right? And I want to talk about it. But to the person that asked this specific question, Helen, I'm good at this, because I've had 1000 conversations with people about it. And I tried it over and over again. Like it's not because someone walked up to me and said, Hey, fat impacts and protein impacts, you got a Bolus for like, I wouldn't know what to do with that information. You know, right. So

Jennifer Smith, CDE 42:46
Right. Well, and that's where I think even the information in the the Warsaw method, which is really well done in what does it waltzing thing, the dragon, right? I was gonna say dancing the dragon. I was like, That's not.

Scott Benner 43:03
That's the person I did that episode with.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 43:05
Yeah, they have a very good descriptive because they go through all of the calculations and protein and fat. And then at the very end, they kind of give real life and they say, Well, we found that if we cover all of this, as this method suggests, we end up with these issues. So we've found that we have to cover only this certain percent of, of protein, and not very much fat, and it ends up working best for us. So again, there are some starting places some tools to begin with. And then you really have to evaluate, how does it work for you. I mean, I myself have found the meals that I make, like I said, before I make homemade pizza, right? And I typically make like an almond flour crossed or a cauliflower almond flour across, which is almond flour. In general. It's high fat, because it's made from nuts, right? So it's not like I'm pouring in loads of butter and oil. It's just that the nature of what I'm using is high fat. So I've found with that particular meal, a certain strategy that definitely works. My pizzas are not terribly high in protein. They're just a lot higher in fat because of what they're made from. So it's more the fat effect that I ended up covering. Yeah, I don't really even worry about protein there.

Scott Benner 44:21
Right, Jenny? If this was just a regular episode, I would title it fatty nuts. A great title or Jenny has fatty nuts. I don't know.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 44:34
Jenny eats chatty.

Scott Benner 44:37
That's it. Yeah, we workshop that one right to the right when Jenny eats fatty nuts would have definitely been the episode title. Oh, that's funny. Because I'm a child of my mind. Okay, so I think we have we can do one more or you will have time? Yeah, I've got a little time Christina says. This is about her college age type 112 and 12 and a half years live with type one my 18 year old son forgets to Bolus before he eats at least once a day. And she's very clear. She said, this isn't a refusal to use insulin. It's not bad behavior. He just right out forgets. She's not a type one, but she gets frustrated. It makes her angry. She said that she realized the disease sucks. And despite being manageable, it's still not easy. And this is all coming from a place of love. She's just trying to get him through college. Sure. This is tough.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 45:30
So this is a college student.

Scott Benner 45:32
Yeah. Who's had diabetes? A good part of his life

Jennifer Smith, CDE 45:36
a long time. Okay. Is so my first starting things would be since it's not, because this adult child wants to forget, it's just there are a lot of things being a student in general, as well as a college student. There are a lot of there's clutter that gets in the way, there just is. So one, if it's a regular time of day that the Bolus is often forgotten, it doesn't sound like it's what it's every day or it's a couple days a week sounds

Scott Benner 46:07
like it's everyday like like once a day, once a day, the kid flakes and just doesn't Bolus Yeah, okay.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 46:13
Because I was gonna say if it's a regular meal of the day, then perhaps setting a timer. Around that time of day, just as a suggestive even on the phone just. It's noon, I usually eat somewhere between noon and one o'clock. Sometimes it can jog the brain enough to just remind you. Yeah, that's one thing. I mean, the other one that's

Scott Benner 46:39
right on your top of your hand.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 46:42
Oh, it's for food.

Scott Benner 46:45
Yeah, I'll tell you what, this has nothing to do with diabetes, but I'm gonna share this here. My son is 22. He is a senior in college at this moment, he is about to graduate. Yay. We're very excited not to send that college money anymore. And, and oh, for all of his success, etc, but mostly about. Here's something I've noticed over his four years of college. It's fascinating. We don't see him constantly, obviously, right. I talked to him. Every once in a while I text with them sometimes. Go see him here and again. He will tell me the same stories over and over again. He is not that person. He's never been that person when he comes home for the summer. It does not happen. And so I used to think at first I was like, Oh, this kid's doing smack.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 47:38
He's losing brain cells. Something is not right. Yeah.

Scott Benner 47:41
I had a drug thought from the mid 70s. No, but I realized it's not that it's that he is so busy. And so tired. He doesn't even remember having told me the story the last time. And I think this is probably part of this, like 18 years old. This kid sounds like a freshman. Right? It's a lot of adjustment. I think you I think if you want to come from a loving place you say to him, Look, this is going to become it'll become commonplace for you at some point. But until it does. Maybe we got to make up a code word for Bolus and need to write it on the top of a book or I don't know what are your fingernails read so that when you look at it, you think why is my one fingered? Oh, it's because I don't always remind me I don't know something you don't I mean, but that's why I said the

Jennifer Smith, CDE 48:26
alarm. As a reminder, if it is a typical time of day for it to happen within sometimes just that cue in to the brain can, like you said wake them up, in a way as a reminder. College is hard. It's hard. There's sleep patterns are disrupted, you know, at home, if he had been living at home, mom and dad or other caregivers were likely there and or in high school, maybe he was one that had to go by protocol to the school nurse. And it was this pattern of consistency that helped the Bolus always be put where it needed to be right. In college. They have to remember do everything. You have to remember to get food for one thing, actually remember to put themselves to bed, right? Do homework, do their laundry, I mean, all these things,

Scott Benner 49:20
my son plays a sport on top of that. I don't even know how he's staying alive. I'll tell you if he ever hears this or somebody he knows ever hears this in the future. I am going to tell him about this after he graduates. I have never brought it up to him. I just let him tell me the story. And I'm just happy to be with him. And he's just like, he's got a lot going on. You know, right. So yeah, it's just a lot.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 49:41
Yeah. So yeah, reminders, I think are the best little nudge that you can probably do.

Scott Benner 49:49
So about the getting frustrated and angry part. I understand that too. But I think earlier in this episode, we talked about something where I said I realized Is that a 140 blood sugar for a couple of hours isn't going to be the end of Arden. I think that's how you almost have to think of this too. Like, this is not a kid slipping off a slope. This is to me, and don't get me wrong. I've interviewed people. And there are people that are going to ask questions later, where they did fall off that, that edge, they just stopped paying attention and it got easier to ignore and stuff. But in this specific situation, I don't think this sounds like what's happening here. So no,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 50:27
it was she kind of states you know, he's, he takes care of himself. Typically, it's just and that's why I was wondering if it was a time of day because if it was an especially busy time of day, or the first thing in the morning, he's forgetting to Bolus for breakfast pretty regularly. It could very well be he's just like, like getting up. Oh, my goodness, I'm five minutes late. I have to get out the door and I'm going to grab you know, by Apple on the way out the door and Oh, I totally forgot to Bolus last

Scott Benner 50:55
time I went to my to see my son I drove with a bottle absorbtech with me, I took a bottle of Zyrtec 180 miles and a two and a half hour car drive. And I said to him, you know, there's a pharmacy up the street from your dorm, and you have a car, just drive there and by Desertec and he said to me, in all honesty, I would not know when to do that. And I was like, Okay, I got you, even when I take it, like I took them out to dinner the other day after a baseball game, like where do you want to go? Because I don't know this town. I was like, you've been here for four years. He goes, I play baseball. And I go to class, and I sit in my room and I do my homework and I pass out. He's like, I don't have time for any of this.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 51:32
I don't take Well, that's actually from a parental standpoint, you're like, great. All the local bars are local. Right?

Scott Benner 51:40
We walked into a little bar restaurant the other night, he goes, I've heard this is a good place. Let's try this for years. He'd never been there. I was a little happy. A little happier as a parent. Yeah. But can we roll through one more? Are you done? Absolutely. Are the card values you enter into loop usually close to the carbs listed on the nutrition labels? So it does, yeah,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 52:02
yes. Yeah. Yes, absolutely. Yes. And you also, obviously, I mean, we've talked about fiber before, you also have to take a peek at fiber amount, depending on the kind of food that you're eating. But again, all of that is nutrition information. That's it's yours for the picking. Right there. It's not an estimate, there is as much precision as there could possibly be in this carb count. Compared to just staring at the plate and wondering because you have no label. Yes, absolutely. So

Scott Benner 52:36
go into that fiber thing a little more you subtract for what do you do tracked

Jennifer Smith, CDE 52:41
for fiber? I do take it as a little step further, because there are there are added fibers to a lot of the foods in the grocery store today. Because companies kind of have latched on to that, well, gosh, if it's high in fiber, more people are gonna buy it, it's gonna be so much better for them, right? Well, those fibers oftentimes are very soluble added fibers that don't have the same slowing impact as unprocessed fibers, fiber in fruits and natural vegetables and lentils and beans, and some of your whole grains and oats and those types of things. sprouted grain breads, like, like the Ezekiel bread, I mean, the per slice has like five grams of fiber per slice, I think it is just an exorbitant amount. So in terms of subtraction, if you're going to subtract fiber, I recommend subtracting definitely from more of your unprocessed types of foods. Some of the ones that are more like your fiber one types of products or something like that, you'll likely find that if you subtract that fiber, you're going to end up with a higher blood sugar than you want. Because most of that fiber is more of a soluble type of fiber, it'll have a little slower impact. But it's very likely you're still going to need to cover it. There are some more of the like, keto, or those types of breads and grains that are out there that do have added fibres, they may be more like the word is going to escape me now. Like the unprocessed like corn starch, kind of where it has a slowing impact on blood sugar. And it doesn't really get digested if you will. So that's why they can consider it so low carb you know, they list the net carbs as like two grams per slice instead of eight or nine grams per slice. So because the fiber on those labels can definitely mean you would have to subtract it. The big thing is you kind of have to give it a try and see what it does for you.

Scott Benner 54:48
Actually you don't know this but Arden has been eating gluten free for five days now. And we all are doing it with her as a show of solidarity. It's one of the things that her Her doctor, actually Dr. BENITO asked her to try. So like we're debt, we've now like Arden's had a blood test for everything that exists on the planet for like joint pain and stuff like that. And it just, she just luckily keeps coming. You're, it's a happy day When someone says your kid does not appear to have RA, you know, you're like, that's great, but at the same time, you're like, could someone say something, find something helpful, please, you know, so we're giving this a whirl right now. And, and anyway, we'll see how that goes. Thank you for doing this. We there are a lot more here. I'm gonna, I'm gonna save them. And I'm going to tell you that I think the next number of times that we we do this, we're going to do this. So awesome. I like to thank in pen from Medtronic diabetes, for sponsoring this episode of The Juicebox Podcast and remind you to go to in pen today.com To get started. I'd also like to thank us med head to us med.com forward slash juice box or call 888-721-1514 To get your free benefits check. US med has served over 1 million diabetes customers since 1996. Check them out online or give them a call. Jenny works at integrated diabetes.com. And don't forget to please consider taking that survey AT T one D exchange.org. Forward slash juicebox.

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#684 Susan's Therapy

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Scott Benner 0:00
Hello friends, and welcome to episode 684 of the Juicebox Podcast.

On today's episode I'm going to be speaking with Susan. She's the mom of two children, one of whom has type one diabetes. Eventually, this conversation turns into a therapy session for Susan. Please remember while you're listening in, that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan. We're becoming bold with insulin. Those of you who are US residents and have type one diabetes, or are the caregiver of someone with type one. If you go to T one D exchange.org, forward slash juicebox. Join the registry, take the survey, it will take you fewer than 10 minutes. When you do this kind thing. You'll be helping people with type one diabetes. So you get to do something nice and not get off your sofa. It doesn't take much of your time. And it's helping people you care about what a win win win win win kind of a thing is this huh? T one D exchange.org. Forward slash juicebox. Hope you do it

this episode of The Juicebox Podcast is sponsored by the Contour Next One blood glucose meter. Everything you need to get started with a Contour. Next One is that contour next one.com forward slash juicebox. Today's show is also sponsored by Ooh, wait a minute, new sponsor drumroll. We don't have any money for sound effects. How long do you think I should do this? This episode of The Juicebox Podcast is also sponsored by Ian pen from Medtronic diabetes. To learn more and get started today with in pen you go to in pen today.com. Can you remember that in pen today.com. It's inpntoday.com. And while I have you here, I'd like to remind you about touched by type one, just head over to touched by type one.org. And check them out. That's all they want. You can find them at their website or on facebook or instagram touched by type one.org. I'm hitting record let me make sure I got your voice. Okay, so very quickly. Yes, you have headphones on.

Susan 2:52
I have air pods.

Scott Benner 2:54
Alright, they sound pretty clear. Using a phone as you're using my phone. You're not holding it though. Put it down. For me. It's down. air pods are a little, sometimes overly sensitive. Just try not to fuss too much or touch things too much or that kind of stuff.

Susan 3:10
Okay. I will stay still for an hour.

Scott Benner 3:14
Now you're getting a Susan, I like that. You You seem to understand how this show works. You don't

Susan 3:19
move I will not. I will not move. I will not I will not breathe. Okay. Only breathe

Scott Benner 3:23
in half breaths and look right. Find a point. Okay. Very small. Yeah, I don't want you to be that conscious of it. Okay, so, because this is how this is starting. Introduce yourself, and then tell me what you said and say it again.

Susan 3:42
Okay, well, Hi. I'm Susan. I'm from New York. I am a mom of two kids. I have an 18 year old son and a 14 year old daughter who is typing. Okay.

Scott Benner 3:55
And we just jumped on the call. Hopefully,

Susan 4:00
after after I fixed my microphone because I didn't couldn't figure that out. Full disclosure.

Scott Benner 4:03
My mom is not feeling well right now. So my life is stretched very thin. I know.

Susan 4:10
I know. She's not. Okay.

Scott Benner 4:12
Thank you. My point in saying that is that I woke up like 15 minutes ago, so that it's not uncommon for me. I am probably not fully functioning yet. I'm hydrating as quickly as I can to get my brain off. So whatever I say in this episode doesn't count.

Susan 4:31
It's all good. It's all good. Meanwhile, I was up at like six I've had my juicebox shirt on I went and I walked that I listened to you. And yeah, okay, that was all good.

Scott Benner 4:41
Okay, well, all right. I'm glad that I could, um, sort of awaken the world. But you said that I like you said this picture. Okay.

Susan 4:48
So Right. So when when you when you log on you have your zoom and your cute little picture there. And I was like, Oh, I love this picture of you. I said you look very pensive,

Scott Benner 4:56
this picture. So now I know what pensive means Even though I didn't go to school for very long, and I didn't know that, so let's break it down together. Well, I'm gonna guess is alright, so I went to Seattle with my son for a week. And I and I got settled in with him. And then he spent another four weeks there baseball training. I stayed with the family who listens to the podcast, which is a story, I remember you saying that. It's so cool, wonderful people that I've told the story before, please, the rest of you do not send me an email. I'm not coming to your house. And so although, let's say this season, one time, with stories join and jump around right away, I got an email recently, from a person who offered me a large sum of money to come live with them for a week and teach them how to do diabetes. Stop it right now, which I turned down. Because I am not a healthcare professional. And that would not be reasonable. And, but it was way more money than you would guess. I can't even imagine. Yes. So. So okay, so you think of a number in your head? Like, how would you please your things?

Susan 6:05
I am horrible at this. I'm so bad at this. My husband is always like, we'll go into a room or to a concert. He'll always say, how many people? Do you think we're here? I'm like, I don't know. 10 500? I have no idea. So I'm really bad at this. So

Scott Benner 6:18
your preface? Did you ruin this part? But go ahead. Just pick a number. Scott. Come to my house live here for a week? I'll give you for a week? Yeah.

Unknown Speaker 6:27
I'll pay you

Scott Benner 6:28
$5,000 $25,000

Susan 6:31
Oh, shut up. Yep.

Scott Benner 6:31
And I said, No, thank you. That's lovely. But mainly, I appreciate your, your, I don't know, hope or whatever. You're right.

Susan 6:43
I do have faith in me.

Scott Benner 6:45
Yeah. That's That's not necessary. I don't take money from people for diabetes stuff. I'm not a doctor. And if you guys I realize you're not a doctor, I said. I said I also don't think that the questions you're asking need a week I could just do so I just jumped on the phone and answer. Questions for them real quickly, did not take their 25,000. Also, by the way, they didn't just randomly send me the 25 Grand. So I don't know how serious they were. But I'm

Susan 7:13
like stuck. Scott, could you imagine though, like if you started doing that, like if you put yourself out there you're like, Listen, I got called come live with you for a week. And I'll fix all your, your diabetes problems. And that could be like your thing you could do like a word like a tribe like a world tour. You could just like travel around, it'd

Scott Benner 7:27
be perfectly honest. It was hard to think about it after he said that number. Like because I thought I could do this four times a year and I'd be like, yeah, we'll just pay whatever my least favorite month is. I'll just, you know, do it that month.

Susan 7:47
Save all your problems for like, July and that's when I'm gonna

Scott Benner 7:51
be late. Kelly listen, I'm gonna I'm gonna jump out of here on June 30. I'll be back July 31. I have 100 kid I'm changing lives. But anyway, that's not the story. So you want to know about the picture? Okay, you

Susan 8:04
know the picture. I love the picture. Very, it's also very I don't know if this angle but you're having like a really big print. But I think that's real desert. Isn't that right though. The big like,

Scott Benner 8:12
the hats got a slightly unbend brim. Which is crazy, because my head is huge. So that's a weird thing. So what you're seeing in that picture? I don't think it's pensive. I was take so first of all these people in Seattle where I was they talk endlessly about this mountain. Okay, sorry, I'm still hydrating. Yeah, Hank, it's Mount Rainier. Oh my god. I Yeah, I've heard of that. Honestly, it might not be Mike. You should.

Susan 8:43
You might want to get that right.

Scott Benner 8:45
Right, because I but you know, you get there. They say oh, wait till the mountain comes out. The mountain comes out. Like first of all, I must be a colloquialism. Because the mountains always out. It's it will wait them out. That's, you know what they mean? Wait till you can see the mountain. Because you see it right. We can overcast but they just keep saying wait till the mountain comes out the mountains right over there. You look, you're like, I don't see a mountain to tell you. Well, one day, the mountain came out. And it's freaking shocking. Susan.

Susan 9:14
She came, she came and she Well, clearly. I mean, I'm

Scott Benner 9:17
telling you right now, like try imagining going out in your backyard. I don't know It's staring at the house behind you. And there's a giant mountain there but you don't see it for four days in a row. And then one day you walk outside. There's a freakin mountain there. It's odd, right?

Susan 9:35
That's, that's crazy. Really. That's the beauty of our country. That's, you know, look at you.

Scott Benner 9:40
Listen, it was insane. So now here's the other thing. I had been living with these people for about a week. They don't drink anything but water in their house. So okay, my face is like as thin as it had been in like two years. So I was like, Holy hell I can get a selfie with myself in this free Can mountain. And then I got the camera up and what you're seeing on my face is me going wow, you can really see my jaw on this

Susan 10:09
I look really good in this picture.

Scott Benner 10:11
I gotta take like 20 of these so that I'm sure one of these comes out. Because if you fantastic so excited. So it's not pensive, it's me holding the phone really still. And trying to hold my face in a way where I think I'll actually because now I'm gonna use this picture for years to come If someone needs to. Yeah, because and you see how like, sort of like, you know, like that spot between the corner of your mouth and your tip of your jaw. Like it sort of goes in like a lady's waist. You see it? You're looking at the picture, right?

Susan 10:41
I totally I'm I'm staring at it. Yes, don't normally do that.

Scott Benner 10:44
So I say in that moment, I was like, Oh, I gotta drink more water. And I must be holding this phone at the exact right place. And it's so

Susan 10:54
perfect. And you're like a teenager, you figured out how to get that perfect selfie.

Scott Benner 10:59
Somebody said, somebody said, Should your son get the picture with you? And I was like, no, no. I don't care. And he was busy. cool about it. Like I said, take a picture with the mountain and send it to mom. And he's like, Oh my God. All right, hold on, you know. So that's the story of that picture. Yes, it is not. It is not pensive. It's just me try not to move the camera because I have a jawline.

Susan 11:24
I got it. No, listen. Regardless, it's a great picture. Thank you. And that's it.

Scott Benner 11:29
Are you amused at how like, I actually could make that take nine minutes and it was entertaining. So

Susan 11:34
I will listen to you long enough. I

Scott Benner 11:35
know you can do I could do an extra 10 minutes on your episode. Okay, so you're the mother of a child with type one. Is that right?

Susan 11:45
I am. Yes.

Scott Benner 11:46
I'm sorry, boy or girl. I sound like you have two of them.

Susan 11:49
I have two children. My oldest son is 18. But my type one child is a 14 year old

Scott Benner 11:55
girl. 14 and 18. Okay, I didn't see him on purpose. Let's just dig in that for half a second. You guys. Oh, please. You guys were fighting. I thought a baby would help. What happened? What's going on there? What do you mean? I guess it's not a bad gap. 14. No, you're fine. Nevermind. Alright, fine. Yeah, I was reaching Susan. Fine. Do you think the people listening right now we're like, oh my god, this lady's from New York and Scott shut out of a cannon. I'm not even gonna have to speed this episode. It's gonna go really quick.

Susan 12:25
I'm actually 100% and I the whole, like 20 minutes before I signed out. I was breathing saying to myself, talk slow.

Scott Benner 12:34
I talk really fast. You're not doing it. But I wonder why we speak so quickly. I don't know. The true though. Yeah, yeah. We hammer through words. I always assume that other people couldn't think of them as quickly. But I don't imagine now that I'm older that that's actually why it happened.

Susan 12:54
Yeah, I don't think so. I don't know.

Scott Benner 12:56
Yeah. Do you think we were not comfortable with ourselves?

Susan 13:01
I just think everybody is in a rush. Yeah, I see. Right?

Scott Benner 13:08
I'm not asking you to say out loud, but you're Italian.

Susan 13:12
By marriage.

Scott Benner 13:14
So those those so you're by marriage. So that side of your family? Is that talking over each other being loud? Is that pretty common?

Susan 13:24
Yes. And no. You know. I grew up in an Italian household as well. My dad was a little bit of Italian. So we were around a lot of Italian family as well. And they were Yeah, they were no. They were a fun group.

Scott Benner 13:39
Yeah. It might just be Yeah. I don't know if it's geographical or what it is. But I if you got me going. I can I can speak so quickly. And still make sense. It's, it's ridiculous. See?

Susan 13:53
See I I will start speaking so quickly and not make sense. That's a problem. That's why I said to myself, slow it down. Is I think my words I just can't keep up with them. Like I'm like, you know, somewhere else. And

Scott Benner 14:08
anyway, and your kids are old enough. They correct you when you say something wrong, right? Oh, sure. Yeah, that's a big fun part of having kids.

Susan 14:16
They will listen to this and they will probably rip it apart.

Scott Benner 14:25
Kelly Kelly's Kelly's at a disadvantage in our house because Arden has my sense of humor. And calling oh she does actually has enough of it. He's just generally quieter. But that kind of like direct like this that my wife has, like my wife's more direct than I am only among like, in general public she's very polite and kind. But so my son can be direct and funny. It's not as funny as Arden and i It's not his fault. And so if my if my wife Miss speaks they'll it So people will say out loud, like, are you having a stroke? That's usually how it starts. And then they just Oh, stop. And she's like, why am I the butt of the joke? Relentless? Your fault? Did you hear what you said? And then it just keeps going, you know, keeps going when they get me on the ropes. I start, like, they think they say I get defensive, but I just start going, like what you're saying is not making any sense. And like, that's not what happened. And then they won't stop. Like, if they see me devolve a little bit, then they push me until, you know, it looks like I'm gonna die. Like, oh, he's on the floor. Keep going, you know, keep going is the guy, you know? Anyway, he's fine. So your your 14 year old, was diagnosed?

Susan 15:45
She was diagnosed when she was 11. And April of 2019. She was in sixth grade.

Scott Benner 15:53
That seems like an unpleasant time to have that. Yeah. Well,

Susan 15:57
yeah, I know. And where we live, sixth grade, was like a graduating year. You know, the next year you go on to middle school. So a lot was happening, you know?

Scott Benner 16:10
Oh, that sucks. Was it unexpected?

Susan 16:14
Well, unexpected in the back that nobody, you know, has no family history. So unexpected. Yes. So to answer your question, yes, it was. But that being said, I know the signs. I knew the signs. And I knew pretty quickly. What was going on? Okay. i Yeah. So I,

Scott Benner 16:40
how did you know she didn't.

Susan 16:42
So my grandfather on my mom's father had type two diabetes. And my mother always, she would always say to me, back up, my next door neighbor growing up. So I was born in 72. So a early 80s, she was diagnosed with type one, which back then was, you know, not as common obviously, as today. So I know my mom and her mom were very good friends. So I'm sure she implanted these thoughts into my mom as well. But my mom always said to me, if you're very thirsty, if you're going to the bathroom a lot, you need to tell me, you need to let me know. So growing up, I always associated those things with diabetes. Didn't really know what diabetes was, but I just associated those things. So that was, those were the first signs of my daughter. That's such

Scott Benner 17:36
a good look into what just the generation that go without the internet, how they thought about things. And like, somebody told your mom like, Oh, this is what happened. Here's how I knew. And she's like, okay, Susan, listen to me up more than four times a day I want to hear about

Susan 17:54
no. And she, she clearly said it to me enough, right. But it stuck with me. And I was so afraid. Again, not knowing anything about diabetes. I just thought if you were a diabetic, you could eat sugar, and I love cookies and cake. So I, I just was so afraid that I was going to get it. And then those were the signs my daughter, and then of course, including the weight loss and the appetite. But she was not admitted. She was not admitted in DKA. So I you know, I feel like, I don't know how long it was, you know, growing but you know, what's that?

Scott Benner 18:35
You feel good about that? You gotta

Susan 18:37
know? Sure. You know, I mean, I remember. You know, we we were shopping it was a Monday it was the day after Easter. And so the kids had no school and we were going shopping for clothes and I remember thinking oh my god, everything is like so big on her. I don't but you know, I don't know. Oh, she's growing you know, you say those things to yourself. Right? And then we went for lunch. And she had like three pieces of pizza. And let me tell you she was probably about 50 pounds very, very small. You know, cute little thing. And and then we were waiting in line to check out from somewhere and she's like, Mom, I just have to go the bathroom.

I'm so thirsty. Like, oh, that was gonna happen. Like grandma said

Scott Benner 19:27
your mom never said anything valuable like hey, if they find a way to shrink down those computers that they sent the rocket to space and make them fatter house buy some stock. Nothing like that happened ever.

Susan 19:37
No, no, no insight into any of that.

Scott Benner 19:41
Anything really, really helpful. That would have been helpful. Don't get a credit card, honey, anything at all? Nothing. Anything. Pick a boy said your father's side of the family was is Italian any chance your mom side is Irish or something like that.

Susan 20:03
My mom's side is a little bit of everything. There's no Irish, but there's German, there's English. I'm a

Scott Benner 20:09
bunch of things. I'm always looking for

Susan 20:12
as my husband. You know, I was just saying my husband's like, half half, like so like, you know, straightforward. I'm just a mishmash.

Scott Benner 20:18
Yeah, I'm always looking for that part of the world for diabetes. Diagnosis is England. Ireland, that hole right Celtic space there. Interesting. Okay, so, tell me a little bit about what happened coming out of the hospital? Um, three years ago? I mean, you left with

Susan 20:42
so yeah, so maybe something. Okay. We Yeah, first of all,

I love you know, I love our doctors, I love our hospital.

Scott Benner 20:51
Susan, hold on. I love it when people preface their statements with that, because you're about to say something horrible about your doctor.

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Susan 25:13
Great experience, you know, but now, you know, now that looking back and hearing all the people that have been on your podcast, our experience was pretty, you know, normal, I guess. They, you know, the the training two days, like ours, you know, I remember my sister, I have a sister who's 10 years younger than me. And she was so sweet. She said she works in the schools. So she was off that week, because it was a break. And she's like, I'm going to come in, I'm going to come I want to listen to everything. I'm going to learn the if someone else I was like, so thankful for that. So she came and she sat with us and listened. But um, but yeah, so we left with, with pens with pens.

Scott Benner 25:53
Okay. Yeah, no, no sense of CGM or anything like that. Nothing like that was talked about. I didn't even know what that was never heard of it. No. Do you have one now? Oh, yes. All right. How long did it take you to get that? And what

Susan 26:09
she was, she was diagnosed in April. And at the next. I'm sure I saw the doctor pretty soon after that. And then probably the next visit, which maybe was like May, May, June, maybe. I remember going to the doctor when I was showing her. My logs of her blood sugar. And Scott, I would. I was crazy. I would test her like, every two hours through the night. I was testing her like, she was like a pin cushion, you know? And the doctor looked at me and she was like, What are you doing? I said, I'm testing my blood sugar. I'm making sure she's okay. And she's like, Oh, no, she goes, we get we get we got to help you out here. So that's when she was like, we're getting you the Dexcom. And I was like, what is that? So yeah, so she got it pretty soon after I'm gonna say June, she got the Dexcom. What was

Scott Benner 26:59
the impetus for the frequent testing? What were you? Which voice in your head? Were you calming down with that?

Susan 27:07
The one that was saying like, I was just so anxious and so nervous. And so you know, I'm a very anxious person. Yeah, I've. Yeah. So that's that was it?

Scott Benner 27:22
Were you thinking she was going to get low? Or that she was getting high? Or? Or did it make you anxious? Just to not know what the number was at all?

Susan 27:30
It's a really good question. And I don't think I've ever thought of that. But looking back, probably just the not knowing what she was. And, you know, it's just funny Scott, as I, I pulled out these papers, in preparation for this just kind of like, look back. And I still have all the papers of all the blood sugars, and I highlighted the ones that were low. If I tell you how many 80s 77 were highlighted, like back then I thought that was low. So you know, I

Scott Benner 28:00
thought that was a problem. Well, you feeding now seven lady?

Susan 28:03
Oh my gosh. Yes. You know, it's it's, yeah. Because I was told to. I was told below, think it was below 90 At that time, you would correct. Wait 15 minutes, and then give a 15 gram, which Holy crap, if I did that now. Forget it.

Scott Benner 28:24
Well, 15 grams, that 90 would probably make her like 180. Right.

Susan 28:28
I know. Yeah. It's crazy, right?

Scott Benner 28:32
Well, at least she wasn't low. Better high, though.

Susan 28:36
I know. Right?

Scott Benner 28:37
Yeah. Let's kill her tomorrow. Not today, then. Exactly. What a plan.

Susan 28:45
Great plan. Good plan.

Scott Benner 28:47
I'm so fascinated. You know, I don't think I've gone down this road on the podcast. And well, I find it fascinating that that could be the answer. Just the I don't do you know, I'm saying like, we're gonna, every day we crossed the road with our eyes closed. Instead of doing it, we just won't cross the road today. We'll do it tomorrow, right? And then tomorrow, and tomorrow, we'll get there gonna and maybe the next day, maybe the next day. But on the other side of the road is our life that we can't get to. Yeah, no, no, can't avoid that. Yeah, let's just not instead of living will stand here and in stasis, not really do anything. We'll just eating snacks every time our blood sugar gets the 90. And one day in our 30s we can start you know, working on those on those horrible things that have happened to us it's a really an odd, an odd fix. You ever

Susan 29:45
it really is because now obviously her management is million times better and I go in and the doctors you know, she's like, I love her. She's like, you don't need my help. You know you're doing And, you know, which makes me feel good. I don't always agree with her. But if if I if she thinks everything's so great and she sees her numbers, then why is why are the other thing? What? I don't know? Is it because she was so newly diagnosed? And there? You don't want to? I don't know. Just why was that acceptable? Right? I don't know.

Scott Benner 30:20
Alright, so pulling back the curtain, bigger picture, I get it. Like I get them not wanting to Yeah, have your kid have a seizure? Right, like, right? Below budget. But, but why not explain it so that maybe you might use for carbs instead of 15? Right,

Susan 30:39
right. It's the rules are so there's like, so set in stone these rules? And I Oh, my gosh, you tell me a rule. I mean, I'm gonna follow it. I'm a true rule follower. So I'm not going to deviate. Right? So yeah, you're

Scott Benner 30:56
not gonna, it's going to be 15 carbs. And then you get caught in that weirdness of and now all of a sudden, your kid might as well have diabetes in 1985. Again, because because we're not taking advantage of any of the advancements or new understandings. We're just we're back to eat these 15 carbs. How many times have you given your kid food they didn't want? And then you look back and think, Oh, God, she didn't even need this.

Susan 31:19
She may need it. Right, right. I know. Oh, my gosh, do you think

Scott Benner 31:23
that's okay, how long did it take you to figure it out? That it was not the way that

Susan 31:29
longer longer than I'm proud to say? I don't know. Her diagnosis was, was very hard on obviously hard on everybody. It was hard on me. As a mom, I, you know, I went through a lot with that. So I just was trying to keep her sounds very dramatic, trying to keep her alive. Just trying to keep her you know, functioning. And, you know, and doing the things she loved to do like that summer, she went to camp. Oh, my gosh, that was crazy. You know, and she's doing all. And then Nerissa camp was said to me, we like to keep them no lower than 150. I was like, that's why it's like, you know, she's like, we they're always running and they're doing this. And I just at that time, I said, Okay, if that's your role, okay. You know, so I don't know. And then then she started middle middle school, middle school was very rough. Start with her diabetes.

Scott Benner 32:37
It will be fun for her before you tell me about middle school. You just said a bunch of big things and then skipped right over. I'm like, we weren't gonna talk about them so well, that I do that. Sorry. Sorry. Her diagnosis was really hard on you. How?

Susan 32:50
Yeah, I cried a lot. I, I couldn't. I couldn't look at pictures of her. Prior to that. I I, my husband and I were, you know, we're a great team, great team. At that time, I'm sure I was really difficult to live with. Because I he was helping, but I would say he wasn't, you know, or it was hard. And then I had, you know, I had a son. And at the time, he was in high school, and he was playing baseball. And I said, I have to get to all of his games. I can't make him feel any, you know, less loved or less, you know, less attention. That was hard.

Scott Benner 33:48
Did you ever? Did you ever use your son's activities as an excuse to get away from diabetes? not consciously, but like, I have to go to this baseball game now. So you're right. I'll live here with diabetes while I go.

Susan 34:01
Good question. I'm gonna say no, because she always came with me. So that was another thing too. I feel like, you know, I didn't want to go anywhere. Without her. I didn't want to leave her. I didn't want to. And I like she's a bit She's. She's a competitive dancer. So I would, I was that in a soccer player. I was back to sitting at practices for two hours or sitting at her rehearsals in the car when I used to just drop her off. So I felt very, I felt like my life was never going to get back to normal, I guess. Maybe Can I

Scott Benner 34:33
ask you? In those times you were sitting outside of things? How often did you have to spring into action and do something? Like what partly ever Yeah. How come you

Susan 34:43
isn't that funny? Like looking back? Hardly ever. I

Scott Benner 34:46
knew that was gonna be your answer as my mascot is right? You know, it's the drama part is you said, you said like this is going to sound dramatic and you made me think of every once in a while. I'll see somebody be online say, I saved my daughter's life with a cookie or something like that. And I'm like, right, right. Right. Right. Do you mean that? Are you just trying to like, right, make the point, right. Like, I hope you're just trying to make the point that the carbs, yes. I wonder where this is that you know what I mean? And not to say that there haven't been times that people's blood sugars are falling, you know, and they're really, and you really are maybe saving their life. But how many? How many people are saying that when their kids blood sugar's 90 Because of the direction they were given by their doctor? Like, how many people is blood sugar's not falling reaches 90. And they're like, I just saved my daughter's life with an Oreo cookie. Like, actually, you just wish their blood sugar back up again.

Susan 35:40
But I actually actually might have pushed it back up, but okay,

Scott Benner 35:43
we'll go in that could be an opposite thing of what you're saying here. I'm not certain, you know, that drama is so real. I'm gonna be honest with you. I, you know, I know what you're talking about. I would say,

Susan 35:55
you know, when you asked me that, when you asked me that, like, how many times I had to jump in and help her. I never thought about that. And honestly, I Yeah.

Scott Benner 36:09
At what point you could have been like, hey, you know, I keep staying here because I think you're gonna die, but you're not dying. So. Oh, I guess I'll just go home, get out of this car and do something else. Yeah, is it at

Susan 36:21
least obviously.

It's comfortable. But listen, obviously, I did get to that point. And you know, and I leave her she she sleeps over she you know, I we're obviously in a great spot now with a lot of that, but so that was part of it, too, was hard. And then, like, I I would just anytime she was very high. was more the highs, I would just, I would just play myself. And what did I do wrong? And I can't hear the beeping anymore. I'm going to go crazy. And you know that kind of stuff

Scott Benner 36:59
overnight. Yeah, you couldn't hear the CGM anymore?

Susan 37:04
Well, not that I couldn't hear it. I did hear it. And I wanted to throw it out the window. You know, it just this. It was, was driving me crazy. And I didn't know how to fix it. I really didn't. And so let's and then you came along.

Scott Benner 37:19
Let's not get to where the Messiah comes just yet. Let's talk about the rest of it. God, I hope people No, I'm kidding about that. That's not the point. Here we go. No, I don't know. Some of them don't beep. So you're getting to a point where you're getting an alarm? And you're resentful of it?

Susan 37:36
Oh, my gosh, that wasn't percent. Yes. Because I would look at and be like, be like, shut up. What do you do?

Scott Benner 37:45
Well, you're, you're my age. And yes, you're like just a year younger than I am. And I, you know, I couldn't keep going forever the way I was going. Like, like, it was like the sleep part is really detrimental in a way that you don't imagine it's going to be at first at first you almost think you're doing it. You're like, all right. Other people need sleep apparently not me. I'm must have a special constitution. And then you start snapping at people and being not yourself. And you're working at a percentage less than what you usually are in your mind. And then you're laying there one day, you're like, I can't get up and that thing, and you were like, what, like, I'm gonna burn law, just lock all the doors on Windows and set the house on fire. Like how?

Susan 38:35
Maybe No, yeah, it was it for me. It was like, I just can't cry all day. I can't, like I can't do this anymore. Because I would I would be crying just because I was tired. Like, you know, like, I've got to stop. I gotta stop. Yeah. And I would definitely seek advice from our diabetes educator at my doctor, and they definitely did hell, but just know, nobody explains it the way you do? I don't. I don't understand. I don't understand.

Scott Benner 39:11
I don't know. Well, I mean, we've had enough conversations on the show with doctors and they don't talk about why they think that it doesn't happen. And you know, I've had people on, and I've never pushed them. And I think that in the course of the conversation, you can hear that they don't understand it well enough to explain it. Or that right. Sometimes they're caught in this like, the cycle of right. Yeah, their job is just get you in check this thing hit all the checklists they need for insurance, you know, and then and then, you know, I don't know show me one of your lows. tried turning this dial here. I'll see in three months, right, like that whole thing, right. And I do think that they're just, they're throwing darts a lot of times in the dark and just hoping they hit something and that That's just not a real reasonable way to take care of all this. I so I have a lot of empathy for the situation that they're in.

Susan 40:07
And I understand I agree.

Scott Benner 40:11
I still want to try it myself. I still want to like, you know, almost like, almost like speed dating for diabetes. I would love to sit in the room for a whole day and see if 20 minutes at a time I could figure things out or not like,

Susan 40:24
oh, I have no doubt you could I would like that. I would be exhausted. Yes, over though. You've already done that. So you know, you could do that.

Scott Benner 40:31
Yeah, but it would still be fun, like a little exercise. You don't I mean, like, like diabetes Olympics, kind of for me. I love it. Like a mathlete situation, almost where you would just give me questions. And I'd be like this, that this that. But I don't know, maybe I'm wrong. Like, maybe I would maybe I would do that. And then think, Oh, she's people are doing the best they can. It's a horrible situation. But then again, I don't understand. I don't understand then why you wouldn't stop it. Like, why do you keep saying, well, we'll go back and try to cross the street tomorrow. Like, why wouldn't just say this thing we're doing doesn't work. But it would just seem obvious to go to the head of the practice and say, hey, you know, we're not really helping anybody. Right? Like, I went to medical school. And now I'm wasting my life in this florescent box. Sort of pseudo helping people. Like, we're all here. I had to get up in the morning. Why don't we do it better than this? You know, like, it would strike,

Susan 41:30
right? I know. Yeah. So like her, I think are able to seize we're probably in the eights for a long time. And they were fine with that.

Scott Benner 41:40
The doctors were okay with it.

Susan 41:43
Yeah, they were. They know, they were they weren't you know, they, they? They were more like, it's, you know, it's good. We'll try to, you know, try and do better, I guess. Actually, no, I feel like they were like, Oh, you're good. And again, I don't know, maybe it was because it's like the first year or so. And I don't know.

Scott Benner 42:06
But even that's just ambiguous. Like, it's just I know, I agree. Yeah. Especially when you can google. What's the a one C of a person who doesn't have diabetes, and it tells you and you go, Oh, that's C might be significantly different. But what we have over here, you know, I remember the first time I realized that at Ardennes appointments, they'll find a low blood sugar to to warn you about. And I realized that that's a liability thing now. Yes, I'm sure it didn't strike me. I mean, no one's told me this. This is my, my concept is that they go Oh, I see a low here. What happened here? And I've now learned to answer like a robot. Like I go, Oh, let me see that. And I lean over and I go, that's a compression low. That's not real. That's not real, right? Or I'll lean over and I'll go, oh, that's 65 at 11 o'clock. Yeah. I know what that is. You see the Bolus here at 10pm. Right, right, and see how the blood sugar was 140 We had a sticky blood sugar, it broke loose, blah, blah, blah. And then I stopped. I don't over explain it. I just explained it. And they don't go. The next answer isn't well, I think you should do this or change that. They just go okay. And then they make some notes. And I'm like, Oh, this is just for insurance. Okay, interesting. Yeah. Can I get the insurance? Can I just get the prescription now for the insolence on go? Yeah, can we just, we just move on? We're gonna go to lunch. Actually, we're gonna leave here. Waffles and and. Right, yeah, we're gonna Bolus an insane amount of insulin and eat it.

Susan 43:45
And it's gonna work. It's

Scott Benner 43:47
definitely gonna work. Yeah, I gotta go. Like I really I want to get out of here. But I understand, right? If that's the it's almost all this. It's the thing about life. I hate the most like, I hate that unspoken dance part. Like, you know, when you're lying to someone, and they know you're lying. And you know that they know you're lying. And you know that they know that you're lying. And yet for some reason, we're still doing it.

Susan 44:14
It's still still going on.

Scott Benner 44:16
It's maddening to me. I really, I really just find it distasteful, but okay. All right, Susan, Fair's fair. How do you find the podcast?

Susan 44:28
I love the podcast, how do I find it? So I found it on a Facebook group. Definitely a Facebook group. I knew you're gonna ask me this question. I really don't remember when I first started listening, but I do remember when I really listened religiously, was during the pandemic. Like when that first so her. Her one year anniversary was April of 2000. Which is right. When? Yeah, right when everything Started, right? Yeah. So I walk, I walk, I always lose used to, you know, I always like to walk anyway. But I would walk and I will listen to you, every every day. And like every day,

Scott Benner 45:14
that's important. Everybody should be listening to me every day. That's what I think

Susan 45:18
everyday, like to the point that this is to the point that when I go to the track, if I don't listen to it feels weird. Like, I feel like I'm

Scott Benner 45:27
over there, that experience has been ruined, because I'm not there.

Susan 45:31
And I feel like I'm doing I'm being rude to you.

Scott Benner 45:35
That, listen, that's an important feeling. Don't let go of that one. All of you. If you're, you know, you should be less if you could be listening and you're not, you're letting me down directly. That's important to know. Just so you know, also listen, and listen to the end. Okay, there's some important metrics

Susan 45:52
and invariants. Thank you.

I just listened to your your one this morning with Patrick in California. Oh my God, I want to meet him. He's hysterical.

Scott Benner 46:00
I don't even think he was funny on purpose. I think. Exactly. It was amazing. Yeah. Money. That's excellent. I'm glad you like it. There's times where I'll record episodes. And I'd be like, people aren't gonna like this. And that was one of them. I was like, worried. And then I when I really listened, and I did the edit. I was like, What was I thinking about? Was like, he was terrific. You know?

Susan 46:22
Oh, no, he was so honest. And so he was great. Yeah. Yeah. That's very

Scott Benner 46:25
cool. It makes me feel good that you listen, I also want to say, we're beyond this far enough. Now. It's October 2021. When we when the pandemic hit, initially, there was this idea amongst a lot of people who made podcasts that will we're going to scale back now, because people aren't gonna listen as much. And I don't want to, I don't want to waste my content. And I want you all to know that when you thought that I started putting out an extra episode every week, because I was like, This is not how this is gonna go. People are gonna listen to more podcasts. And yeah.

Susan 47:05
I wonder why they would think that,

Scott Benner 47:07
Susan, I think it's because they're morons, and they don't know what they're talking about. And they don't have a vibe for what's happening. But I just go with that. I'm taking full credit for this. I was I saw that moment. I was like, No, this is not the right idea. We should be leaning into this with content, not leaning away from it.

Susan 47:24
No, yeah. I listen to you every day. Ya know,

Scott Benner 47:27
a lot of people picked up the show during Coronavirus, which I'm not Yeah, celebrating, I would rather have fewer listeners all not have COVID. But,

Susan 47:36
but that, you know, I, I found it before that. I just it was just so much more time. Right. So I guess that's what it was. I found it before that. But I listened more religiously during that time.

Scott Benner 47:49
While you're Yeah. While you were figuring out that you wanted to listen to the podcasts with your free time. I was learning how to smoke meat. So we were all did something different that we didn't have previously. Yes. You know, fantastic. Yeah, I do a little smoke every week. And I leave something refrigerator. And I just take little slices from it throughout my days and take little pieces. Lovely. That sounds lovely. It was really a little pink.

Susan 48:14
By the way. My kids tell me the word lovely is an old person's word. Well, they can go to hell. You just said it. And I said it

Scott Benner 48:21
didn't go to hell tell what do you think of that them in the podcast is just thought they shouldn't put out podcaster and COVID. Right. You're all wrong. What do you think of that? Lovely is a wonderful word. It is it invoke some. It evokes a softness and a concern. It is exciting. And it means you know that something is exceptional and kind of very good. If people don't use it.

Susan 48:48
I agree. I agree. Your kids

Scott Benner 48:50
are wonderful. When the new Drake album is coming out they don't know

Susan 48:53
anything. Oh, absolutely.

Scott Benner 48:57
You live on the island or no?

Susan 48:59
I do. I live on the island. Yep, I was born here. I live here. My husband said he'd never lived here but he's lived here for 25 years so

Scott Benner 49:08
would you do wear bikini? Would you ask them if you want to go to Long Island? How did that work out?

Susan 49:11
I don't know. Maybe I don't know how to get him out.

Scott Benner 49:13
You know how you did it. Don't act like you don't know now that we're older.

Susan 49:17
Don't be so coy with the island so it makes it makes me wonder if people listening to this might. I don't know. I don't think I have an accent but I'm sure many people are gonna think I do.

Scott Benner 49:34
Yes is pretty light. years is pretty light. I just interviewed a Mother Son combination who lives on Long Island as well. And hers is very hers is more severe than yours is. Yeah,

Susan 49:49
I'm not too severe.

Scott Benner 49:50
No, you know what I mean? Severe is in.

Susan 49:52
I know. I know. I know.

Scott Benner 49:53
Are you gonna give me crap to Susan. Well, listen, I'm already married. Okay. plenty people over here that have that covered. You don't need to give me crap. If you're worried that I'm living my whole life just free and happy, okay, then I'm the guy. Yeah, don't worry, I'm about to leave this room be told what I'm doing wrong today. Not even over and over again. I'm assuming there's a list of things I've already done wrong. And I have not laid eyes on my wife yet today. So,

Susan 50:24
but it's funny.

Scott Benner 50:26
So so. Okay, so you find the podcast? That's fine. Does that make you feel like? Like, what happens next? Do you start thinking, Oh, those things I was thinking? Maybe they're real? Or did you? Did you think I've never heard any of this stuff before? I've never even had these thoughts before.

Susan 50:43
I've never heard any of these things before. More at the time, so she got a pump. We're on the Omnipod. She got the pump in January. So a little, almost less than a year, I guess. Right. Okay, that she was diagnosed. So no listening to the podcast, like you would say words that I remember I had heard them but didn't know what they meant. Even the word Bolus, I didn't know what that meant. I was I was still under the impression. Like the rules, they tell you, you could only correct every three hours. You You know you all those little rules. So I, I would sit and look at a 300 blood sugar. Because I had to wait three hours, you know? So. So yeah, it was it was more things I hadn't heard before. And it just it really blew my mind.

Scott Benner 51:46
How do you make the leap? Then? Like, how do you? How do you get to the edge of the road and go no, my Sherpa told me we'll try again tomorrow. We've been doing it for three years like this, but I'm very confident that tomorrow is gonna come and then you're you're you're indoctrinated. And then someone comes along and says, the exact opposite of what what you've been totally? How do you break free? Is it that you're not seeing success? And so it seems worth the effort or

Susan 52:12
risk? I look like I just couldn't I didn't want to do this anymore. And the the one of the things that stuck with me. So I think our our Dexcom was set for 80 as a low, and you're ready for this 300 of the high 300.

Scott Benner 52:29
Perfect. That's excellent.

Susan 52:30
That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.

Scott Benner 52:31
I mean, it's so weird.

Susan 52:34
Right? So I didn't know that that's

Scott Benner 52:37
not uncommon, just weird.

Susan 52:40
You know? So

when you

one of the things that you said, in trying to lower your blood sugar, one of the tips, obviously, we know if you listen is to tighten your range, because if your range is tighter, it'll just, it's eventually going to get there. So that's the first thing I did. I I tightened the range on the Dexcom. And then I don't know, I think I just said to myself, No, I'm just going to try something different. Yeah, I'm just going to try something different, I'm going to and because she was on a pump, it's just much easier to you know, add some insulin here, add some there. The array around with things. Yeah, the range.

Scott Benner 53:27
Now super important, because it really is. It's tricking you into doing what you need to do to begin with. So if you, if you let the range be 300, then obviously the blood sugar you can not Pre-Bolus You can miss miss on your carb count for your meal, and ignore the rise and still feel like well, it's doing what I expect, because I expect you're gonna go to 300. And so that's, that's all Okay, once you start seeing yourself, I can't let this get over 150 Now suddenly, you have to start using insulin differently. And you have to start being more aggressive. If it tries to go up you then it forces you to start thinking about well, why is it going up to begin with, I mean, I'm trying to stop it from getting to 150. And it makes you then believe in trying to Pre-Bolus or being flexible around meals and understanding the different impacts of different foods so that you can make a better Bolus and, and then all that stuff. It just tricks you into I mean it you know, you can hear the the Pro Tip series, and it'll make sense to you, I hope and it'll help you. But setting that expectation down is a real is a real big part of that. And then you start getting what you expect. And then you can say, Well, I always get what I expect. I expect one ad I wonder what would happen if I expected 150 And then I wonder what will happen etc, etc. Until you can just like do that. Yeah,

Susan 54:56
no huge, huge and you Yeah 100%

Scott Benner 55:02
So not hard. You didn't struggle to figure it out like it just worked.

Susan 55:06
No, no. And I it just worked. There is still, I mean, I still have room for improvement. I really don't. Do you happen to episode coming out about fatty foods? I just don't quite. I haven't quite gotten a hold of that, like the effect that certain foods.

Scott Benner 55:28
Yeah, there's one have one out now. Okay, no, no, it was me and a Canadian lady named Michelle. Michelle. Okay. I'll find the name for you while you're talking.

Susan 55:39
But yeah, that that's, you know, on my list to really understand. And then obviously, I I'd like to do the new when the new Omnipod comes out and connects with your Dexcom obviously, I'd like to get your the DIY looping completely intimidates me. I, I've looked at I read about it. I've listened. It's almost like a different language to me. I don't know if I just don't have that mind. I don't know. It's very overwhelming. I understand that as much as I'd like to do it. So it's okay. Oh,

Scott Benner 56:22
I like oh, wait, when the real tech savvy people go. It's all written right out there. I'm like, Oh, my gosh, I don't know. But okay. Yeah, yeah.

Susan 56:31
And the other challenge I have, and it's a big one is school for her. She her num. Put it this way. I know when she has a test. I could look I can look at her graph and like, oh, yeah, she had a chest right now. You know, and I don't know how to handle that. I don't know. Sometimes it goes up and comes right back down. Sometimes it goes up and then it just stays there. But then I'm afraid to give her insulin because what if then she crashes. It's like this whole, and she's a freshman in high school. So we're just you know, we're just starting out with all of that. So that's my that's my challenge right now. It is because I feel like every day is kind of different sometimes. You know, and that's a little exhausting. I don't know. Yeah.

Scott Benner 57:18
So you're so first of all, you want episode 471. It's called bolusing insulin for fat.

Susan 57:25
Oh, perfect for 71. Okay, I wrote it down.

Scott Benner 57:27
Thank you. It's really, it's really, really super helpful. You know, okay, good in a sentence. The fat, the grams of fat in some foods that you eat, like french fries, or like stuff that you can there's a formula to figure out how much insulin those grams need and need extra Okay, and about when to put them in?

Susan 57:51
That feel akin to the timing of it, right? Yeah, okay. Yeah.

Scott Benner 57:54
That's that the thing for school is tough. Because, I mean, what are you gonna do? You're gonna, you're gonna have your daughter write down a list of winter tests happen? I mean,

Susan 58:05
I know. So

I think I don't know. I'm increasing her Basal, like, increase your Basal every morning when she goes to school, right? I don't know.

Scott Benner 58:13
Is that helping?

Susan 58:15
Um, yeah, somebody's it helps. Sure. But also, breakfast is also a very big challenge here. Do you know that I have to dose her. I get up at six o'clock and I number one, increase her Basal for the day, and then I dose her for breakfast. She doesn't eat breakfast till probably close to seven. Because her blood sugar will just stay there was just so stubborn. What's

Scott Benner 58:38
your number? At six o'clock when you're putting in the insulin? What's the number then?

Susan 58:42
Like this morning? It was 120 I think

Scott Benner 58:46
it takes an hour to get to what?

Susan 58:49
I mean, I'd love to wait till it's like arrow down somewhere like in the 90s 80s. But we don't have time sometimes to do that. So I think she ate today. It was like 101 Maybe

Scott Benner 59:00
it took it took an hour for blood sugar. almost an hour? Yes. Is there a reason you don't just upper Basal at like 530 to try to accomplish without you having to wake up?

Susan 59:15
That's a good see, I'm so glad I came on this podcast. That's smart. Because that that would do it. So I would only need that during the week. But that's fine, because I can have to dip Okay, yeah, that would make sense right weekend

Scott Benner 59:30
and a weekday, right? Isn't profile. And just think about like, you know, if it's five o'clock or 530 in the morning or whatever, and you up the Basal to the daytime rate ahead of time. So you're making that really, you're doing what everybody does, right? You think she doesn't wake her or what time does she wake up in the morning?

Susan 59:52
Well, when I go in there at six, she's usually kind of like starting to get up and then you know, she gets up within the next 10 minutes or so. When I'm ready or whatever.

Scott Benner 59:59
When does her daytime Basal rates start right now.

Susan 1:00:03
I add some. I don't

Scott Benner 1:00:09
know. Okay, well, whenever it starts, I don't know just just make mean habit start a little sooner and then you can get some insulin active extra insulin active through that six, seven o'clock period, which then should make your bed your Bolus for the meal more instantly. You should see its impact more quickly because right now, you're putting in a Bolus that is being eaten up by that correction Bolus at six is being eaten up by the unmet Basal need from overnight.

Susan 1:00:43
Of course it is. You told me that why didn't I?

Scott Benner 1:00:47
I don't know. I'm just okay. I'm just used to talking about this stuff. It just pops into my head. If you think that spreadsheet right now that says if no, I know. Trust me, you guys, if I bumped my head one time, this podcast has gone. Oh, Scott forgot everything. Record. Go back and listen to the old ones. And but yeah, no, I would do that. I would. Yeah, that makes sense. I don't know when I would start it. You might have to. Right. Let's figure that out. Yeah. So be aggressive through there. Probably then you'll be able to, I'm gonna guess you're gonna be able to make your, your meal Bolus more like 630 or so.

Susan 1:01:24
Right? You could usually like,

Scott Benner 1:01:26
half hours usually good. Okay. And then you're on your right, so that

Susan 1:01:29
I'm gonna try that. Thank you.

Scott Benner 1:01:31
What else? Can I affects anything else? Um, I don't know the thing with a test at school.

Susan 1:01:38
Yes, I don't know what to do about that. Because it like I said, it's like, I never know,

Scott Benner 1:01:44
how would you say sometimes it goes up and it comes back how long until it comes back?

Susan 1:01:51
When it does, that it's not long at all. That's how I know that that was definitely like a quiz or a quick test. Or you know, I also feel I don't know if it's my imagination, but I feel like as soon as that bell rings, I could look at her blood sugar at 215 Low all sudden, that arrow is going down already. Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:02:09
It's so Susan.

Susan 1:02:10
I know. It's school.

Scott Benner 1:02:12
Yeah, it's the it's the adrenaline slash stress, slash, whatever life impact, right. And you're meeting it probably with a heavier Basal. Which is, which is great, because during those hours, it's working. And then as soon as that it's like falling asleep, like, like Martin's blood sugar yesterday. Oh, my God Arden's been sick for a while now. She's got. Oh, you said that on Facebook. Yeah, I'm calling affectionately calling it kennel cough because they all got back together at school, and now they're all coughing. It's like when you take your dog to a kennel and then it comes home. So I'm calling it kennel cough. I don't know that she's thrilled with my estimation of what's wrong with her but skewer, I'm trying to amuse myself to get an immune so Gotcha. She's, for the beginning of it. Really not very sick. Just like this cough. And now a little more head pressure like Arden is taking like Advil cold and sinus in the evening. Right? Arden's not a medicine person. So you know when when you hand Arden a pill and she takes it without complaining she doesn't feel well. Right? Right. Right she's taking that her blood sugar's have been difficult through this. On top of that, we're switching from one birth control pill to a different kind of pill. So right that's challenging in the middle of like, you know, three weeks of like, right no bleeding while this pill like makes sense in her body and we don't even know if it's gonna work it's yeah, anyway. Oh, girl. Yeah, that's hard. It's tough. All this is happening. I'm we're being as artists also trying to learn how to take care of herself better as college is getting closer. So letting her see this part. So and we were doing okay, yesterday, I was like, Oh, this is good. Like it's getting better and I actually made some of her settings weaker because I'm like, maybe this code is changing but I'm not seeing I'm not seeing the you know, the blood sugar's aren't fighting the way they were. It was the last couple of days. And I said to my wife, I was like, I just figured out the turn the settings back at like, 10pm she's gonna get low when she falls asleep. She fell asleep and her blood sugar went right to 60. And I was like, come on, and the I'm trying to go to bed too. So I was like, here, I gave her a banana. She had half a banana. And it helped her blood sugar went from 60 to 63 and back to 60 again. And at this point, she's got no basil going because I'm trying to, you know, make the adjustment from the one to the other. I gave her some juice 6068 60 and 63 Okay, 60 seems to be the number. And so I was like, Oh, let me wait a little bit because the last thing I want is for this food to catch up and be a pro. Yeah, it didn't happen. She's like sitting at like, 6364. Now 45 minutes later, I'm like, Alright, more banana. Now she's been asleep for a while. She wakes up and I'm like, aren't he to take two bites of this banana and a sip of juice? And in a complete blackout sleep she goes, those flavors are not gonna go together. Well. I was like, Yeah, Laurie. I was like, things are tough all over here at Banana, banana. And then I gave her the juice and she sips the juice, you know? No. And I was like, one more big one. Just knock it down real quick. And she does it. And I shake the box. And I'm like, I need her to drink a little more. I said one more time. She goes, nope.

Susan 1:05:49
Oh my gosh.

Scott Benner 1:05:51
So about an hour later, she was 77. And moving on. And I was like, I'm gonna. So yeah, so I fell asleep. And then I heard a little beeping, which indicated to me on my wife's phone that she had gotten back to 70 again. And then I stayed there for a second with my eyes closed five more minutes, and my phone didn't beep My phone's at 65. So I thought, Oh, she's gonna find stability at 70. I'm like, great. And then I alright. And then I then I went to sleep. And then that took a number of hours out of my life last night, which is why I woke up and ran right in here to talk to you. I think I'm awake now. You are what? You think so I'm not certain Yeah. I'm hungry. But a minute fasting. So I have another hour to go before I can eat.

Susan 1:06:41
All right. It's lunchtime.

Scott Benner 1:06:42
Yeah, I'm getting there. I'm getting close. So the thing is school. So I mean, if she pops up and pops right back, I wouldn't think twice about that. Honest.

Susan 1:06:50
Right? No, but because that was happening a lot in middle school. Now. I feel like she'll do that. And it kind of sticks. And it's like, annoying.

Scott Benner 1:06:58
Yeah. Well, when it sticks I Bolus it. Right. Do you guys during the day?

Susan 1:07:04
That's all we do. Yeah.

Excellent. Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:07:09
Are, are just about triggers a little sticky before you and I started talking at like, 135. And it felt like it was going to come down to me, I was like, oh, it's gonna come down. And I had it my heart to try this one Bolus. And then I said to her, and I'm like, no, just do this instead. And then it didn't work. I should have done what I was thinking I wanted to do. I wanted to do a unit and a half and I ended up doing like point nine. And I was like, I messed this up. So I'm like, you know, I was just awaking, and worried about you. I was like, I gotta go do that thing. Now. This thing? Yeah, I was gonna have a conversation about her being the you know, in your note, you called yourself. Do you remember what

Susan 1:07:53
I say? It was just the way you I just remember. I remember the subject was Pick Me Pick Me Pick Me.

Scott Benner 1:08:01
Just on the podcast, if you're not alone, I just said, you said that. You had trouble forgiving yourself for not being perfect. Yeah, so I want to know about that before we're done.

Susan 1:08:15
I'm probably where my daughter gets it from. Although my husband's a little bit like that, too.

I don't know why. I don't know. I am a rule follower. I like to. I like acceptance. I like pleasing people. I like everything to be a certain way.

Scott Benner 1:08:53
I want Why do you like them to be?

Susan 1:08:56
Whatever the case is just like in the house, it's gotta be this has to go here. And I found like, a little crazy, but I'm really not. I'm not. Like, for example, I used to be, I'm not. I used to be a teacher. I was a teacher before I had my children. I taught sixth grade. And you know how when they're, you know, they're young like that. You give out like class jobs. Right. And I didn't like doing that. Because I wanted

to do everything. Like you're a control freak.

A little bit. Right. So that's part of it to a little bit like that as well. But I feel I yeah, I felt like,

Scott Benner 1:09:41
well, how far do you want to try to go into understanding this?

Susan 1:09:44
Yeah, cuz I feel like I'm really not making any sense right now.

Scott Benner 1:09:47
You made a lot of sense. I'm just I'm wondering if you really want to talk about it or not. Did your parents your parents? Did your parents openly fight a lot?

Susan 1:09:57
Oh, no, no, but when they did know my parents married 50 plus years they're, they're awesome. They're, you know, that's great parents. Awesome. So now

Scott Benner 1:10:08
you didn't. Yeah, was there any your family members have illness? There's just something that turns your life upside down when you were younger?

Susan 1:10:18
No, thank you gonna ask me those questions and I'm probably gonna say no to everything and then you're gonna be say, what's wrong with?

Scott Benner 1:10:24
No, I'm not. I'm just I'm looking for a reason why you would want right. I know it's orderly. Yeah, I don't know. I've been happen to get lost once in a mall, like anything traumatic when you were younger? No, is your mom like this? Well, your dad well, that. Yeah. I mean, she was she was planning for your daughter's diabetes in the 80s.

Susan 1:10:50
When I was like, 12

Scott Benner 1:10:51
Yeah, when you were 12. She's like, one day, you're gonna have a dog and you're gonna need to know about this ping thing. Please listen to me closely. And carefully. Were you allowed to make decisions as a child? Or were you overridden by your family a lot. Huh?

Susan 1:11:07
I was allowed to make decisions. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. I'm one to four. Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:11:13
Oh, are you the youngest or the oldest?

Susan 1:11:18
I feel I'm number three. I have two older brothers. And then I have a younger sister.

Scott Benner 1:11:24
Did you feel responsible for them when they when you were younger?

Susan 1:11:28
Oh, now you're getting somewhere? Yes. Figure it out. Don't worry. My sister is 10 years younger than me. So I was 10. When she was born, my brothers were older. One is three years old and four years older than another three years older than that. So yes. And when my sister was born, we were just talking about this. She was just over there the night and we're talking about this. I yeah, I she was a large responsibility for me when I was younger. Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:11:53
So she was more of like your ward than your sister. And your parent was little Yeah, parents had done this with three kids already. And they were like that one probably won't die and they didn't pay much attention to her. Maybe you felt responsible for?

Susan 1:12:08
I did though I did, in many ways feel responsible for her. I did. And I almost in a very strange way still do. Like I remember on her wedding day. I felt like it was my child getting married was weird. So yeah,

Scott Benner 1:12:21
yeah, we're getting to it. You want to keep going? I have time.

Susan 1:12:25
Sure. And I love her. She's my best friend. I love her. Garcia. Yeah. But yeah, that's interesting.

Scott Benner 1:12:31
Look how proud you are. Let's look at do you feel a little like that, that her successes are yours a little bit.

Susan 1:12:42
She's a great mom. She has two little babies. cutest things in the world. And she's so kind. And she always says, you know, that she looks up to me and that, you know, I'm a great mom. You know, those kinds of things. So I do feel good about that. I do.

Scott Benner 1:12:57
Did you really? are crazy like you? Are she more laid back? She's going to be more.

Susan 1:13:02
So much more laid back.

Scott Benner 1:13:03
Do you know why?

Susan 1:13:04
Oh my gosh,

Scott Benner 1:13:06
why she had you to worry about things. Yeah, there you go. How come? Nobody was worried? She thinks for us isn't?

Susan 1:13:13
I don't know when she gets my brothers. They should have

Scott Benner 1:13:16
their boys. Yeah, true. You needed your parents to do it. But they couldn't because they grew up in a time where that's not how they parented. Right? Sure, right. Super simple. Understand. Our psychologies are like almost like I mean, like I'm not taking anything away from you therapists but I mean, look, I just do a podcast and I'm figuring it out. So I know. So okay, so, but yeah, you pass this on to your daughter.

Susan 1:13:41
Um, yes. And I think she's she's a very good combination of both of my husband and I, but my husband is also very Oh, he's He's so good. He's so organized. He's so I'm like, I don't want to say seeks perfection. But I would say the small part kind of does like he's very you know, he's very good at what he does. He only does the best. You've only put out his best work. He only. Yeah,

yeah. So yeah,

Scott Benner 1:14:09
where's your daughter feel responsible for?

Susan 1:14:13
She's got a guinea pig. So maybe your guinea pig.

Scott Benner 1:14:15
It's either you or your husband? Which is?

Susan 1:14:21
Me probably.

Scott Benner 1:14:22
Do you think you could help her to not have to feel responsible for you? Were like three answers away from you having a granddaughter who's carefree like your sister. So just keep thinking.

Susan 1:14:36
That's a, you know, got us a really good question. Yes, she probably does feel that way.

Right. Right. Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:14:41
So what do we do?

Susan 1:14:43
I don't know. What do we do, Scott? Before it's too late. Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:14:47
You got a couple of years here before she's talking to boys and that's gonna be the end of it. So I know. Yeah. And then she's going to try to control their life and make them miserable. Hmm, yeah. Well, I don't know. Like, I mean, you know your own life like what, what? What could you? It's not what you could do. It's what you could, generally speaking, it's going to be what you have to stop doing like, so I don't know what those things are right? You're right. There's something about you, that makes her feel if we're right about all this, that makes her feel like you need her and not in a way where like, on my mom's like, you know, my mom and I are on the same wavelength. And I can see when she's right. There's something specific that she needs that you need, that you aren't getting. And it's obvious that other people so interesting. If it's sexism, we can fail to fix that very easily. Just tell your husband All right, yeah, just stop it. Just stop. All you remember is your kids are gonna hear this, aren't you? Now I'm blushing. Do you think they've ever heard you have sex? Stop it. Stop it. Stop it. Oh, my gosh, I you know, I thought that during this control conversation, a question that I that I didn't ask you. You're welcome. Yeah. Thank you very much. I should start making you know, questions. I don't ask and just read them at the end of the end of the episode. That'd be fantastic. Alright, good. So yeah, listen,

Susan 1:16:19
we're complicated beings. You really are. Right. And I'm in my mind, you know, I, I, you know, you think you're doing everything? Right. Right. You think you're doing all the things you're supposed to do? And in the right way? Here's not that I not that I didn't know that. I don't think I know. I'm not perfect, obviously. But you know, you're just trying your best, right? It's trying to do with us.

Scott Benner 1:16:42
I'm not saying you're doing a bad job.

Susan 1:16:43
I know. I know. I know. I know that. I know.

Scott Benner 1:16:47
I'll tell you know, I know that. For some insight. I assume I'm doing most of the things wrong. But I think I'm doing I assume I assume everything I'm doing is probably could be better, but not in a way that makes me crazy. Just in a way that makes me keep wondering about what, what else is there?

Susan 1:17:09
Does that make sense? Yeah. And I liked that. Yeah, my

Scott Benner 1:17:12
my favorite, my favorite thought exercise is to, is to take a subject that I don't know any, you know, that I don't have a full grasp of think about it up until the ceiling of my understanding. And then just to kind of wonder what's on the other side of it, because there's more, I just don't know what it is. Right. And I like to wonder what it is. And I it's a pretty useless exercise. But I enjoy doing that I enjoy wondering what I don't know about things. And part of that has led me to believe that even when I'm appear to be doing a good job, even when things appear to be going right, there's more that I don't know about that very well may have made things better, better. But I'm not bothered by the idea. I'm intrigued by it.

Susan 1:17:59
You're intrigued.

Scott Benner 1:18:00
Yeah. That's all like I know, very intriguing. I know, I'm doing a good job. Like you said, like, I know I'm doing my best. When I know I'm not doing my best. I try to write that ship pretty quickly. And like you said, people are complicated. There's times when you just you're doing things and you're like, I shouldn't be saying this, and it just comes out anyway. So there's all that, but anyway, it's not too late for you to keep your daughter and help her mellow out a little bit. Is she not mellow?

Susan 1:18:31
No, she's she's mellow. She's good. I could be completely wrong about all this, by the way. No, I

don't know. But but it also made me think a little bit.

Scott Benner 1:18:42
Yeah, just keep in mind that while we're doing this, I just received a note from a listener while we're talking. That congratulated me on how I spoke to a person in a recent episode. And she's like, Wow, you really help that person? That was like, Oh, that's nice. I might have gotten all that stuff. I saw that pop up in front of me. I was like, I can just help Susan to Robin right now.

Susan 1:19:02
I want me to

Scott Benner 1:19:07
can you imagine? That's great. Well, I think you listen, it sounds like you have a nice setup. I do want to ask you about like, what's the division of care between you and your daughter? Like, where do you think her? Like,

Susan 1:19:19
okay, that's a good question. Disappeared. Okay.

I deficient of care. So here's, here's a good story. We went over by this, by the way, wow, look at the time. Okay,

here's just here's a good story. I went away. I went away for three nights with my best friend. And I was like, you know, I need this. Get away. I have to, you know, do something for myself. And we had a great trip and all that. And she did great all the time. And I say that surprising that I shouldn't be surprised. She's awesome. She really is. She's incredible. She's an incredible kid. But she did great. She did great when I was away. So my best friend said to me, she was like, well, then, when you go back, she goes, I want you to pull back, my best friend telling me, and I said, All right, yeah, yeah. But then I get back and I go right back into what I'm back into the way. So, so she could do it. But I think I think we're at a point where she just knows that I'm going to do it, or I'm going to text her and say, hey, you know, dose half a unit dose this? You know, so I'm thinking she probably thinks that way. Oh, you know, Mom, mom, you know, mom, she's on it. So. Right. So, you know, well, you know,

Scott Benner 1:20:48
listen, that's, I think, a reasonable first step. Sounds like it went well. I mean, based on what we just said, we could say that maybe your daughter just realized you needed a break. And so she kind of gave it to you as a gift, which means it's something she has to give, and you understand that she's still 14, and she might not always, they might not always be present in her mind. But how can I? How did you ever did you say to her when you got back? Hey, you did such a good job. Oh, yeah. Maybe we can, you know, do this more frequently. It's a good learning experience for you.

Susan 1:21:25
Okay, ever said those exact words. But there are definitely times where, like, my husband and I were away in the city a couple of weekends ago, she was staying at my mom's and my niece was here. They were staying i i laid back I you know, I did. Good. So yeah, there's definitely instances where I let her do it. Take over.

Scott Benner 1:21:49
Excellent. Let me ask you a question. You went away with your friend, you came back? Was it more gratifying to you that she could take care of herself? Or was it more gratifying to you to take the control back?

Susan 1:22:07
Probably that she could do it herself.

Scott Benner 1:22:10
Good. But did it? Did it feel good when you took the control back? Oh, it

Susan 1:22:14
felt good. It just felt like this is what I do.

Unknown Speaker 1:22:16
Right? Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:22:18
Cool. Well, yeah. Try to make it feel right that the other way to that were you nervous the whole time you were gone? No, you actually were able to just drink a lot. How did you handle that? Nervousness?

Susan 1:22:34
Well, it was a yoga

retreat. Oh, you're smoking? Well. Scott, stop it. So it was

it was very relaxing.

Scott Benner 1:22:45
Oh, wait, were you really doing yoga? Or I thought that was code? I'm sorry. No,

Susan 1:22:49
we were really doing yoga. Hiking in yoga is very relaxing. So no, it was yeah, it was a great, great time.

Scott Benner 1:22:58
But yeah. Oh, there you go. We fixed all your problems. Everything's good. How much do I owe you? I $40. Just to Kobe. Insurance handles the rest. Sorry.

Susan 1:23:10
By the way, I caught your little video you put up very briefly last night of your little cartoon. Are you kidding me? That's the cutest thing ever. So Oh, isn't

Scott Benner 1:23:16
that great?

Susan 1:23:18
Oh, my gosh, I

Scott Benner 1:23:19
love it. So hopefully, by the time this comes out, it'll just be thing, but pretty cool. A mom who listens to the show has a young daughter with type one. Her older daughter is a budding animator. And I must have said something at some point somewhere. I said, I really want to animate the defining diabetes episodes, and put them like on YouTube and make them more accessible to like people like that. And she's like, my daughter could do that. Now. Susan, the amount of people who very kindly offered to do things for me is, is it's a big number. I'm really great. Can't imagine very great. Yeah, very nice. Many people don't have a stick to itiveness that stuff like eggs. So a lot of times people like I'm gonna do this thing for you. And I'm like, that sounds great. I would really appreciate that. And then three weeks later, I'm like, do you have that thing? And like, Oh, I gotta kind of go. And it's fine. I have no animosity. People who really genuinely want to help and I think that's lovely. And, but, so I'm like, Oh, this is a big undertaking. You know, there's a lot to do here. I think you know, our daughter's I think she's 19 Maggie. And I'm like, Okay, I'm like well prove it to me, like do it, you know, and she started doing it and building like physical assets and everything and I was very clear about the animation I was like it should basically just be a modern like Punch and Judy. Like I don't I almost wanted to marry that standing there just doing this thing. And right and she's doing great. So last night, we had a conversation and I said, where are we at with this? When can we actually start putting them up? So she's still working. But I don't, I don't want to put them up and then have a gap. I want to be able to put one up every Friday. And she's like, I think I'm close. I think we can get going pretty soon. And then we talked about what we're going to do next. And I think she's gonna make me sort of, like almost like little like 62nd clips from episodes like, we'll find a 62nd clip in your episode, and she'll animate it. That's so cute. Yeah, we use them on social media and stuff is a way to kind of draw people back to the podcast. And then if all goes well, she's going to automate the process. And we're gonna lay it over top of like the Pro Tip series and stuff like that. Oh, I love it. Yeah. So that's awesome. The problem right now is that I'm financing it out of pocket. And the videos need to make enough money that I can afford to pay her. So we're trying to go slow and find that balance. But she did a really, I thought she did a really amazing job.

Susan 1:26:05
Oh, my God, I loved it. I thought it was fantastic. She's,

Scott Benner 1:26:09
she's really talented, and doing such a good job. So thank you. I'm glad that's so great. That's so great. After the conversation, I sit around, like, I'm gonna throw the first one on Facebook in the private group. And I'm gonna take it down to like two hours just so people can see it for a minute. And funny, the reaction was good. And a couple 1000 views in there in in about an hour and a half. And then I just yanked it back down again. So that's great. Yeah. Thank you. I appreciate that. I'm trying very hard to

Susan 1:26:36
say no, no, you're trying to help. Doing a great job.

Scott Benner 1:26:39
So far. So good. Knock on wood. I haven't done anything super stupid yet.

Susan 1:26:43
Nope. Fix some people one at a time.

Scott Benner 1:26:47
One of the times I need 10s of 1000s at a time, or I start, I start feeling like I'm not doing enough. It gets a second weird. I haven't had that feeling in a couple of years. You know, talking about feeling responsible for people. And right. Why I might know you well is basically how I feel. But I haven't had that feeling in a while. Like I'm not doing enough. It used to feel like that. But I don't anymore. Okay. So that's great. Yeah, I think it's because the podcast reaches so many people at this point. It would just be silly for me to feel like it'd

Susan 1:27:22
be silly. Exactly. be silly feet, right.

Scott Benner 1:27:24
I'm feeling good. All right. Anything left, right, that you want to talk about that we didn't talk about? No,

Susan 1:27:30
I just I'm so happy to get the chance to talk to you. I really enjoyed this. You're awesome. And I hope everybody's okay, on your end, your family and all that.

Scott Benner 1:27:38
Okay. I'm going to ask my question. I appreciate that very much. And same to you. I'm going to ask my question of you when we're not being recorded. Okay. My the question that I had Alright, so when you and your husband are having

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Megan has type 1 diabetes and loves a good rodeo.

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Scott Benner 0:00
Hello friends, and welcome to episode 683 of the Juicebox Podcast.

On this episode of The Juicebox Podcast, I'll be speaking with Megan. She is an adult living with type one diabetes, and she has rodeo stories, among other things. She actually has two sisters who also live with type one. We'll find out more about it on today's episode of The Juicebox Podcast. While you're listening, please remember that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan, or becoming bold with insulin. If you're a US resident who has type one, or is the caregiver of someone with type one, you have the opportunity to support people with type one diabetes and this podcast by going to T one D exchange.org. Forward slash juicebox. There you join the registry fill out the survey. And in fewer than 10 minutes, you've helped the podcast and people with type one with the simple answers to very easy questions. It's just data that they need, but they need you to go answer the question so they get the data. T one D exchange.org. Forward slash juicebox completely anonymous 100% HIPAA compliant this show is sponsored today by the glucagon that my daughter carries. G voc hypo Penn, find out more at G voc glucagon.com. Forward slash juicebox. I just received Ardens on the pod five order from us med it's a terrific place to get your diabetes supplies, head over to us med.com forward slash juicebox or call 888-721-1514 To get your free benefits check.

Megan 2:05
Okay, it's kind of surreal, because I've heard your voice for so long. It's weird that you're actually talking to me this time.

Scott Benner 2:12
Well, are you worried that it's a voice in your head because I can say something specific to you? I know your name is Meghan. A voice and I guess a voice in your head but no, you're Meghan as well. Right. Hold on. Let's think just something I know that your boy, I don't know anything. The voice in your head. Wouldn't I could be a voice in your head. Megan. Oh, well, right. Live with it. Yep. All right, Guy whenever you're ready, go ahead.

Megan 2:35
Hi, my name is Megan. I am a type one diabetic who've been diabetic for 26 years. I also have two sisters that are type ones. And we just get through this life together.

Scott Benner 2:47
You have any other siblings besides those two sisters?

Megan 2:51
Yes, we have two brothers that are not type ones

Scott Benner 2:54
who see your parents make female type ones not male type ones.

Megan 2:59
Exactly.

Scott Benner 3:00
Do your brothers have any other autoimmune issues?

Megan 3:03
Nope. They're perfectly healthy. Bastards. Right. lucky then.

Scott Benner 3:10
Wow, that's interesting. Does your mom have any?

Megan 3:13
Nope, nobody in either side of our family has any really issues. They had done a lot of studies at the beginning when the first two are diagnosed because my oldest sister's 19 years older than I am. And so when they were diagnosed, it was three days apart. They had done a lot of studies trying to figure out like why it was just those two, they first kind of thought about maybe it was every other child. Well, then after my middle sister, my brother was born and he wasn't in type one. But my mom had lost one between the two of them. So they were like, Okay, well, it's not that. And my mom talks about how when she was pregnant with my younger brother. She said, I pray that he was a boy and wouldn't be a type one because I couldn't handle three of them. And then three years later, here I come a girl type one also

Scott Benner 4:08
my server to tell you that story.

Megan 4:12
Sorry,

Scott Benner 4:13
so you've had type one for 26 years. How old are you?

Megan 4:16
29 I was diagnosed when I was three. Okay.

Scott Benner 4:19
And how old is your older sister?

Megan 4:23
She's 48. So they've been they were diagnosed in 82. Wow, she was nine and then the middle sister was three. When they were diagnosed. Like I said three days apart. They ended up getting a conjoined room at the hospital. So that was probably a lot of fun for my parents.

Scott Benner 4:43
Wow. How old is your middle sister?

Megan 4:46
She is 43 Sorry, maybe

Scott Benner 4:50
you all have the same dad. Yep. Your parents are weird. I love this. Okay, it's gonna be fun. And then the brothers are Where did It just It doesn't matter. But I want to know how old are the brothers?

Megan 5:03
So that brandy or she's the oldest and then we've got a brother. That's after three years after her. Three years after her is our middle sister Kayla. Three years are 10 years later is my other brother. And then three years later is me.

Scott Benner 5:19
Wow. So basically 40 840-543-3326 or 2929. Yep. Wow. And how old are your parents? 112?

Megan 5:29
It seems like it's sometimes. I guess they feel like it but they're not. I think my dad's 72 Maybe No, kid. Really? No.

Scott Benner 5:39
Wow, they got going. And they didn't stop. Big breaks in between. Yeah.

Megan 5:45
Everyone always asked. They're like, Y'all have the same parents. Right? Yep. All the same parents. Question. Yeah. What just happened that way?

Scott Benner 5:56
Was I alright, I'm just going to ask this one last question, then I'll get off your parents, which seems like how your dad did it. He just asked the question and got off for a while. And I got back home again. So there's no family planning here. Like the idea of like, they just when babies came, they came, they make you guys on purpose? Like, what's

Megan 6:18
the last few of us? We're definitely not on purpose, but are like to think that we are the best two? I would imagine. So. I mean, we'll just go to leave it at that.

Scott Benner 6:30
What did your mom do for a living? Did you just sit around and rest her uterus? Or did you have a job? Or Wouldn't she?

Megan 6:35
She actually did have a job. She used to work in the school board. So she for a little while she was working in the lunch room. And then she moved to be a secretary at in school with kids with special needs. And then she turned into Yeah, she was a secretary, then she turned into a secretary at an elementary school. So when I went to school, my mom worked at the school. Yeah. And so it was pretty easy to go through, you know, all my type one problems with her. Only a few doors down. Cool.

Scott Benner 7:10
That's great. So all right. Do you have functionally a completely different diabetes than your older sister did? Do they mean? Like, did she have different gear and different ways to do it than you did? Did your mom have to learn diabetes? A number of times, I guess, is my question.

Megan 7:28
Um, I don't really think so. When we were younger. Now, nowadays, yes, absolutely. We all tend to it differently. We all have, you know, different ways to go about it. And we all have different agencies, for sure. So like, when, when I was diagnosed, my two big sisters were doing shots. And they were checking their blood sugar and all of this stuff. So I started doing my own shots when I was like, between four and five, just because they did it so I could do it. Which I don't know if that helped my mom or made her even more nervous. I was four years old giving myself a shot. I don't really know. But that's, you know, and I so I learned a lot from them up until I was old enough to figure out some things on my own and kind of veered away from some of the ways that they do theirs or have done them.

Scott Benner 8:28
Okay. Well, let's talk about you for a couple minutes. 26 years. That's i Five. I'm gonna guess it's 1995 said about right? Yes. Yep. Oh, wow. I'm sorry, shocked myself, because I was right. I wish that wasn't true. Okay. So 1991 That's crazy. Because when you say 26 years, I'm getting so old now. Like, that feels like 1980 to me. I don't know if that's something you launder. You probably won't understand that till you're older but so 1995 you're diagnosed you and you you're working with injections. And so are your soldiers. You're the rest of your family. What's the what's a goal? Like, do you know? Do you know what your mom was shooting for what she was trying to do? I mean, I'm assuming knock her out of her mind. But you know, like, how did she manage things?

Megan 9:24
Yes, I do. A lot of the mind was the main goal, I believe. You know, she just was trying to keep our blood sugar. I mean, back then, I feel like things have changed so much. Back then it was like you wanted your blood sugar between our what they were telling her I guess, was like 90 to 150. And if we were in there, we were good to go. If not, then we'd have to watch it to see where it was gonna go. And then we would do something about it. Which obviously Nowadays, I really don't even want to be 90 are for sure don't want to be 150. And I'm watching it every, obviously five minutes and making adjustments at all times, rather than how it was done whenever I was first diagnosed or even until I got an insulin pump, and I was in the sixth grade, like, okay, you know, so back then it was just, if it was above 150, then we drink some water, go exercise and come back and check and see if it was because I mean, you don't want to make your four year old do six shots in a day. So you're going to try something else to try to get your blood sugar down before you have to go that route.

Scott Benner 10:44
I see. And what what did you guys do for Lowe's?

Megan 10:49
Um, we just the normal like orange juice type stuff. Or just like a little candy, or Hershey Kiss, my mom is obsessed with them. And that's probably why because she had to keep them around for so long. Just to give us a little something to bring our blood sugars up.

Scott Benner 11:08
That's interesting. When did you I mean, you're talking now about yourself in the when you're talking about yourself in the present. You're talking like a person that has a CGM. So I assume you have one?

Megan 11:16
I do. Yes, I have a Dexcom.

Scott Benner 11:18
How long have you had that?

Megan 11:20
I think I've had it for about three years. Because I got it a little while before I got pregnant with my first little boy.

Scott Benner 11:29
Is that when? So I don't want to spoil things. And I also don't know the answer. But when did you like you're talking now like about keeping very specific blood sugars for yourself? Like, when did that start for you? And what got you going with that?

Megan 11:43
Um, I tried to keep it pretty steady, even on just the regular blood test. But it was when I actually got my Dexcom and could see, you know, I would the standard is, you know, you eat, you do a blood test, you know, an hour after you've eaten, and see what your blood sugar is, won't an hour after it was usually pretty good. Well, then when I got to Dexcom, it's like, oh, yeah, it's pretty good an hour after, but 20 minutes after it shooting straight up. So I guess it was when I got to Dexcom that I really started paying a lot more attention to keeping my blood sugar stable at all times, because I you know, do a blood test every couple hours. And if it was still pretty good. And you're like, oh, yeah, I've kept it this whole time. That was awesome. In reality, that is not how it was

Scott Benner 12:41
jumping up and then staying up and then probably crashing down. And you were just testing at times where it looked okay. Right. Yeah. I remember that feeling like I did. The nurse practitioner always told me to test at a certain time. And I thought, well, if I test then it's definitely going to be okay. Right. And she didn't understand why that didn't make sense to me as to what we really should understand what's happening in between, shouldn't we? And she's like, No, she's like, it's probably high. And I'm like, what, like, nobody. Nobody understands this, you know, so you get a CGM, and you start seeing it. A spike in a meal. What was your first? Like? How did you impact that?

Megan 13:24
So I was started talking with my endo a lot more about just trying to get it figured out on what because I also saw I got a Dexcom and a new pump on the same day, which maybe not wasn't a good idea. But it's fine. We we've got it figured out. So then we were working on, you know, I would call him more often and try and figure out, Hey, What settings do we need to change? And nowadays, I don't, I don't really call him, I just do. I just do whatever I think because obviously, I'm not going to make my setting change. And then my blood sugar's gonna stay 40 for four hours, and may not change back or at least bump it a little bit more. So he's pretty okay with me making some changes on my own. Just because I pay attention to it a lot more nowadays than, Oh, I'm able to pay attention to it a lot more than I was when I first started going to him.

Scott Benner 14:21
So did you like start Pre-Bolus thing? Is that how you? Did you not do that prior? And then the DEC did not?

Megan 14:27
I did not and I would I would rarely put in carbs. And I was like, Oh, I probably need two and a half units. We'll just go with that. And it was like, Oh, that probably wasn't correct. But it was. I mean, I was in college and rodeoing and always gone. So I was like, Yeah, this should work.

Scott Benner 14:48
rodeoing you said earlier? Earlier, I couldn't figure it out. You said earlier, tend to my diabetes. And I was like where did that come from? Like where does like 10 I've never heard somebody say 10 Do it like you would tend to a fire or attend to an animal. Is that where that came from? Do you think? Yeah, probably. Yeah, that's cool how long you've been riding?

Megan 15:09
Um, my entire family has my dad um, you shred bucking horses when he was younger, and then there's only the oldest sister she's the only one in our family that has not rodeoed my husband is a bull rider my brother's rope calves. I've roped My sister has it's just in the family. You know one of my uncle's owns a rodeo company. My brothers made them Super Bowl of rodeo is what they call it. This will be his 12th year and so it's just in the family. We've all done it and we all love the sport and continue to stay at the minute

Scott Benner 15:55
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Megan 17:57
that's the yes, that's the professional bull riding but we're in the PRCA, which is the professional cowboys Rodeo Association.

Scott Benner 18:03
Mike, if you want to hear something weird. Sure, so I had no idea that you rodeoed or that anybody in your family did, and yesterday. So it's a little bit of a side street, it may not come to surprise to some of you. But the popularity of the podcast, I get a lot of emails from people who want me to do things. And sometimes they're amazingly odd, like and don't seem connected to anything that I really am involved in. And yesterday I got an email from PBR and they want to know if I wanted to sell tickets to rodeos on my podcast. And I just thought, wow, I just deleted it. Because first of all, what am I gonna do you know what I mean? But secondly, yeah, I was like, No, I don't want to do that Delete. And then you came on here today and said, I rodeo. And I'm like, how does a word that never comes up in my life come up in my life twice in the last 36 hours. That's so strange. So I assume you live in Connecticut? No, I'm just using it.

Megan 19:02
We are in Southwest Louisiana. Okay, where the hurricanes hit last year that that was me. They they hit me right there.

Scott Benner 19:10
No kidding. How is? So you're not the first person I've spoken to from Louisiana like so how is healthcare there? Like, how was it talked about through your provider? Like, are you like the, like the most well controlled type one in your provider's office? Like, how does that what's the expectation?

Megan 19:30
I don't think I am. But I do know that. Like I said, He gives me a lot of leeway on things that I want to do on my own. Just because he knows that I pay so much attention to stuff. And when I go in, I'm like, Hey, this is what I'm seeing. I think we should change this. And that's not that's if I haven't changed it already. Because I like to let him you know, kind of, obviously give me his expertise on it right. And so we'll talk about that. But my endo is great. He's super smart. And he helps with whatever. But he also will sit there and listen to what I believe we should do rather than just been like, oh, well, you don't have a degree. So you don't know anything. I'm gonna tell you what to do. Okay, which is really, really good. You know, now both my sisters also go to him just because he's helped me so much. And as I said, always open to what I believe.

Scott Benner 20:31
Are you close with your sisters? Yes. Do you guys talk about diabetes visit not come up. Oh, all the time. Okay, all the time. How does that intersect with your, your communication and your relationships? With them?

Megan 20:45
Um, no, it just, I think it makes us closer. Because, you know, if my if I just reinserted my pump, and two hours later, still not doing what I need it to do. And I get aggravated, because I have to put another site and then I can always fix them. And you get the oh my gosh, I hate that. Or, man, that sucks. You know, that type of stuff.

Scott Benner 21:12
But yes, it's right. The camaraderie. It does.

Megan 21:14
Yes, absolutely. I think I wouldn't, I wouldn't be on the weird, I wouldn't be the diabetic I am today without them. That does sound weird. But in the same token, that is true. You know, I know. It sucks. And I can tell them Yeah, it does suck sometimes. But I'm also going to be there when, like our middle sister, she just got on a Dexcom and just got on the same pump that we have, not that long ago. So she's still figuring out the settings and things like that. So, but she can call either one of us and say, Hey, this is what's going on. Or we see because we're all following each other on our Dexcom. So we're like, you know, the middle of the night texture, hey, change your basil, you know, things like that. So it does make it way easier. And that's not even talking about how when your insurance takes forever to get your supplies, and you have to call them and be like, hey, the Dexcom sensor. I'll give you one back whenever I get my supplies. And you know, that's that. That's, that's really cool. I hate that we all have it. But it makes it a lot easier when you can do things like that.

Scott Benner 22:29
So you find yourself sitting around sometimes looking at one of your sister's blood sugars in like kind of a thoughtful way. Like, what I wonder what she should be doing or what's going wrong here, etc. What is she doing? Right? Yes? Do you ever find yourself more interested in their blood sugar than yours? No. Okay, that's a fair

Megan 22:48
No, I. So I just had my second son. He'll be two months old on the 31st graduation. And so thank you, that was a big deal was to make sure that my blood sugar's were where they needed to be because it wasn't just for myself. It was for them. And so when I had my first one, I started paying a lot more attention. And you know, making sure that like I said, my blood sugar's were in the right spot for him, not for me. He was depending on me, and I need to lead them in the right way and get everything on the numbers that they needed to be for him to succeed and be well on his way. And rambunctious little guy just running around with no cares in the world.

Scott Benner 23:38
Well, he's got to ride a horse one day, it sounds like

Megan 23:40
he's been on them.

Scott Benner 23:43
So what did you do during your pregnancy? That that mean? Did you get this success that you were hoping for?

Megan 23:49
I did. Um, so my first one I went to was about 5.0 the whole time. And my second one, it was 4.9. To my OB his son is a type one. And so that's why they kind of over at our Endo, they kind of encouraged us to go see him. And he's also great. And so when I started going there, he's like, Yeah, your blood sugars are pretty good. And then when I went to 4.9, he's like, Well, that's pretty low. I don't know if we want it that bad. Well, no, that's fine. And so then he started saying he's like, Well, high blood sugars cause more birth defects. He's like low blood sugars don't really cause any. Well then my endo was like 4.9 it's too low. We need to get it out. We need to get it up. So I mean, there was that but still, it was pretty stable. First one wasn't.

Scott Benner 24:44
How did you how did you make that happen? What did you just get very aggressive with your insulin? Did you change your diet? Like what did you do?

Megan 24:50
I'm just a lot more aggressive with my insulin and obviously listen to your podcast and knowing about because Like I told you in my email, I've been diabetic for a long time. But I've learned a lot just listening to what other people are saying, or, you know, the episodes that you're doing to help. No, I moved my high alert 120. And I started paying attention to the Pre-Bolus to see when I should actually do it. Just different things like that. Put a lot more effort into and before I was pregnant by a onesie was 6.0 Maybe. So it wasn't like, that was good. I went from eight till to a 4.9. Yeah, you know, so it was still pretty good. But like I said, once, I found out I was pregnant, it was it was actually my Endo, who did the bloodwork and told me that I was for sure pregnant. And so once I found that out, my mindset changed. Like I said that it was for him. And it wasn't just for me, well, you

Scott Benner 26:03
got to keep your body in good shape, you have to have three more kids.

Megan 26:08
I don't know about that. My husband, every time anyone asked him how many kids he wants, he says 12. And I say you can have 12. But I'm not going to wait for that. Yeah, you can find some

Scott Benner 26:20
people maybe to get that. Right. Well, what is he Rockefeller? How much money he got? Who's paid for these

Megan 26:28
kids? Right? I don't know. If he just thinks you know, kids are free labor. I can help them with the cows and all the things we got going on. I really don't know. But he says that anytime anyone asked him?

Scott Benner 26:40
Do you have a farm? You or your husband? Yes, we,

Megan 26:43
we have some, some pastures that are ours. And then we have some lease pastures and Cows and dogs and all the good stuff.

Scott Benner 26:53
Do you make a living with the farm?

Megan 26:56
Um, we, we just have that kind of as a side deal. We do make money off of it. But we also work. Other I mean, we are self employed. So it's not like, we have these nine to five jobs or anything. But we do make part of our part of our living off of it. Yes.

Scott Benner 27:15
That's really excellent. Yeah, tell your husband, you cannot make 12 babies and your is your oldest boy or girl?

Megan 27:22
Boy, they're both boys, boys.

Scott Benner 27:24
But a B. So do you worry about them having I mean, all three of your sisters have diabetes? Do you worry about them having diabetes? Or do you just like? How do you think?

Megan 27:35
Yes, it's obviously always in the back of my mind. So our oldest it was, we were about to have to take him to just a regular checkup. And he was he always wanted water always wanted water. And of course, red flags are coming. And so I tell my doctor, I'm like, you've got to do a blood test on him. I can I have one in my bag. But I don't, I don't know, if I didn't want him. You know, I didn't want to prick his finger. Or if I didn't want to see the results myself. So that terrified me. So she checked it. And she's like, I just want to let you know, it's probably not probably just thirsty, am I? Who knows. But he you know, his blood sugar was fine. But it's like, it's always in the back of my mind, which I know. I've read, you know, the some books about it and things like that. So I know that the female being a type one is the less chance for the children to get it. And then also, since I was over 25, when I was pregnant, then that chance also goes down for them.

Scott Benner 28:48
So there's what did you read? I mean, that's interesting. I've never heard that. So that's really interesting.

Megan 28:52
I thought it was in Jenny's book in Jenny's book

Scott Benner 28:56
is about it. You

Megan 28:58
I'm not don't quote me on that. Because I'm not positive if that was the one that I read it in. Or if it was something else,

Scott Benner 29:05
no, I find out that's that's really interesting. But that.

Megan 29:09
I said, That's what I read. And so it gives you a comment helps me out. Yes. But like I said, it's always in the going to it will always be in the back of my mind which my oldest sister has two kids. Neither one of them are diabetic. My middle sister has a daughter and she's not diabetic either. And so those also help that I'm like, well, they aren't they don't have it. So maybe my voice won't either.

Scott Benner 29:34
Yeah, well, I hope not. So your your sisters have kids as well. Yes, both of them. Okay. How about your brothers? Did your brothers have any children?

Megan 29:43
I'm one of them has he has a daughter and then he has stepped up

Scott Benner 29:47
and there's no diabetes there. Anybody have thyroid issues or anything see?

Megan 29:53
Me and the oldest sister we have some thyroid issues. You know I have to be on the thyroid medication for but other than that it's really not much of anything. I didn't I think my grandma and my uncle had some problems with their liver. My grandma died from cirrhosis of the liver, which was not caused by alcohol. So I mean, other than that, other than that, no. All right, I'm lucky. Yes.

Scott Benner 30:30
You guys are just less than I've started to feel that way sometimes, too. Oh, my gosh, how many things can go wrong with people? You know?

Megan 30:37
Yeah, when I was younger, it used to kind of aggravate me that I was a diabetic and that my brother wasn't. But my mom, you should tell me that, you know. We only got it because we could handle it. And they couldn't. And I was like, You're right. He could not handle this, which is not true. But whenever I was six, that was for sure. The truth? It made me feel better. Yeah. Yes, I could do it. And he can't just couldn't. So that's why he didn't get it.

Scott Benner 31:07
What does that aggravation feel like because I just interviewed a 14 year old yesterday. And I asked him if he was bothered, that his siblings didn't have and he said, No, it didn't matter to him. But what was it just like when it got frustrating? You're like, Well, why is this happening to me and not everybody else?

Megan 31:23
Yes, um, it was probably mainly. So when I got my first insulin pump. It was a summer going into my fifth grade year. And that's when they were pretty new. And the cannula was, I don't know, it felt like five inches, it obviously wasn't but, and then also went in at an angle. And I was very tiny. And so every time I would go in and would like, hit a muscle or hit something and bend. Also, we were going to a big rodeo that we'd go to in Colorado Springs in the summer. And I was so sick, because my blood sugar was, you know, the pump wasn't working right, and we couldn't figure it out. And that's pretty much mainly the time that it got. So aggravating was because he could go and have fun and do all the stuff that we do, you know, at that rodeo that we'd go to every year and I literally just had to sit in the camper because my blood sugar was going so crazy. For the most part, it didn't bother me. And I've never gone through this stage where I'm like, I don't want to be a diabetic. So I'm just not going to take care of myself, or middle sister did, she did go through that stage, she now has a glass eye because of it. And so maybe seeing that happen to her made me realize, oh, just because you does you don't want it doesn't mean it goes away. And you still have to take care of yourself to prevent things like that from happening. And so, like I said, I didn't obviously when I was little it was I probably did get aggravated at him. But for the most part, it wasn't too bad. You know, I wasn't just angry that I had the disease. And that may have had a lot of dealings with that my sisters had it also. So if I was mad that I had it, then I had to be mad that they had it also. But they weren't. You know, at that time, they weren't mad about it. So I didn't need to be

Scott Benner 33:36
When did your sister did she? Did she always ignore it? Or was there a spot in her life when

Megan 33:44
there was Yep, a spot not her life. Just a few I don't even know if it was a few years but she just got it got a boyfriend she was you know in are probably 18 or 19 and just didn't just didn't want to take care of it didn't want to be diabetic. And obviously now she regrets it might majorly and she knows that all the issues that she has was her own fault. Pretty much that you know, she did that to herself back in her younger days, but she's doing a lot better now.

Scott Benner 34:22
Yeah, people shouldn't have to pay with an AI to learn a life lesson. You know? It's Yes, I'm sorry. But you say it did value there was value in her struggle for you because you just were like, oh, okay, I can't ignore this. I'm just not going to write. How about your older sister? Is she? How old? How old was your oldest sister when she was diagnosed? You know?

Megan 34:46
She was nine.

Scott Benner 34:47
She was nine. How about the next one? Sorry. And then you were three as well? Yes, yeah. Okay. Do any of you have children? Do any of them have daughters that are older than three?

Unknown Speaker 35:01
Yes. Both of them.

Scott Benner 35:02
Do they have older than nine year olds? Yep. Okay. Okay.

Megan 35:07
The oldest one her daughter's 28. And the other one hers is 20.

Scott Benner 35:14
Do you guys ever consider doing trial net for the kids?

Unknown Speaker 35:18
No, no,

Scott Benner 35:19
we haven't you want to know?

Megan 35:22
I don't know.

Scott Benner 35:24
It's a hard question.

Megan 35:25
I would, right? Yeah, I would psych myself out so many different times, if I'm probably if I knew there was a chance, rather than just trying to live our lives and, you know, be able to enjoy them. And then if it comes up, it comes up. I know how to deal with it. I knew, you know, I know how to live with being the type one and so I could teach them which. Honestly, it will be very different to being the mother of one, rather than being myself. I will probably, I would cry a lot more than I do just for myself,

Scott Benner 36:08
probably beginning to cry about diabetes stuff. Get overwhelming? No, not really anymore. had in the past?

Megan 36:20
Um, yeah, it used to, like I said, when I was in college, it's, it's not like I was a party anymore. I've never had alcohol or drugs ever in my entire life. So it's not like I just got off on, you know, drugs and alcohol and college and my blood sugar went crazy. But I guess it was just late nights and things like that, that would make my blood sugar kind of go a little, little different than they are now. And so then it would, it would be aggravating just that I was always having to do something different to take care of it. Yeah. When the same things weren't working.

Scott Benner 37:00
But no break. Like you didn't have any, like real breakdowns where it just know kind of crushed? No,

Megan 37:05
not really.

Scott Benner 37:09
My question just flew out of my head, that since I've been thinking of this question for 10 minutes, how is it possible that now that I needed, it's not there. It's very disappointing, Meghan. Alright. So while I find my question, can you tell me a little bit about what you've taken out of the podcast, it's been valuable for you.

Megan 37:28
I think the number one thing really is changing your high alert to the 120. Because obviously, it makes so much sense. Now, when you you know, when I heard you say it, you know, change it, change it to 120, because it's going to take you less time, and lessons learned to get it back to where you want it to be, rather than when it alerts you at 150 or 180. And when you said that, I really just wanted to hit myself in the head and be like, go, Hello. Why didn't you think of that?

Scott Benner 38:04
Yeah, that's so cool. That it's such a simple idea, right? But if you don't get high, you won't get high. So just Yeah, rapid before it.

Megan 38:12
Doesn't You're right. And I really think that helped a lot in my pregnancy. Was that it? And one time? I know, my answer, I guess had messed up in the middle of the night. And I didn't wake up to it. I didn't wake up feeling tired or whatever. And when I did wake up, I think my budget was 250. And that, okay, I lied, I bawled my eyes out, like freaked out, because my blood sugar was 250 for, you know, six hours or whatever. And I never took care of it to take care of my baby. And I just instantly knew something was gonna be wrong with them. And I was like, I had high blood sugar. Oh, my goodness. So I talked to my mom, my sisters, and they're like, calm down. It's fine. If your blood sugar wasn't that, you know, it wasn't above 600 for six months, it was it was only a short time, it's not gonna affect anything. Just get it back down and everything will be pretty fine, you know? But at that moment, my husband was working out of town. So I was home alone with our oldest one and it just it was like I was a failure as a mom at that moment because I didn't check in make sure that my blood sugar was not high in the middle of the night while sleeping.

Scott Benner 39:41
Any any. Do you think that might be some like pregnancy hormones to like the reaction?

Megan 39:46
Yeah, probably. Yeah. I cried a lot when I was pregnant and my husband, he's like, what's wrong away? I'm so happy. It doesn't feel like that. Oh, yes, I am. And he's like, okay,

Scott Benner 40:00
If he wants to 10 more times, does he? So I, you know, it's funny, I said, Can you tell me about this? And you were three words into it. And I instantly thought of what I wanted to ask you. And I was like, That's amazing, my stupid brain. But my question I've been dying to know, the whole time is, you kept such an amazing agency during the pregnancy. How has it been afterwards?

Megan 40:24
Um, it was, I think five one went a couple of weeks ago, when I went to my Endo. And then after my other son, it never went above six, I think it was 5.2. Maybe one up to 5.7. Between having the two of them. They're only two years apart. So not even two years apart.

Scott Benner 40:51
You've got a system now like, you know what you're doing.

Megan 40:54
I feel like it's, I've got it down pretty good. But then the way type one is you get I mean, you're like, you're like, I've got it figured out. And then boom, there.

Scott Benner 41:07
Something could change in your body, physiologically, or you know about your exercise routine or stuff like that, but you can still adjust to that. I'm saying I know you don't want to jinx it, but you're doing really well. Like it's Yeah, I feel like it yes, no kidding.

Megan 41:21
I'm proud of it. And my husband, he will take all the credit. Before we I mean, we've been together for seven years. And before we got together, you know, there was just like, oh, yeah, my blood sugar is fine. It's fine. Oh, you're eating a pancake. Oh, good. I'll have a few bites. It's fine. You know, whatever. And he and I used to love pop tarts. That's probably terrible. But I loved Pop Tarts, fried Pop Tarts.

Scott Benner 41:51
Firstly, hold on just a second. You took me by surprise. You said a lot of things that I'm not like accustomed to like with rodeo and stuff like that. But you fry a pop tart.

Megan 42:01
I actually got it at a big rodeo in Canada. in Calgary. Yes, it is a it's a pop tart fried and pancake batter, which is probably the worst thing a diabetic could ever have. Wait, wait,

Scott Benner 42:15
wait, wait. So wait. So I take the pop tart. I dip it in pancake batter, and then I put it in the hot grease? Yes. So it's like a pancake with a pop tart center?

Megan 42:28
Yes, it is absolutely delicious. Yes, it was. Like I said probably the worst thing for diabetic because pop tarts are a bajillion carbs, and sugar.

Scott Benner 42:43
And they hit really hard. They're not even committed to their carb count. They're really tough the Bolus for

Megan 42:48
Yes, yes, they are. And so when he got I guess brave enough to be like, Look, we will have to make some changes here. That's probably when I first started like paying attention a little bit more. Okay, is when he started talking about it.

Scott Benner 43:06
He talked about like, more healthy eating. Yes, he was like,

Megan 43:10
no Pop Tarts. Absolutely not. You cannot have those anymore. And I have not had a pop tart. And I couldn't tell you. I see him at the grocery store. And they look phenomenal.

Scott Benner 43:22
Mega we got a guy just walked by. Yeah, that's good. So two things. A list and Pop Tarts aren't good for anybody. Let's just say that. You know, it just they they make diabetes difficult if you're using insulin for certain, or I guess if you were type two as well, but um, but is he like a better eater? Like has he seemed more healthy? Like it was? Like, are you eating Pop Tarts while he's having brussel sprouts and a piece of chicken or like,

Megan 43:50
did he do he was really a huge fan of honey buns. Um, but he doesn't really, he really doesn't like sweets. He is actually the cook in the family who loves to cook and he cooks really? Well. We try not to tell him because his head gets really big. But he does cook really well. And we're from the South and in Louisiana so we eat rice with like, pretty much every meal. So it's not like he's a healthy either, but I guess he doesn't like sweets for one and then he realized that those are really really bad for me. Like hey, maybe you shouldn't have those. And then he would just like in a loving way want my blood sugar to be the best just so that I would feel better and all this stuff. And so yeah, I do. I do not usually give him the credit but he deserves some of it.

Scott Benner 44:51
Well, I don't want to push you down a road but what's your favorite pop tart?

Megan 44:55
Strawberry,

Unknown Speaker 44:56
strawberry. hotter. That's

Megan 44:57
the one all right

Scott Benner 45:00
Oh, crunchy. So

Megan 45:02
once they fried, so the one I actually had, it gets worse and worse. It was the fried Pop Tart. And then they put like whipped cream on top with Fruity Pebbles. And so it Yeah, it was terrible Canadian. Yes. It's like the festival you know like the huge you have on the rads and all this stuff the Calgary Stampede. And so they had the fried oreos fried ice cream fried butter, and all that fun stuff.

Scott Benner 45:37
Where you butter? Yeah, it's

Megan 45:40
it's weird and ice cream. I don't understand how they do it. I have never tasted either. So um,

Scott Benner 45:46
how would you like the butter hits the it's got to be frozen, right? You put frozen butter into the how the hell do you fry butter? Isn't butter, just grease that hasn't been melted yet?

Megan 45:57
Yeah. It's confusing, but people do it.

Scott Benner 46:00
Probably a wizard living in Canada that figure that out. I have to be honest, I've never had any of the things you've just said. As you're saying them. I don't want them. But I don't like greasy stuff to begin with. Like anything deep, deep fried is not really my speed. But that's, that's really interesting. Okay, so. So you're not having trouble managing your blood sugar's after the pregnancy. Like sometimes people come on and talk about like, I was able to take care of it during pregnancy. But after the baby came, I got so busy and like I kind of forgot about myself. But you're you're staying on top of it.

Megan 46:38
Yes. So this one, um, the first, my first one, my blood sugar would drop and crazy amount. breastfeeding him. So I could it could be 120 When I start feeding him. And by the end of his feed. It's like 60. And so when I went back to my Endo, after I had him or had my second one, we kind of tweak some things. And it hasn't been like that now, the past few days. If it's, you know, my budget or some, you know, fat over Bolus because I'm actually working at a rodeo right now. And so it's there's a lot going on. But if I over Bolus and I'm working and don't finish my food and enough time before the Bolus hits, and it starts going down like one little one little baby piece of chocolate to try to get it up and level out. It just shooting it straight up. So that's something that I need to work on. I don't know what I don't know what could cause that or what settings I need to change because it doesn't make sense. But for the most part, it has been pretty easy for me to to take care of and stay on track. I guess just because I'd still just want to make sure I take care of myself for them. Ya know that they don't deserve me to not take care of myself or to not pay enough attention to be able to take care of myself. So

Scott Benner 48:17
you're a good mom.

Megan 48:19
Thank you. Yeah. And the oldest one Mike said he's, he's rambunctious Hogan, he loves to be on the move. And like Buck Buck with pillows and watch tractors go around in circles for hours. And

Scott Benner 48:34
you don't just release them in the wild. If you have them. Right. You keep them in the house.

Megan 48:38
Yeah, for the most part. He's released a lot.

Scott Benner 48:44
Because I was like, maybe she's just like putting them out in that pasture. And then they're not. Yeah, but

Megan 48:47
yeah, they can take care of themselves. You you refer

Scott Benner 48:51
to the end of breastfeeding is like the end of feeding time. And that was hilarious. I didn't laugh because you were being so genuine when you're talking about that was between tending diabetes and referring to the kids like cattle like for feeding. Like this is how I love this. I love Well,

Megan 49:07
I will tell you, my husband says. So my breastfeeding journey ended at four months with my first one and he says, this one's gonna be better because I was fattened up a little bit more before I had this one. And then you always they always produce milk better on their second one. So when, you know, when they're a heifer and they're pregnant, the milks not that good. But their second one, they produce more milk. So your husband refers to all of us as cattle.

Scott Benner 49:39
You're all just cattle in his mind, just so he took what he knew about how cattle produce milk and explained did that your breastfeeding is gonna go differently because of this.

Megan 49:48
Yes, yes. It's gonna be way better than some. So we'll see.

Scott Benner 49:53
I want to make sure I understand. The first time you were a heifer. Yes. What is the hell? What's the designation for half What does that mean?

Megan 50:01
A heifer is a female calf that has not had a cow yet. Haven't has not had a calf yet. Okay. And so once they have a calf than they are now a cow.

Scott Benner 50:12
Okay. Right. So So you're a heifer if you've never had a baby and your cow once you have had one. Yes. Interest, so your account now so since you're a cow, your milk is gonna be better.

Megan 50:26
Yep. Now as a little fatter, you gotta fattened up before,

Scott Benner 50:31
you gotta make sure he doesn't throw you on a milking machine and try to make money off do you fall asleep? You wake up here and click, click, click Like you're like, Whoa, whoa, hold on. Hold on. What's happening? Yeah, that's a loving thing. Right? For people up north who hear this? Like he's not commenting on your weight. It's literally just

Megan 50:49
No, no, no, as genuine and loving as he can be.

Scott Benner 50:54
That's excellent. If you have more than one calf, you just always a cow. Yes. How do you think it would go? If I referred to my wife as a cow today? Without explaining this conversation? We're not? Well, not Well,

Megan 51:07
I would advise against that.

Scott Benner 51:10
Yeah, I'm not going to do that. I was just wondering what you thought like, what level of lamp do you think would come at my head? If I was like, talking to Megan day, and her husband says you're a cow. Yeah, without context, I think it gets ugly. Yeah, I would definitely die in that conversation. Yeah. Well, does your have your three siblings who have diabetes? Would you call your your management the tightest, or no? Yes. Did they ever ask you about it? Because they can see your CGM? Yes. What do they want to know? Yeah.

Megan 51:46
I'm just on like the changes that need to be made on their settings. You know, like, Hey, can you look and see if my, you know if my correction needs to be changed, or if it's actually my carb ratio that needs to be changed. And so we'll go through stuff like that, and kind of work on figuring figuring it out. Before, we have to call our endo and get his opinion on it.

Scott Benner 52:16
What? Do they listen to the bar? Guest?

Megan 52:21
I think they do some but not as much as I do.

Scott Benner 52:24
Has that ever been your answer? Have you ever been like you should just listen to this? Yes.

Megan 52:29
I've told him multiple times. I'm always

Scott Benner 52:31
trying to understand. By the way, I have to get this thought out of my head before I go down this road. Do you think I could get away with calling the episode Megan as a cow? I couldn't, right? There'd be backlash from many different feminine groups and things like that. I would know probably

Megan 52:45
would I get? Yeah. Okay. So we're not gonna either do that. Or fried.

Scott Benner 52:49
Fried Pop Tarts? Yeah, that's a pretty good one, too. That's a really good one. You might have just done it. Okay. So I'm trying to understand not about your sister specifically. But in general, I was just having this conversation. Actually, before I got on with you, I was having a conversation with one of the people who facilitates one of the ads that I have on the podcast. And I was talking about a thing that I wanted to do to help people and I was looking for funding for it. And we were having a bigger conversation. And during that conversation, I said, it's hard to get, it's hard to do a good thing for people like you, you have to talk them into it sometimes. And they're right. I said to her, I was like, there are times I want to just like grab people and go, Listen, I'm going to do this thing for you. Now. It's going to help you like just accept it. You know what I mean? Like, because sometimes it just, it's not that easy. Like making the information available, isn't enough, sometimes making it accessible and easy to listen to? is not enough. Sometimes Sometimes people I've had people tell me, I don't have time to listen to the podcast. And I'm like, why don't understand you're wasting, in my opinion, so much of your life fighting with diabetes, like just make a few hours here and there. And then you don't have to have that fight anymore when it's over. But it's not that easy to get through to people. And I don't know why. I mean, I haven't given up on trying to figure it out. But it's frustrating.

Megan 54:11
Yeah, I could imagine it is true. Just to give them the information, like you said readily available doesn't always work. It's not enough pushing them to, to try and listen to it. I forever just think harder. Yeah, I

Scott Benner 54:26
forever. Just think of one person who responded to me. I said, Look, you know, I've put a lot of my life and time and effort into creating these episodes here. I think if you just listen through them, your answers are in there plus, way more, you'll just it'll be easier for you and she's like, can't you just explain it to me? Like, well, I mean,

Megan 54:46
I did in all of these episodes.

Scott Benner 54:49
I did already Yeah, it's there. Like just go listen, but too much. And so right. You know, I don't know. Like, I don't want to think that some people are beyond Hold on. Second, I'm sorry. That's a time of year. I don't want to think that people are beyond help, because I think everybody could figure it out. And I do think the information would reach most people. I just I don't know. Like, I mean, it can't be my job to chase people around one at a time. But do you ever feel responsible for your sisters? Do you ever feel that you know something? And why won't they just do it? Or listen? Or does that ever come up to you?

Megan 55:30
Yes, I've actually, for them. And for my OB, I actually, I guess, before I knew you had a list of all the defining diabetes episodes and things like that. And the Pro Tip series, I went through and made a list of them. I was like, Look, you don't have to listen to, you know, like this, like, just, this is about my life. I'm not really gonna teach anyone about anything right here,

Scott Benner 55:57
I think. But okay.

Megan 55:59
But, you know, I'm like, if you at least listen to these. They're teaching you a lot of things that will affect your diabetes and how you manage it and all this stuff. So like, if you're only going to listen to some, then listen to these. Yeah, I agree with that. Which, you know, I don't like said I don't really know how many they have listened to. They, they do have better control of it. Within the last couple of years. I'm not saying that's because I decided that I needed better control over mine. Or what really pushed him to, to understand think about it more. But yeah, nowadays.

Scott Benner 56:43
It's excellent. I am. I agree with you to like, I think the podcast is entertaining. I enjoy it. Like I'm I'm really enjoying talking to you. I think people would really enjoy listening to this. But everybody doesn't want this conversational stuff. Some people really do just want the management stuff, and they want to be gone. And I understand. I think there's a lot to be learned from the conversations. But if you just want to do the management stuff, I get why you would feel that way. But I mean, it's out there it and it's the guy stand behind it that those pro tip episodes that defining diabetes, even like the new variables, that kind of stuff is you're not going to get that kind of information from a doctor. Right? It's just very helpful. So excuse me. I want to make sure is there anything that we haven't talked about that you wanted to I don't want to get through an hour and have missed something? No, why did you want to come up?

Megan 57:41
I feel like now I made my husband sound like a jerk. But he really is he really

Scott Benner 57:47
worried about? Yes, I

Megan 57:49
after I said that. I was like man, people are gonna think why is she married as someone who talks to her about like, she's a cow, but

Scott Benner 57:58
talk to you like you're a cow. He's using colloquialisms? Yeah, they're part of the Yeah,

Megan 58:02
that's what I mean. He does is explaining to me as something that he already knows about. Sounds like me. And maybe I should have said that. But he really is very loving.

Scott Benner 58:14
How I took it. I actually took it like maybe breastfeeding the first time was difficult. And that he was trying to comfort you and tell you that it was probably going to be better this time. Yeah. That was that was it in his own way. Exactly. I thought it was terrific. I took it as loving. And I took it as I mean, I took it as an insight into your life. I didn't take it as like he's some bad guy running around calling you a cow. And I mean, like,

Megan 58:43
why is she still with him?

Scott Benner 58:45
Well, obviously, because you still have to have 10 more of his babies. You can't leave. Yeah. I do think he's wrong about that, by the way.

Megan 58:54
Yeah, yeah, I don't. We're just gonna let him think what he wants to think for now.

Scott Benner 59:02
I think if you get keep that thought in his head, you're gonna start keeping a stick next to the bed that you're going to hit. Like, no, no, no. Like, I'm not having 12 babies.

Unknown Speaker 59:14
Exactly. Babies.

Scott Benner 59:16
I wouldn't want. I wouldn't want to be responsible for 12 oranges. I would be afraid they'd go bad before I could eat them. Yeah. How did your mom now that you guys are older? Do you ever talk to your mom about your diabetes? Does she still worry about it?

Megan 59:34
Yes, yes. Especially since she can see all of our ducks calms. She still does worry about it a lot. I sometimes turn mine off. Because I have a husband that lives in the house with me. So as my blood sugar's go low in the middle of the night, and I don't wake up on my own. He's going to wake me up. Yeah, you know, and so sometimes I don't want my mom to have to know about it, I guess Sure. Because I'm like, I can take care of it. Now, when I'm home alone, then I'll you know, turn it back on for just in case I don't wake up. And they wake up and call me and say, hey, you know, maybe you should check that out. But she still does worry about it a lot. And my dad even he'll wake up in the morning and say, Okay, who was the culprit last night? Who was it? Was it? Yes. He's like, who was it last night that made all this noise.

Scott Benner 1:00:40
But they want to know that it's so Parliament's for safety, but part of it is because it's just ingrained in them right, like worrying about you guys. And, and, and staying on top of it. Yeah, I think I get that. I also understand you wanting to have privacy from it, too. But do you think she understands it at all? Like, does your mom get the whole CGM thing? Is she following along still?

Megan 1:01:07
Yes, yeah, she, when we first got them, you know, we kind of explained a lot of things to her. And just like stuff on your podcast, when I tell her I'm like, oh, you know, this is what I learned. And she does kind of like me just like, oh, well, yeah, that makes a lot of sense to do. You know, to do it that way to catch this or whatever. So she still wants to learn about it. And wants to help us in any way that she can.

Scott Benner 1:01:38
Sweet. That's really nice. Yeah, makes me feel good. She's.

Unknown Speaker 1:01:42
She's a good lady.

Scott Benner 1:01:44
She's not bothered by it either. It just seems no. Yeah. It's really excellent. Well, you seem like a good mom. It seems like you had a good mom. So make sense, right?

Megan 1:01:55
Yeah. I hope I can be half the mom she is. Well,

Scott Benner 1:01:58
I'm sure you will be I'm sure you'll do much better. I'm sure you'll take what you learned from her and, and build on top of it. I'll try to Are you worried that you won't be a good mom?

Megan 1:02:10
Ah, no, not really. I just know how much my mom has done for us. And anytime I have any questions or need anything at all that show for sure. Be there and I plan to be the exact same way for my boys. So I don't I don't think I will be a bad mom. I just want I just have a lot of big shoes to fill.

Scott Benner 1:02:35
You have such high regard for your mom. You think it's it's a you might have difficulty living up to what she's done? Yes. I bet you won't. But that's really sweet. That's excellent. I like you, Megan. This is fun. I think you were wrong about the Strawberry Pop Tarts. But I think otherwise, it's

Megan 1:02:56
like what popular decent person?

Scott Benner 1:02:59
No, I just mean picking strawberry first. I think I would have chosen like what Pop Tart would I go to right now if I was having a pop tart? Brown sugar.

Megan 1:03:11
I mean, when I was younger, it was a hot fudge sundae when I didn't even now. Yeah, now I'm just straight shrub right now. My oldest one, he loves the little NutriGrain bars with the strawberry. So it's basically like a pop tart. It's just a lot better for him than an actual

Scott Benner 1:03:36
healthier pop out. Yes,

Megan 1:03:38
they do. They do have some kind of like, sugar free pop tart. I don't know if it's good or not. And I've thought about ordering it a couple of times. I haven't. But I feel like the NutriGrain bars. Those are pretty. They're still pretty good. And I feel like they're not as terrible for us. So what he does, and we pretend like they're Pop Tarts.

Scott Benner 1:04:06
You guys should basically be eating lettuce at home because when you go to the rodeo, you're going to eat something horrible. You need to bounce. Yes. I think one of the most shocking things you told me is that Canadians are peddling terrible food to people. That's why it's cat is Canada's a big the roadies are big in Canada, right. Yeah. Yeah. I wonder why that is.

Megan 1:04:32
Their big. A lot of places that people don't say they think if you rodeo you're definitely from Texas. Which you know, they honestly that's where most most people in America. They think that's it. You rodeo you're from Texas. They don't understand. I mean like Florida when you think of Florida What do you think of beaches, Disney World? Florida has more horses and cattle and More than any other state. Yeah, people don't understand that. They just don't know

Scott Benner 1:05:05
Florida is a southern state like at its core for sure. Like it's just yeah, it has it just happens to be on a sunny. Just have sunny. Yeah, that's that's 100% certain I think of Florida's like Texas with a beach.

Megan 1:05:21
Yep, that's pretty much it. Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:05:23
Okay. All right. Hey, I just have a last question for you. I'll let you go. What do you do in the rodeo?

Megan 1:05:31
I don't compete anymore. I used to rope. So on a horse, chasing the calf, and rope it, and then my rope breaks off in the calf runs away. Like because he's having a great time.

Scott Benner 1:05:46
Were you any good at it?

Megan 1:05:48
I'm not gonna say I was very good. No, no, my brothers are. My brothers are great. Did

Scott Benner 1:05:53
you enjoy it?

Megan 1:05:55
Yes, I did. Yeah. But now I so now like I said, I'm working on radio right now. Now I work for photographer. So he takes pictures of the rodeo events. And then I go in and take the pictures off of the card that he has put them on. And then I move them into different folders for each person. So that when they come up to look at their pictures, all they have to do is tell us their name. And they can look at every picture we've taken of them the whole time. And so we do this. We come to Perry, Georgia, twice a year, and then we go to just we go to Oklahoma, we go to Texas, Louisiana. We just go all over and do that. So that's that's what we're doing right now.

Scott Benner 1:06:45
Your husband rodeo. Yep, he used

Megan 1:06:47
to ride bulls.

Scott Benner 1:06:48
No kidding. That seems like a crazy thing to me.

Megan 1:06:52
It's pretty crazy. Yes. This whole right side is titanium. And then his bottom left half is titanium all so

Scott Benner 1:07:01
he's got a couple of plates and screws and things going on? Oh, yeah. He's got a lot. Yeah. Yeah, that that sounds like you just said to me, like he climbed on the back of a bear. And then held on to it. Like I just Yeah. But that's, that's fun. It's fun to watch. I'll tell you that much.

Megan 1:07:18
Yep. It's, it's exciting and also terrifying at the same time.

Scott Benner 1:07:23
Yeah, no kidding. All right. Well, I, I really appreciate you coming on and doing this. Thank you very much. Thank you have a good time.

Megan 1:07:32
Yes, did you I was nervous. pretty nervous at first, but then I was just like, oh, well, this is it. This is me. And did you know if it works, it works.

Scott Benner 1:07:45
What? What would you? And I've never asked anybody this before? Do you ever have? Did you have a concern that other people with diabetes wouldn't like your answers about diabetes? Or you didn't think of that?

Megan 1:07:56
Yes. Um, you know that. But I'm a warrior. And I want to please everyone. And so I do. I mean, obviously, I freaked out that I said, my husband talks about me like, he talks about a cow. So that made me think doubt was like, oh, man, I shouldn't say that. So yes, I do worry that people were like, Oh, why she, you know, why is she doing it that way? That's not the right way. She's supposed to do it this way, which, in actuality, we all have our different ways of tending, sorry, tending to it. Sorry.

Scott Benner 1:08:38
You're getting you'll miss attending to diabetes. Again, I would have loved that. Meghan, come on.

Megan 1:08:44
Yes. You know, we all have our different ways to attend to the issues that come up with our disease. And just because the way I tend to mine is not the way that challenge tends to the IRS does not mean that I'm right, or they're right. It just, is what works for us. And

Scott Benner 1:09:04
imagine, imagine if I would have thought that if I would have said no, I don't want to say what I do, because I'd be afraid that people would disagree with it, then none of this would exist.

Megan 1:09:14
Right? I wouldn't have had so much success from now, you know, almost changing the way that I viewed the disease, I guess and took care of it. And I want to have a four point on a one. See when I was pregnant.

Scott Benner 1:09:30
Yeah. Did you name the kid after me?

Megan 1:09:33
I did it. It was one. It was a top runner, but we'll make the

Scott Benner 1:09:40
Hey, people are buying people are getting vanity license plates. That's a juice box on it now. So that's just as good as it may be to me. Yeah, absolutely. I've there's three now. Pennsylvania, Indiana, and Ohio. People have gotten box license plates. I did. and ask anybody to do it. They just did it. I'm very, I'm oddly very proud of it. Yes, you should be. I don't know why. But I'm like, I didn't expect when I started a podcast that one day people would be like, you know, I'm going to put the name of this podcast on my license plate made me feel like I have to do it. Like, what if somebody in New Jersey gets it before? I do? Yeah, maybe I have to.

Megan 1:10:21
Yep. Well, I

Scott Benner 1:10:22
thought you did a great job. And I give everything that you shared, I want to be clear that I think if people wouldn't come on and share how they really feel that the podcast would be valueless. So it's not important for people to agree with each other. It's important to hear different ideas. And then you can either say no, I'm good with what I'm doing. Or Wow, she made a good point about that. And no, I, that thing you talked about about setting 120 alarm for your CGM. I believe that in my heart, but I can't say it every day. You know what I mean? Are the podcasts repetitive or boring? Yeah. So you brought it up. So I'm thrilled that you did. Truth is, you set a high alarm at a lower level, you can respond sooner before your blood sugar gets higher, and use a smaller amount of insulin to stop the rise, which makes you less likely to have a low later, that sentence is really important. And I'm glad you brought it up today. So thank you very much.

Megan 1:11:18
Yeah, thank you for teaching it to me.

Scott Benner 1:11:21
Come on. This is something that popped into my head once and I was like that, then I tried it and it worked. And then you know is years later, I had somebody from Dexcom, like a scientist from Dexcom. Come on. And there's an entire they've done an entire study about that in the in the last couple of years, and it just holds true. You set those alarms at a certain spot, you will do better. That's it. So anyway, I am going to go I really appreciate you doing this. Could you hold on one second for me before you hang up? Yep, thank you.

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